Our spirit shapes our souls.

　　Ba Jin once said: "Those who always make peace with their real situation will not have their souls in their own hands." The significance of our soul lies in our unique personality, our unique thinking and our firm principles. It is our spirit that shapes our soul. When these things conflict with reality, how can we make peace with reality and compromise? In this way, I will no longer be me, our soul, and my own soul.

　　I am most afraid of doing nothing all my life, but I also comfort myself that it is ordinary and valuable. Everyone has different answers about how to spend this life. At different stages of the same person, the idea may be completely different. When I was young, I was thinking about the clothes, walking around the world with my sword, relying on my own legs, relying on my own courage, to see the majestic mountains and the beauty of Huangshan Mountain, to see the beautiful scenery of Dongting, "Sunset and lonely Qi Fei, the autumn waters are the same", and to go to hulun buir grassland to ride a fast horse and run wildly. When I am tired of walking, I will think that it would be wonderful if I could choose a city to die, find a white head, enjoy the prosperity of my life and enjoy a comfortable song.

　　If we choose a stable road, we may envy the grandeur of another road, and if we choose an uncertain road, we will envy the stability of a stable job. Perhaps what we envy is not the beauty of another road, but what we envy is what we don't have. Doing the right thing at the right age may be the best state. Study hard when it's time to study hard, go to the world when it's time to fight the sword, and be high-spirited when you are young and frivolous. When it is time to be calm, you should be calm, and when it is time to take responsibility, you should take your own responsibility.

　　Each of us is an independent individual, a completely independent individual with his own personality, thoughts and soul. There is such a classic line in "The Distant Savior": "People have to face two problems fundamentally, one is to survive, and the other is to answer the question of the value of life and find a safe place for their hearts. In order to survive, it is not a shameful thing to bow to reality and compromise. Each of us has our own future, but things are unpredictable, and everyone's family conditions are different. Of course, we all want to move towards our dream place, but it is forgivable to be forced by reality and bow to fate for a while. The terrible thing is that I have been compromising and bowing my head. Each of us has a different experience, so it is impossible to have the same life. It is better to cherish what you have than to envy what you don't have. Cherish what you already have, it is better to live your life according to your own ideas.