A pneumonia epidemic made me realize my husband's hard work： ＂Husband, I don't want a divorce.＂

　　"My son's custody belongs to me, and I basically earn all the money in my family. I will give you half. The house belongs to me for the time being and will be transferred to our son later. How's it going? What do you think of these requirements in the divorce agreement? "

　　"Whatever you say, as long as you are happy with your son, I don't care."

　　I was filled with contempt when I heard that he had no waves. I've been married to the man in front of me for ten years, and finally I'm divorced.

　　As my parents said, as a man, he revolves around housework and children all day, just like a nanny. He hasn't gone out to work since he was born, and he has been a domestic cook for ten years. He is at least a man who graduated from a key university, so he has no ambition. I was so blind that I agreed to marry him.

　　01

　　My husband and I met on a blind date. I am a woman with strong enterprising spirit. In order to prove to my grandfather that I am no worse than my cousin, and to win a sigh of relief for my mother in the family, I started my own company and worked hard for my own career.

　　Devoted to my work, I was clumsy in my emotional affairs. I didn't meet my destiny. My parents were very anxious and dragged me on blind date after blind date.

　　I didn't have a crush on my husband at first, but he fell in love with me and pursued me. He promised me that after marriage, he would be responsible for all the housework and take care of our children, so that I could devote myself wholeheartedly to my work.

　　What I am most afraid of is being entangled in housework and children after marriage, which will affect my career. His promise to me was just what I wanted, and my parents kept urging me to get married, so I agreed to marry him.

　　After getting married, he fulfilled his promise. He used to work in a big enterprise, and his monthly salary was more than 10 thousand. For me, he chose to quit his job and become a family cook.

　　Every day, when I get home, he will prepare steaming food for me, boil water for me to take a bath, and prepare supper for me to pad my stomach when I work late.

　　After three years of marriage, I gave birth to my son, and I handed over the responsibility of taking care of the children to my husband. Under the care of her husband, the child is very healthy and has a very cheerful and lively personality.

　　But my parents especially dislike my husband and think that he is not worthy of me. They say to me, "A man should be the pillar of his family and work hard to give his wife and children a happy life. This is a qualified husband. Your husband, on the other hand, started as a family cook, revolving around housework and children all day, with no masculinity at all. "

　　I am also dissatisfied with my husband's lack of self-motivation. I was angry with him. He always comforted me: "Don't you have a lot of worries when I handle housework and take care of your children at home?" As long as you and your son are happy, it doesn't matter what I do. "

　　But I didn't understand his painstaking efforts, and I became more and more dissatisfied with him. I had many quarrels with him, and finally the two of us came to the brink of divorce.

　　02

　　We reached a divorce agreement and were going to get a divorce certificate, but at this time, the pneumonia epidemic broke out and the Civil Affairs Bureau suspended its business, so we had to postpone getting a divorce certificate.

　　My husband moved out of our wedding room, leaving only my son and I at home.

　　Because of the pneumonia epidemic, I can't go to work in the company, and my employees are also trapped at home and can only work online.

　　I am at home with my son. Soon came the challenge of life.

　　"Mom, you put too much salt in the vegetables you fried today. The dishes you cooked are worse than take-away."

　　"Mom, I didn't wash off the oil stains in my down jacket. What clothes did you wash? You should wash the down jacket by hand before throwing it into the washing machine. "

　　"Mom, where did you put my book away again? Can't you put things in a fixed position? "

　　"Mom, you are also a college graduate. Why can't you even do a manual job? Dad, when will you come back? "

　　For a week in a row, I was in charge of housework and taking care of my son, but I made mistakes frequently and was complained by my son for a long time.

　　Just when I felt exhausted, my son suddenly had a fever because of my poor care.

　　I was scared to death, because the typical symptom of COVID-19 is fever, but my son didn't go out. How could he be infected?

　　I had to call my husband for help, and he hurried home and sent his son to the hospital. After examination, my son had a fever caused by catching cold.

　　My mother-in-law scolded me: "can you take care of the children?" Xiao Lei always kicks the quilt when he sleeps at night. My son goes to his room to tuck him in several times every night. Have you done it? My grandson called me several times to complain that you couldn't even cook a dish well, which made him hungry several times. How do you become a mother? What can you do besides making money? "

　　I felt guilty and dared not say more, but my mother-in-law became more and more angry.

　　"You return not bashful divorce with my son, abandon my son useless. Before my son married you, his monthly salary was over 10 thousand, which was highly valued by their boss. If it weren't for you, he would give up such a good future and be the despised family cook. He did not hesitate to sacrifice his career, just to fulfill you, not because of his love for you? But you dislike him and divorce him. What kind of daughter-in-law are you? "

　　Looking at my anxious husband in front of my son's hospital bed, looking at my son who is holding his father's hand, I regret it.

　　I only know that I despise my husband and don't make progress, but I forget that the real reason why he is a family cook is for me! Why am I so cruel?

　　My husband is doing housework at home, taking care of my son and caring about my life. He has worked as hard as me.

　　I couldn't help myself and threw myself into my husband's arms: "I'm sorry, husband, I shouldn't cherish your love." I regret it, let's not divorce! "

　　A pneumonia epidemic made me realize my husband's hard work and his importance. Sorry, honey, I don't want a divorce. I will cherish you.

　　Qiu Ya's Emotional Analysis:

　　Cherish the people in front of you, this sentence seems easy, but it is difficult to do.

　　It is a true portrayal of many people that they don't know how to be blessed when they are blessed. Many people like to compare their spouses with others. Obviously, their spouses are also excellent, but they think that good men belong to other people's families, dislike their spouses, and even criticize them in every way, and they have the idea of divorce.

　　When they really divorced, they lost the people who lived together, and often felt regretful and found the hidden bright spots of their lover. At this time, it may be even more difficult for them to recover.

　　Cherish the people in front of you and live your own life. Everyone has his own wonderful life. Why look at the envy of others' lives and add trouble?