I took my nephew for 3 years. After my nephew went to high school, my brother asked me to take it for another 3 years. I looked at my mobile phone and refused!

　　In the interpersonal relationship, family relationship is almost close and harmonious. Today we are going to share a story about Yang Na. Yang Na is a kind and rich woman. She meets her brother's requirements and takes care of her brother and children. Father, Yang Na and her younger brother have a harmonious relationship, but with her economic success, her younger brother began to take advantage of her privileges and live a luxurious life. When her brother asked Yang Na to take care of her children in high school, she was willing to help, but after seeing her brother emphasize luxury life on social media, she realized her brother's attitude and refused to continue to help. This story tells us the importance of understanding boundaries and maintaining a balanced relationship to promote long-term harmony between people.

　　Yang Na has a close relationship with her brother. In the family, they accompanied each other, supported each other and spent many unforgettable times together. Yang Na has made great contributions to the family business, so she has achieved great success in her career. The younger brother also benefited from the family business. Although his career was not as brilliant as Yang Na's, his life was comfortable. In front of their families, they are all kind in all likelihood, forming a happy and beautiful picture.

　　However, with the passage of time, my brother began to change. Perhaps because of the pressure of life, perhaps because of Yang Na's success, he gradually lost his former modesty. Began to borrow money from Yang Na frequently, and explained it for various reasons every time, saying that she would lose weight and pay it off. Yang Na is kind-hearted. She can't bear to see her brother in trouble. She always gives everything to help. She firmly believes that family members should support each other, both materially and spiritually.

　　However, my brother didn't owe money on fashion as scheduled, but began to live a luxurious life. On social media, he kept taking photos of brand-name bags, luxury cars and luxury goods. Seeing this, Yang Na can't help but feel chilling. She began to doubt her brother's sincerity and thought that her justice might have been weakened. She realizes that the setting of boundaries is crucial, otherwise it may be unbalanced.

　　Yang Na Duo saw the contradiction in her brother's request. Facing her younger brother, she had to get into trouble; Besides, she doesn't want to be deprived by her brother. Finally, she decided to refuse her brother's request. She explained her confusion to her brother. Although refusing may lead to a temporary disharmony, she believes that only through equal and rational communication can family harmony be maintained for a long time.

　　Through this story, we can learn many important lessons about building a healthy family relationship. First of all, we should recognize the importance of boundaries. While helping others, we should also protect ourselves and avoid excessive disability, so as not to eventually harm both sides. First of all, we should maintain a balanced attitude and not change our original friendly and tolerant relationship for some reason. Finally, we should solve the contradictions in the family through frank communication, and don't let misunderstanding and resentment hinder the harmony of the family.

　　In family relations, it is very important to establish boundaries and maintain balance. Yang Na's story tells us that our kindness and tolerance do not mean being bullied, and family harmony requires the joint efforts of every member. I hope that through this story, more people can think about family relations and learn to establish healthy and harmonious family relations in practice.