The 58-year-old nanny was proposed by her employer and made three demands. Employer： I don't deserve you.

　　It is nothing new in modern society. Many widowed or divorced old people have plans to find another wife.

　　Over half a year old, the reason why people want to find another wife is often not because of love. With the passage of time, people have been polishing the society for decades, and they have seen the cold world and weak human feelings, and they have already become no longer simple. At the age of fifty, people also know their destiny, and they have long been less eager for love. At this time, they want to get married, often for three purposes.

　　The first purpose is to find a helper to reduce the burden of old age.

　　When people get old, with the rapid aging of physical functions, there will often be situations where the mind is willing but the strength is weak. If they live alone, they will encounter many obstacles. If they have a wife around, they can help and pass the boring time.

　　The second purpose is to find a free nanny.

　　When I am old, I don't want my children to work hard, or my children are busy at work, my grandchildren are unattended, and it takes money to hire a nanny. Therefore, many people will use the banner of remarriage to actually find a free nanny for themselves and their children.

　　The third purpose is to make money. In this case, the elderly with savings, high pension, real estate and promising children will become the target.

　　Whether to get married or not is the right of single people, and no one can interfere. At the same time, when you make a decision, only you can bear the consequences. Therefore, no matter how old you are when you get married, you should be responsible for your actions.

　　Aunt Lu told me that she almost married her employer. Fortunately, she didn't really make a decision to get married.

　　"If my neighbor hadn't woken me up, I might have fallen to the point where I was nearly sixty and still divorced."

　　01. In order to save some money for the elderly, I became a nanny;

　　Aunt Lu is 58 years old and a woman from bad karma. Ten years ago, her daughter drove her father, go on road trip, and Aunt Lu didn't go because she was unwell, but she got the bad news that her husband and daughter had a car accident and both father and daughter died.

　　Husband and daughter died, leaving Aunt Lu alone to guard the empty house. Since her daughter was unmarried and her in-laws and parents died, Aunt Lu had no relatives.

　　Looking at Aunt Lu, who was depressed and sitting in a daze at home, her neighbors persuaded her: "The Sri Lankan has passed away, and those who survived should look forward. You have to think about the rest of your life. Although you have a house, you have no savings, and your pension is only enough for you to spend. In case you get sick, you can't sell the house! Otherwise, like me, you can be a nanny and save more money while you can move. When you are completely old, please take care of it or go to a nursing home. "

　　Aunt Lu accepted her neighbor's advice and went to a domestic service company. After training for a period of time, Aunt Lu successfully got on the job.

　　02. My employer proposed to me, and I was moved;

　　A year ago, Aunt Lu changed to a new employer. This employer is a single old man, surnamed Shen.

　　Aunt Lu worked as a nanny in Mr. Shen's home for a year. She did her best in her job and was praised many times. She got along well with Mr. Shen and her son.

　　A month ago, Mr. Shen suddenly made a suggestion to Aunt Lu: "Xiao Lu, I have an idea. You see, you are single and I am single, which just makes a couple. Otherwise, let's get married When you are my wife, you are my son's stepmother. You have no children, and my son can give you a pension in the future. "

　　After listening to Mr. Shen's words, Aunt Lu felt very moved. For her, providing for the aged is indeed a difficult problem. If you get married, won't someone support you?

　　03. My neighbor's words woke me up;

　　Aunt Lu hesitated, told her neighbor about it and asked for her advice. As a result, her neighbor woke her up with a word.

　　"Bah, why are you so stupid? Can you believe this nonsense? Stepson pension? Did you give birth to him or raise him? Why should he give you a pension? Even your own children may not give you old-age care. Didn't you see what happened to Sister Ding upstairs? "

　　Aunt Ding worked hard and brought up a child for her son. When she was about to enjoy her old age, her daughter-in-law said nothing, firmly denied that she had said anything about supporting her mother-in-law, and drove her mother-in-law out of the house. Because the house was sold by her son, Aunt Ding had to rent a house.

　　"You once told me that your employer's son is unmarried and lives with his father, right? His son is 30 years old this year, why not get married? "

　　"His son said that now girls have high requirements for marriage, not only for bride price, but also for buying a house. His family really can't afford to pay the down payment for the wedding room."

　　"If I marry you, I will have it!"

　　The neighbor's words made Aunt Lu wake up like a dream. The neighbor continued to analyze: "It's not that I'm a gentleman's belly with the heart of a villain, but we have to think about the rest of our lives at this age." You are too old to stand the wind and waves. Think about it, since you are his son's nominal stepmother, and his son needs a house to get married, you can't help but show your mind! What if he gets the house, turns against you mercilessly and drives you out of the house, won't you lose a lot? Be a man, be careful. "

　　04. "Marriage is ok, promise me three requirements", my words dispelled the employer's thoughts;

　　At the suggestion of the neighbor, Aunt Lu went to negotiate with Mr. Shen: "Marriage is ok, promise me three requirements. First of all, if you want to get a certificate, you should first notarize the property before marriage; Secondly, make an agreement in advance, I will neither bring your son a baby nor need them to provide for the elderly; Finally, the AA system after marriage, no one takes advantage of anyone. "

　　Mr. Shen felt unbelievable: "Don't you want my son to support the elderly? What will you do alone? "

　　"When I am too old to move, I can sell my house and live in a nursing home. I'm sorry, I'm not related to your son by blood, so I can't believe that he will give me a pension just by your words. At the same time, he doesn't have to call me mom, just call me aunt, because I won't treat him like my own mother. As for my property, it only belongs to me personally, and I have the final say on how to spend it. "

　　The 58-year-old nanny was proposed by her employer and made three demands. In this regard, the employer Mr. Shen only said: "You are smart and I don't deserve it."

　　After that, Aunt Lu was no longer the nanny of Mr. Shen's family.

　　Aunt Lu finished everything and suddenly asked me, "Do you think I think too much with my neighbors?" He may just want to find a wife. "

　　In this regard, I just want to say: "There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people."

　　05. People are over half a hundred, so it's time to leave a way out for yourself and take care of your own interests.

　　Marriage is no longer a necessity when people are over half a hundred. For you, the most important problem you need to solve is how to properly arrange the rest of your life.

　　If the children are filial enough and can count on it, the elderly will be very happy for the rest of their lives; If you can't count on your children, you can only count on one thing, and that is your property, including money and house.

　　When people reach their old age, take good care of your property, and don't give it to your children in advance, lest they turn against each other and deny others, and don't fall into the trap of being single and the opposite sex and make a wedding dress for others in vain.

　　To be a man, you must not have the heart to harm others, and you must have the heart to prevent others. Take care of your own interests, think more about yourself, and don't trust others' words easily.

　　Today's topic: Do you think Aunt Lu's worries may come true? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.