After three years of marriage, she helped 500,000 families. When the man filed for divorce, the woman demanded that the wedding room property be mine.

　　Marriage has a great influence on people. It can completely change a person. Both men and women, once they choose the wrong spouse and have a bad marriage, will have an indelible impact on their lives. A bad marriage can make people have no time to take care of their careers, make people have a mental breakdown, make people lose their interests, and make people stop believing in love.

　　After half a year's tug-of-war, my cousin finally divorced his wife Jiang Lili. In order to get a smooth divorce, my cousin made a concession to sell her pre-marital property and give Jiang Lili half the money. However, Jiang Lili was not satisfied at all. She not only asked her cousin to transfer the house to her younger brother, but also asked her cousin to pay her daughter 5,000 yuan in maintenance every month. Cousin couldn't stand Jiang Lili's unreasonable demands and sued him in court. In the end, Jiang Lili not only didn't get a share of real estate, but also lost the custody of her daughter, and could no longer blackmail her cousin.

　　Writer Tang Zhifeng once said:

　　"Behind one person's fearlessness in marriage, another person must be constantly humble without dignity."

　　In this marriage between my cousin and Jiang Lili, my cousin is the person who has no dignity and is constantly humble.

　　After his successful career, he got his wish and married the school flower;

　　Jiang Lili is my cousin's alumnus, a famous beauty queen, and has many suitors. Among these suitors, my cousin is not handsome and has no strong family background. Therefore, he summoned up the courage to confess to Jiang Lili many times, but the other party dismissed him.

　　After the failure of the fourth confession, my cousin gave up the idea of pursuing Jiang Lili and devoted all her energy to the postgraduate entrance examination. After graduating from graduate school, my cousin entered a company with good prospects. Because of his outstanding ability, steady work and friendly communication with people, he quickly gained the respect of his boss and became a backbone member of the company, and his monthly salary also rose.

　　When my cousin's monthly salary exceeded 15 thousand, he was 29 years old, and my cousin, who couldn't stand the pressure of his parents to urge marriage, chose to accept a blind date. To his surprise, his second blind date was Jiang Lili.

　　Jiang Lili told him that after graduating from college, she got married. After three years of marriage, because of the emotional disharmony with the man, she learned from a bitter experience and chose to end this unhappy marriage.

　　"Do you dislike me? I've been married and had men, and I don't deserve you anymore. If you don't dislike me and are willing to marry me, I can marry you directly without a bride price. I promise to be good to you and to be a qualified wife. "

　　Seeing the tearful eyes of the girl I once loved, my cousin felt very distressed, and the love hidden in my heart was ignited again. In the end, my cousin cheated with Jiang Lili.

　　Divorce is not a person's original sin. Among divorced people, there are many people who are really excellent and suitable for being partners. However, before you marry a divorced person, you need to do one thing, and that is to find out the reason for the divorce.

　　People are selfish and have egoistic thoughts. In order to achieve the goal of remarriage, many divorced people will hide the mistakes they made in their last marriage, shift the responsibility to each other, portray themselves as victims, and let new partners put aside their bad feelings and feel sympathy for themselves. Therefore, before you remarry, you must find out the reasons for the other person's divorce. In case what the other person does also involves your bottom line, you can avoid jumping into the fire pit.

　　If my cousin knew that Jiang Lili was divorced because her husband's family couldn't allow her to help her brother-in-law, she might not have married this hot potato. If Jiang Lili had a deep reflection on her behavior of helping her brother, and stopped moving men's economic interests, maybe she and her cousin could grow old together. Unfortunately, there is no if.

　　His wife is a brother-helper. He indulges his wife for love and ends up with both money and people.

　　Zhang Ailing said:

　　"When you fall in love with someone, your heart will always be low, as low as the soil, and flowers will bloom in the soil, so humble but so happy."

　　After three years of marriage, Jiang Lili took nearly 500,000 yuan from her cousin to subsidize her family. My cousin knew that because of his love, he resisted the resentment in his heart and indulged Jiang Lili again and again.

　　My brother hurt someone in a fight, and she cried and made trouble at home, which forced my cousin to take out 100 thousand yuan to help her brother-in-law out; Mother was ill in hospital, and the medical expenses of 100 thousand yuan were all paid by my cousin; My younger brother took a fancy to a car, but Jiang Lili didn't say hello to my cousin, so he directly took away two hundred thousand yuan of child-care money accumulated by my cousin, plus holiday gifts, and gave Jiang Lili's parents' pension money every month, and my cousin put in five hundred thousand savings.

　　Because of Jiang Lili's poverty alleviation, my cousin's financial situation has plummeted. Buying a house in full before marriage has hollowed out his savings, and all the money that Jiang Lili spent on her family comes from his salary. My cousin told us with a wry smile: "After marriage, Jiang Lili was in charge of my salary card and was responsible for my family expenses. She is reluctant to buy good meat, fruit and clothes. I really don't understand how I spent these three years. It is said that when women fall in love, their brains are prone to water, and when I fall in love, I am not much better. Although I have thought of divorce countless times, I just can't be cruel and can't see her crying like a pear flower with rain. "

　　Jiang Lili's younger brother is getting married and needs a wedding room. Jiang Lili made a request to his cousin without scruple: "I remember that the house where my in-laws live is a school district house, which is expensive. My brother is getting married. You should let your in-laws sell the house and take money to buy a house for your brother."

　　Jiang Lili's request became the last straw to crush this marriage. Instead of agreeing to her request, my cousin threw her a divorce agreement. In the case of all kinds of crying useless, Jiang Lili put forward a request to let my cousin transfer the house she bought before marriage to her for divorce compensation. My cousin naturally won't promise, and she started a lawsuit.

　　After three years of marriage, 500,000 people helped their families. When the man filed for divorce, the woman demanded that the wedding room property be mine.

　　You give and give without dignity, which is a big killer to destroy marriage.

　　Zhou Guoping said such a sentence:

　　"All communication has an insurmountable final boundary. This boundary is unclear, but it is certain. All troubles and conflicts start from unintentionally trying to break through this boundary."

　　When couples communicate, there is also an insurmountable boundary, which is the last bottom line of married life. In marriage, loyalty is the bottom line, and so is money. We live a life of two points and one line every day, and devote most of our time and energy to our work, just to earn money and improve our lives and those we care about. No matter men or women, they are only willing to spend money for their parents, spouses and children. As for their spouses' brothers and sisters, they have no blood relationship with them and there is no reason to spend their money.

　　The reason why lovers can touch your bottom line again and again is not only because of their idea of helping their brothers, but also because you give and give in without dignity.

　　If you keep a dignity in love and don't let the other person feel that you have to be with him, he won't hold your weakness and make demands with you unscrupulously; If you stop the other person's poverty alleviation behavior in time and let the other person pay the price for it at the time of poverty alleviation for the first time, the lover will not intensify.

　　Whether men or women, don't lose yourself in love and don't feel too inferior.

　　Today's topic: Is there a case where a woman is a brother-helper? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.