The 74-year-old man has a high pension, and his children are unwilling to provide for him？ Listen to his children.

　　Lead:

　　Some people say that the elderly have a pension and their life after retirement will not be too bad. Half of the elderly will not have a pension and they will live a happy life. But some old people have a lot of pensions, but their children are unwilling to provide them with old-age care. What happened?

　　Narrator: Ms. Wang, 54 years old.

　　My father is 74 years old and his pension is 6,000 yuan a month. The retirement salary is higher than that of his children. For such an old man, his children should give him a pension for his pension, which is realistic, right? But the children don't want to give him a pension.

　　Although his pension is very high, I don't want to give him a pension at all. My father has a feeling of being above others. If someone wants to get close to him and get along with him, you can definitely guess the result.

　　This condescending reason makes people around him unhappy. My father was ambitious and capable when he was young. Doing housework at home is done by my mother, and my father doesn't know how to feel sorry for my mother at all. Scold my mother as soon as I got home.

　　My mother is depressed and lives with people like my father. I think if they don't live too long, everyone will go crazy. My father only has eyes for money. He thinks that people who make money are absolutely dominant, and he looks down on my mother. So my father scolded my mother when he was unhappy. Because of my father's strange personality, my mother was driven crazy until she finally threw herself into the river.

　　Dad said my mother couldn't take it easy and ended her own life. But I think that my mother's death has a lot to do with him. Living in contempt and scolding for a long time, anyone's self-esteem will collapse. My mother didn't want to hurt others, so in the end she hurt herself.

　　Growing up, my brother and I didn't like my father very much. We don't even want to have more contact with my father when my mother is away.

　　Even though his wife left, his children ignored him, and my father still lived a very energetic life. As long as he can earn money, he is the kind of person who lives a happy life. In his eyes, everything can be measured by money. He is a sparse and indifferent person.

　　We'll take time to go back to dad. However, my father still scolded us when we went back, calling us unproductive.

　　Every time I go home, my brother and I will run away from home because my father scolds us every day. No one wants to believe that some fathers in the world are not gentle with their children.

　　At first, my brother and I thought that since he had a pension, he wouldn't have to worry about his pension in the future. But we are naive.

　　It is absurd to say that he didn't care about his family at all when he was young. I don't care if I have an intersection with my children, and I don't care if my wife lives or dies.

　　When he was old, he suddenly longed for affection. Children from other families are all around their parents, paying tribute to them. Therefore, he also began to exercise his father's privileges to me and my brother. Let's be filial to him as a child and give him a pension.

　　My brother immediately refused. My brother said that you have a pension. You can hire a nanny or go to a nursing home. Your pension is higher than our salary. I don't have time to provide you with old-age care. I want to take care of my family.

　　I refused immediately, but I was a little uncertain. But I don't agree either. In fact, he hired several nannies in his later years, and each nanny was scolded by him and ran away.

　　Do you think his temper can drive his wife to the wall? Can he get along with the nanny?

　　It is not that my brother and I don't want to be filial. If he is a harmonious old man, even if he doesn't have a pension, my brother and I are actually willing to help him. After all, he is our father.

　　But it's really hard for children to be with him. Even though he has a high pension, his children are unwilling to provide for him.

　　Conclusion:

　　Everyone can't choose their parents. Some people are luckier. Their parents are very considerate and know how to think about their children all their lives.

　　But some people are not so lucky. Their parents have been cunning and eccentric all their lives and have never considered them.

　　When they get old, they ask their children and ask them to provide old-age care in the name of their father or mother. Such old people are usually difficult to get along with, and it's hard to be with them. Although they are very painful, they are also their own biological parents. Therefore, children must finally find a way to provide them with old-age care services. If they can't be with them, they can finally choose to take them to a nursing home.

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