Jia mu secretly arranged for Lin Daiyu's marriage three times, but why didn't she succeed once？ Lost to humanity

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　　Since ancient times, men have been married and women have been married.

　　After living in Rongguo Mansion, Lin Daiyu grew up with Baoyu under the care of Jia Mu. During this period, Jia Mu arranged for their marriage three times, but ultimately failed.

　　What's going on here?

　　1. According to three stories, Jia Mu arranged marriage for Lin Daiyu three times.

　　Grandmother Jia showed great concern for Lin Daiyu, and naturally she was very concerned about her marriage.

　　The first story happened in the twenty-fifth chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions.

　　Jia Baoyu was recovering at home. Lin Daiyu came to see him and met Li Wan, Wang Xifeng and Xue Baochai. Wang Xifeng begged Lin Daiyu to do something, but Lin Daiyu refused. With the help of giving Siam tea, Wang Xifeng joked, "Please, you are gossiping and eating tea. Since you have eaten our tea, why don't you be our wife? "After listening to all laughed.

　　Wang Xifeng dared to make such a joke. Naturally, Grandmother Jia had something in mind.

　　The second story happened in the fifty-fifth chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions.

　　During Wang Xifeng's convalescence, she mentioned the marriage of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu when planning the major events in the Rong Guo mansion. The original text is as follows:

　　"I'm also worried about this, but it's enough: once Baoyu and Sister Lin get married, they won't need the money from the official, and the old lady has her own ladder."

　　The whispers between Wang Xifeng and Pinger revealed that Grandmother Jia had some thoughts about Lin Daiyu's marriage.

　　The third story happened in the fifty-seventh chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions.

　　Aunt Xue and her daughter Xue Baochai went to see Daiyu. Xue Baochai joked that she wanted Lin Daiyu to be her brother Xue Pan's wife. Aunt Xue didn't agree, but took the initiative to say, I think your brother and old lady loved him so much and he was born like that. If you want to talk about it outside, you will never like it. Why don't you marry your sister Lin to him? Wouldn't it be all corners? "

　　Why did Aunt Xue say such a thing? On the surface, it was comfort, but in essence, Grandmother Jia did something.

　　The three stories are actually written without writing, which shows the "action" of Jia Mu through her actions.

　　Then, why did Jia Jia have no result?

　　Behind Jia Mu's inaction is helplessness.

　　Many people think that Jia Mu can decide Lin Daiyu's marriage. Xing er once said such a thing.

　　The sixty-sixth record of A Dream of Red Mansions:

　　When Xinger told Second Sister You about the situation of Rongguo Mansion, she said, "Miss Lin must have decided it in the future. Because Miss Lin is ill, and both of them are still young, it has not yet reached this point. In another three or two years, the old lady will start talking, and that is no longer allowed. "

　　As a matter of fact, Jia Mu can make decisions for Lin Daiyu, but not for Jia Baoyu.

　　The seventy-second record of A Dream of Red Mansions:

　　Entrusted by Caixia, Aunt Zhao privately asked Jia Zheng for help and wanted Jia Huan to take a concubine. Jia Zheng refused to say, "What are you busy with? It's not too late to let them go after studying for another year or two. I have taken a fancy to two maids, one for Baoyu and the other for Huan. I'm just young, and I'm afraid they'll miss the book, so I'll wait another year or two. "

　　Jia Zheng's words show that the final decision on his son's marriage is in Jia Zheng's hands.

　　Why did Jia Zheng go against Jia's wishes? Because Jia Yuanchun had a hint of marriage.

　　A dream of red mansions 23 back to record:

　　Jia Yuanchun sent Xia Shouzhong, the eunuch, to the Rong Guo Mansion to order everyone to move into the Grand View Garden. The original text is as follows:

　　Life Baochai and others just live in the garden, and they can't ban it. Bao-yu was ordered to go in and study.

　　Jia Yuanchun named Xue Baochai, and then on the eve of the Dragon Boat Festival, he gave a Dragon Boat Festival gift, suggesting that Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu had a good marriage.

　　Jia Yuanchun's will is very important, and so is Jia's idea. Lin Daiyu's physical condition eventually became the key factor in Jia Zheng's choice.

　　Lin Daiyu's physical condition is the fundamental reason why people can't make decisions for her marriage.

　　When Lin Daiyu first entered the Rong Guo mansion, everyone could see her shortcomings.

　　The third record in A Dream of Red Mansions: Everyone knew that she had a deficiency by looking at her romantic posture. After careful inquiry, Lin Daiyu said that she would take medicine when she could eat. At that time, Jia Mu ordered the pharmacy to fill the medicine and took good care of her.

　　Grandmother Jia thought that with the increase of age, Lin Daiyu's condition would improve, but contrary to expectations, Lin Daiyu's condition worsened year by year.

　　The twenty-eighth record of A Dream of Red Mansions:

　　When everyone was in Mrs. Wang's room, Mrs. Wang publicly asked about Lin Daiyu's medication and revealed that she had invited Dr. Bao Tai to Lin Daiyu. Lin Daiyu said it wasn't so good, and Grandmother Jia asked her to change back to the medicine of Doctor Wang.

　　Zhi Yanzhai criticized here: writing a medicine case is a gradual addition to the illness, not a casual article. It can be seen that Lin Daiyu's condition is getting worse. "

　　The body is the foundation of life. Jia Baoyu is the future of Rongguo Mansion, and Lin Daiyu's physical condition is not suitable for being the future hostess of Rongguo Mansion.

　　Good health determines a good marriage, a good marriage affects the future of a family, and a good family determines the direction of a family.

　　In the face of marriage, family, and family interests, Jia Mu could not put it into practice even though she thought about it a hundred times to make Lin Daiyu's marriage a success.

　　Note: This article is based on the 80th edition of Zhou Ruchang's Revised Notes on the Stone/A Dream of Red Mansions by Cheng Yiben/A Dream of Red Mansions (People's Literature Publishing House).