＂She's my daughter, and she deserves to return to her ancestral home.＂ ＂You haven't given me a penny. How dare you？＂

　　The day before yesterday, a netizen I met on the game sent me a message and wanted to have a chat with me. So, I put down my work and chatted with her.

　　The netizen's surname is Liu, and I call her Ms. Liu. Ms. Liu told me that since the second half of last year, her ex-husband who has been divorced for 18 years has frequently appeared in her sight, disturbing her and her daughter's normal life many times. She warned and called the police, but she couldn't get rid of her ex-husband

　　The reason why Ms. Liu's ex-husband frequently bothers Ms. Liu is because of their daughter. Eighteen years ago, Ms. Liu's husband abandoned their mother and daughter. Eighteen years later, her ex-husband wanted her daughter to return to her ancestral home for her own sake, which was rejected by Ms. Liu.

　　My husband preferred sons to daughters and forced me to divorce. Eighteen years later, my daughter gave him a slap in the face.

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　　The reason why Ms. Liu's husband abandoned their mother and daughter is because of the idea of son preference.

　　When Ms. Liu was pregnant, he repeatedly asked Ms. Liu to check the sex of the fetus and was rejected by Ms. Liu. Ms. Liu's husband refused to give up, partnered with her mother and cheated Ms. Liu, claiming that she had found a doctor who could effectively relieve her symptoms of morning sickness and took her to an acquaintance.

　　Ms. Liu's mother-in-law secretly entrusted this acquaintance to check the sex of the fetus and finally found out that it was a female fetus. At that time, Ms. Liu's husband became angry and dragged Ms. Liu to the hospital for surgery.

　　Ms. Liu quarreled with her husband and insisted on not giving up her child. The more they quarreled, the more fierce they became. The man actually attacked Ms. Liu. Fortunately, they were in the street at that time, and the enthusiastic people grabbed Ms. Liu's husband and called the police. After that, Ms. Liu returned to her family.

　　Before the baby was born, Ms. Liu's husband didn't go to her mother's house to see her. After the child was born, Ms. Liu's mother-in-law ran to the hospital to confirm the child's gender and forced Ms. Liu to sign a divorce agreement.

　　At that time, Ms. Liu promised to divorce her ex-husband, but her ex-husband refused to give her child support, which made her feel very annoyed. Therefore, Ms. Liu refused to take the road of divorce by agreement and chose to sue.

　　Although the court ruled that the husband must give alimony, the husband refused to implement it and played the role of missing. At the suggestion of relatives, Ms. Liu kept the evidence that her husband did not give alimony, and then took it out when her husband came to look for her daughter to support the elderly.

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　　After the divorce, Ms. Liu has been holding a strong heart. She wants to raise her daughter into a useful person, so that her daughter can become a very powerful person and prove that girls are no worse than boys.

　　After the divorce, Ms. Liu did not remarry and has been raising her daughter carefully. The daughter is clever and sensible, and won the favor of grandparents and uncles, and also won the favor of next-door neighbors. With the help of relatives and neighbors, Ms. Liu found a job with a decent income, so she took care of her daughter while working.

　　Ms. Liu is very glad that when she got married, she didn't give up her love for English and still insisted on learning English, otherwise she would not be qualified for this translation job.

　　Ms. Liu's daughter inherited her mother's excellent quality of being diligent and eager to learn, and her academic performance has always been excellent, and she often won prizes in the school.

　　When her daughter was eighteen, she took part in the college entrance examination, and was admitted to a 98 university with the top ten scores in the whole school, which fulfilled her mother's university dream.

　　Ms. Liu was ecstatic, sent a celebration in a circle of friends, and decided to hold a school banquet for her daughter. I don't know who leaked the news and let Ms. Liu's ex-husband know about it.

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　　On the day of the school banquet, Ms. Liu's ex-husband also appeared at the scene. When she saw Ms. Liu's daughter, she cried one by one, which made Ms. Liu feel very angry.

　　At that time, Ms. Liu asked her husband, "Don't you dislike that she is a girl? Now you come to recognize your daughter? I tell you, she is my daughter, not your daughter. "

　　At that time, Ms. Liu's husband smirked and said, "Wife, don't say that!" Didn't my daughter inherit my clever talent because she is so powerful? She is also my own, of course I can come. "

　　On that day, not only Ms. Liu's ex-husband came, but also her former in-laws came.

　　Later, from a friend, Ms. Liu knew the true intention of her ex-husband.

　　It turned out that after Ms. Liu's ex-husband divorced, she quickly married another woman. After three years of marriage, that woman gave birth to a baby son for her ex-husband.

　　Ex-husbands and ex-in-laws spoil their children to heaven, not to mention strict discipline, and they have never said any serious words. They are simply afraid of falling in their hands and being afraid of melting in their mouths. As a result, under their connivance and doting, the ex-husband's son became a waste.

　　He took part in the senior high school entrance examination this year. Not only did he not get into a key high school, but even ordinary high schools rejected him.

　　At this time, the ex-husband and ex-in-laws began to plan for their son's future. As it happens, the ex-husband and a friend of Ms. Liu told him about her daughter. Therefore, the ex-husband started his daughter's idea and wanted to recognize her daughter and let her raise her brother.

　　Knowing all the plans of her ex-husband, Ms. Liu felt furious and insisted on refusing to let her ex-husband take her daughter away. As for Ms. Liu's daughter, after seeing her biological father, her attitude has been very cold, and even her father has never called.

　　Ms. Liu had a quarrel with her ex-husband. At that time, her ex-husband brazenly said, "She is my daughter, and she should recognize her ancestors." Ms. Liu retorted rudely: "You didn't give a penny, so you're not interested?" "

　　After listening to Ms. Liu's complaint, I gave her an idea: "Didn't he owe your daughter eighteen years' alimony?" Don't you have evidence? Ask him directly for money. You can tell him to sue directly if you don't pay. Don't worry, the court will support you to get your daughter's alimony back. See if he is willing to give it. Moreover, it is his duty to raise a son, not your daughter's, so you don't have to worry too much. "

　　I always agree with the saying that people who are born without support are not qualified to ask their children to support them.

　　It is the duty of children to support their parents, but the premise of filial piety is the kindness of the father, and parents have the obligation to raise their children. Maintenance obligation and maintenance obligation complement each other and are indispensable. If parents don't do their duty to support their children, they have no face to ask them to support them.

　　Children are the crystallization of love between parents, and it is never the mother's responsibility to raise children. As a father, since he has decided to bring his children into the world, he has the obligation to raise his children and do his duty as a father.

　　I don't understand why some people still have a serious preference for boys, and why they still look down on women. Most people have no throne to inherit at home, but they have to have a son. What's more, when they don't get a son as they wish, they blame the woman. However, whether from a scientific point of view or a moral point of view, it is not up to women to decide whether to have boys or girls.

　　Girls are no worse than boys. In many cases, after their parents get old, the children who pour tea at the front of the hospital bed are often daughters. If parents are kind to their daughters, they can also get a sweet little cotton-padded jacket.

　　Today's topic: Do you think people who are born without support are qualified to ask their children to support them? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.