What do middle-aged women think after cheating？ 46-year-old woman： All for the family.

　　Foreword:

　　There are many middle-aged women cheating now. Why do so many middle-aged women cheat? Let's look at the experience of 46-year-old Chen Ping.

　　Chen Ping said:

　　Like many women, I married a man at the right age after listening to my parents' arrangement. I was very happy at first, because my husband's family's economic conditions were not bad, so I could be a housewife without worrying about money.

　　My father-in-law was seriously ill. In order to treat my father-in-law, I spent all my money at home, and I still owed a lot of money. Originally, my family's economic conditions were not bad. Because my father-in-law was ill, we became very poor, but my father-in-law died. Just after his death, my husband went to work in other places to pay off his debts. I stayed at home alone, because the children were still young at that time, and I needed to take care of the children and live apart from my husband. I can only chat through my mobile phone. My husband's work is very busy, so I can't find him during the day. He doesn't get off work until 11 o'clock in the evening, and sometimes he has to work overtime. If he works overtime, it will be until 1 o'clock in the evening. Every time my husband gets off work, I want to talk to him, but he is very tired and hangs up after saying a few words in a hurry.

　　I feel very depressed when I take care of my children at home alone, and I also feel that such a life is very uncomfortable. I obviously have a husband, but I am always alone. The faucet at home is broken or the light bulb is broken, and I have to repair it by myself. Once I bought a bigger toy car for my children, and I was carried upstairs by myself. When I carried it upstairs, I felt very sad. How could my life be like this?

　　A few years later, we finally paid off the foreign debt we owed. It was originally agreed that my husband would come back after paying off the debt, but he didn't want to come back. Later, I found out that my husband had a lover there. In fact, his work was not so busy, and he could get off work at six o'clock, but he kept telling me that he didn't get off work until after 11 o'clock in order to play with his lover.

　　When I learned this, I felt particularly miserable. I felt that I was really miserable. My marriage turned out like this. Later, I talked to my husband and decided not to divorce. For the sake of this family, we played the role of husband and wife.

　　Later, I also cheated, because it was very painful not to get my husband's love, and I also wanted to be spoiled. My lover loved me very much, and when I needed his help, he would appear in time. I no longer had to repair the faucet and light bulb myself, like a woman, and he would accompany me when I was unwell.

　　My husband basically comes back once every six months or once a year, and the rest of the time is accompanied by my lover. My children also like my lover very much. We often go out for three people, and my lover's income is not bad. He will buy me a lot of things. My lover buys my clothes and cosmetics now.

　　I have been with my lover for several years now. In fact, I feel that my husband also knows about me and my lover, but he just doesn't say anything. We are both cheating on each other. Finally, for the sake of family, we play this couple again. Whenever he comes back, we are also very loving parents in front of the children.

　　When I didn't cheat before, every time I thought that my husband was with another woman, I felt particularly uncomfortable. Now I don't care. I think it's even. We both betrayed our marriage.

　　Recently, my lover told me that he wanted to get married. He asked me if I wanted to divorce my husband. If I divorced my husband, he would marry me, because his parents pushed me too hard, and I was very entangled. If I divorced my husband, my children would be unhappy, but if I continued to live with my husband, I would be unhappy. If my lover got married, he would definitely not contact me, and I would be very unhappy.

　　In the end, I didn't divorce my husband, because at that time, my children were already in high school, and I was afraid that it would affect their studies. The college entrance examination is very important. I hope my children will be admitted to a good university. Even if I am unhappy in my life, I also hope my children will be happy. Later, my relatives married other women. It is said that they are very happy after marriage. This is their story, and it has nothing to do with me.

　　Conclusion:

　　If it were you, what would you choose?