Relatives don't want to become enemies. Don't do these two things, remember!

　　Relatives are a kind of relationship different from ordinary people, which seems unbreakable because of blood factors, but in fact, if they don't know how to get along, they will also show an extremely fragile side.

　　No matter how good the relationship is, we should know how to keep a moderate distance and have contacts with proper limit.

　　Because if you cross the line, it will easily lead to the opposition between relatives. Obviously, they are relatives who should help each other, but in the end they may become enemies who are not in contact with each other.

　　Especially in these two things, it is best not to touch, even if the relationship is very good and the feelings are deep.

　　Don't deal with money.

　　It is said that money is the best standard to test human nature. Looking at people's hearts with money is often the most real.

　　Some families like to cooperate with their relatives when doing things, and feel that they know the root of the matter and are not easy to be deceived.

　　However, when we work with our relatives, it's okay if we can be generous with each other, and if we break up because of money, the truest side of human nature will be revealed.

　　Money will let you see clearly what people around you are thinking.

　　Don't exchange money between relatives. Once there is an interest dispute, many things will be difficult. Although there is an old saying that "brothers pay their bills clearly", in fact, there are not many relatives who can carry money clearly.

　　When the two sides have business cooperation, if they can't make money, they may blame each other and tear each other apart; And if you make money, it is likely that you will make a fuss about who has more interests.

　　Maybe you think that everyone is related, and if they don't show haggle over every ounce, they will live in peace. But in fact, it's not that simple.

　　If it's just two people, everything is easy to discuss, but it's really not so clear that it involves the families of both sides, the inextricably linked and intertwined interests behind them.

　　No wonder people often say that it is difficult for honest officials to solve housework cases. So, cooperate with friends, cooperate with strangers, and don't have financial ties with relatives.

　　Don't interfere in each other's family affairs.

　　Relatives meet in the principle of mutual respect and peaceful coexistence.

　　Don't point fingers at each other's life, and don't interfere with each other's family affairs easily. This is the best way to get along.

　　However, in real life, it is not that easy.

　　Some relatives, relying on themselves as elders, like to intervene in the family life of the younger generation, and feel that the way they live is not to his liking and they are confused.

　　Some couples have conflicts and seek solutions, and they will also ask relatives for help.

　　But every family has its own situation, and outsiders may not understand it. Therefore, even if relatives ask you for help to solve their family problems, they can only stop at it and don't express too many opinions.

　　If the husband and wife quarrel, you have just made an idea here, and the husband and wife there have made up as good as ever. As a result, your idea is still dissatisfied with two people, and eventually it is not a person inside and outside.

　　If relatives educate their children, I want you to give some opinions. However, you may not be very clear about the child's temperament and growth experience. Just standing on your own position, I'm afraid I'm wrong, and I'll miss the child's future in the future, causing everyone to complain.

　　There are also some contradictions between families, children and elders, which cannot be easily interfered. Although they are relatives, after all, they don't get along with each other day and night, and some things are not fully understood, which eventually aggravates the contradiction.

　　Family affairs of relatives should be discussed and communicated by yourself. As an outsider, it is better to say less.

　　Anyway, relatives are connected by blood, and broken bones are still connected with tendons.

　　Even if everyone's relationship is average, some things should be done on the surface, so as not to give people a handle, so as not to give people with ulterior motives an opportunity.

　　After all, human nature is complicated, and who knows who will use kinship to make you stumble.

　　Therefore, it is necessary to keep proper limit in contact with relatives.

　　Relatives can help each other, but they must never cross the line easily. Don't turn small problems into big contradictions, let alone become enemies easily.

　　Learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, know how to behave, and understand the reality, so as to maintain a long-term relationship with relatives.