How to win hemp was taught by our ancestors more than two thousand years ago.

　　There is an interesting passage in Laozi, "Governing the country with righteousness, using troops with strangeness, and taking the world with nothing." It is as big as running a country, as small as running a family and running an enterprise. How to govern? Governing the country with righteousness, what is righteousness? Usually, it is enough to teach children correct values and positive and positive life rules.

　　"Fighting with strangeness", what is strangeness? What others can't think of is called strangeness, which is wisdom. When will this soldier be used? When something goes wrong and needs to be dealt with, should we use wisdom to deal with it? Then take the world for nothing. Nothing, follow the original rules of people and things, let nature take its course and happen, usually nothing.

　　However, most of our families are often reversed. Do we teach others anything positive at ordinary times? Did you teach him the right truth and values? We may teach him methods, skills and so on, and then have no wisdom to deal with them when something happens.

　　Laozi tells us that "taking the world for nothing", is there a lot of things in our family at ordinary times? Ask the children not to eat this today, and ask them not to do that tomorrow. So many standards, so many selfish desires ... There was nothing, did we make a lot of things ourselves?

　　So when we learn the thinking of Laozi, it is extremely simple to manage a family well. At ordinary times, we only need to teach our children the correct values and the correct truth, and have the wisdom to deal with things when they happen, and keep nothing at ordinary times.

　　The same is true between husband and wife. Don't look for so many things if nothing happens. Just "positive" governance, what is positive? I wish I could give each other more care, pay more, care more and understand more. It's very simple.

　　Whether it is governing the country or the country, or managing an enterprise, it is the same. Therefore, we often say that if we want to improve our family, business, work and interpersonal relationships, it is very simple to govern ourselves with "righteousness", that is, to keep learning something positive, something that can improve our moral character and wisdom, and just don't make trouble at ordinary times.