What does the saying ＂Don't marry a pout when you marry a wife, and don't marry a heavenly fortress when you marry a Han＂ mean？ What is ＂pouting＂

　　Marriage is the most important thing in life, and it should not be underestimated, just as the ancients said, "In to be no.1, the wedding night was spent".

　　Marriage is an important milestone in life. For individuals and families, wedding night may be more important, because getting married is often the primary goal in people's lives. Family is the support of individuals and the foundation of career success, so it is very important to choose a marriage partner.

　　As the saying goes, "If you marry a wife, don't marry a pout, and if you marry a Han, don't marry a celestial fortress." What does it mean?

　　"Stubby mouth" was a criterion for the ancients to choose their wives. In ancient times, the family model was that the man was the master and the woman was the master. At home, women were responsible for the internal affairs of the whole family, including preparations for some important activities. Therefore, when choosing a wife, most of the time, virtuous, gentle and virtuous are required.

　　Especially for large families, when choosing a wife, they pay more attention to morality. Although appearance is not the decisive factor, it is also necessary to be generous and decent. After all, the hostess is the face of the family, and a good appearance adds a lot of color to the family.

　　The ancients often said that "the salary is wrong", and here "the salary is wrong" means that the face is uneven, that is to say, there are ugly things on the face. If the mouth has such a situation, it must be ugly. No matter in ancient times or in modern times, the first impression is very important, and the appearance is too ugly, which is likely to be rejected in blind date.

　　In addition, "Don't marry a pout" also implies that a woman should not be a nosy person. In ancient times, there were seven regulations, including "tongue" and "jealousy" as one of the conditions for divorcing a wife.

　　Therefore, the ancients also paid great attention to personality when they got married. Many people won't marry a woman who likes to pick fights or talk sarcastically.

　　Ancient people also paid attention to the right marriage. When the man chooses the woman, people are also choosing the man. When choosing a man, a large family hopes that the other person is a person who can "cultivate one's morality and rule the country", at least a man who can "establish a top family".

　　It is mentioned in the History of the Three Kingdoms that "the heaven and the mouth and ears of these two people are both ferocious", and the "heaven" here refers to the middle of a person's forehead between his eyebrows; In Zuo Zhuan, it is said that "the deep foundation should be firm", and the "foundation" here is to overlap the bricks and stones.

　　If a person is frowning every day, such a person is worried almost every day. For a large family, such a man is obviously not suitable, because he has no responsibility and sense of responsibility and can't bear the heavy responsibility of the family.

　　Life after marriage is the process of two people supporting a family together, and both men and women need to contribute their own strength to the family. Although it is an era of equality between men and women, in family life, there may still be a division of labor between the two sides, and one of them may need to pay more for the family.

　　If everyone cares only about their career and ignores their family, it is difficult for such a family to stay warm. To grow old together, we must tolerate, understand, encourage and support each other. Any behavior that is not conducive to unity may lead to the destruction of the family.

　　Marriage is a major event in life and needs to be treated with caution. Whether it is appearance or morality, it is very important to choose a suitable marriage partner. When dating, we should get to know each other carefully and discuss our future life and planning together.

　　Only on the basis of mutual respect, trust and support can married life be happier. Through joint efforts and dedication, mutual understanding and care, the flower of marriage can bloom forever.