When the bride got married, she passed by her parents' graveyard and bowed down. The groom said it was unlucky and left, so the bride decided not to marry.

　　Every normal person will never forget the kindness of his parents' upbringing, which is exactly what he said. You raised me young, I raised you old, and my parents are old. Children should provide for their parents' old age, even if their parents are not alive, they should always worship and miss them.

　　Haiying in the village is a poor girl, because her mother died of illness when she was three years old. She lost her maternal love when she was young, but fortunately she had a kind father. It was her father who brought her up. Haiying remembers that when she was seven years old, someone introduced a woman to her father. The introducer said: You are a daughter, and your daughter will marry when she grows up. You should find a woman to give you a son, and someone will provide for your old age! Father said: now men and women are the same. Besides, what if finding a woman is bad for her daughter? Can't wronged the child.

　　Father refused to remarry and raised Haiying alone. My father was worried that no one would take care of Haiying when he went out to work, so he farmed and raised chickens at home, making Haiying live better than other girls in the village. At the age of 20, Haiying's father died from overwork, and Haiying cried sadly for several days.

　　After her parents died, Haiying, who is 20 years old, has been working outside for several years, and now she is 25 years old. Under the guidance of her uncle and aunt, she found a husband's family for Haiying. Naturally, her uncle and aunt are Haiying's family.

　　On the wedding day, my husband's family drove a convoy of ten cars, firecrackers exploded and suona exploded, which was very lively. Haiying got married from her uncle and aunt's house and got on the bus to pick up her relatives.

　　After the departure of the wedding convoy, Haiying has been depressed all the time. Those girls have their parents' blessings when they get married, but they don't! When the wedding motorcade was not far from the village, Haiying saw her parents' graves buried in her own field by the roadside. Her mother couldn't remember what it looked like, but her father's voice and smile came to her eyes. She suddenly burst into tears and stopped the car. She opened the car door and went straight to her parents' graves. Then she knelt by the grave and cried and said, Dad, Mom, my daughter got married today ...

　　This is a woman who has lost her family. It is unlucky to worship the dead on the big day. I don't want such a woman! The groom said angrily when he saw it. Then, the wedding motorcade left.

　　Haiying saw that the wedding motorcade had left. She went back to her uncle and aunt's house, took off her bride's dress and said to her uncle, I won't get married! After uncle asked the reason, he was silent.

　　After the groom's motorcade went back, his parents asked why he didn't pick up the bride. The groom told the story angrily, and his mother said: On this wedding day, so many guests have no face without the bride! Besides, it is filial piety for the bride to kowtow to her parents' graves on her wedding day. If there is anything unlucky, take it again!

　　When the groom's wedding motorcade arrived in front of Haiying's uncle's house again, Haiying's uncle said with a sigh: She said that you would not be happy after getting married, and I couldn't persuade her. When she got home, she took off her bride's dress and went out to work, saying that she would never see you again, and you would find a good girl to marry in the future!

　　In this way, because Haiying was in wedding date to worship his parents, a wedding was not completed. Some people say that the groom is wrong, others say that Haiying has a strong personality, but more people say that Haiying and the groom got married as matchmakers, and they have no emotional foundation at all. Even if they get married, they will not be happy.