I can't let go of a person, but I hurt myself.

　　Love is something that can't be touched or seen. It's really amazing. If you are in two of a kind, loving each other harmlessly can start a sweet love journey, but meeting the right person at the wrong time will put two people in a dilemma. If we are often entangled together, we can't forget it. If we can keep away from each other and never meet again, the feeling will fade slowly. Even if we really can't forget it, we should choose to bury ourselves in the bottom of our hearts, silently be partners in the spiritual world, love each other and not destroy each other's families, and the whole life may pass in a blink of an eye.

　　And some feelings and things, once they go deep into your obsession, are hard to let go. How many people don't want to admit until the end, some things don't belong to you, and some people are doomed to be the past. These people and things, how hard it is for you to let go, will torture you in the future. Those who want to go, no matter how you keep them, you won't turn back. Those who play the fool, you won't win a point of truth if you exhaust your mind. It is better to let the past become the past, and let the past stay in the past.

　　Life is a long road, and there are countless scenery along the way. If you always get stuck in the mud because of a person and a memory, it will be a pity for your life. You can't stay with those who insist on leaving, and you can't wake up with those who pretend to sleep. Don't let the haze of the past block the sunshine of the present. Only by stepping out of the shadow of the past can we embrace the beauty in front of us more happily.

　　The acquaintance between people may not have a result, but it must be meaningful. If you can find the meaningful part, you can hide it in your heart and miss it forever. In fact, the result is not important. The pain caused by the result is all the pain caused by obsession. Many times, we cling to things that we can't get or have lost, can't let go of our memories, can't get rid of the temptation of longing, and torture ourselves over and over again with thoughts that keep popping up in our hearts.

　　Some people are doomed to miss this life, and can't return to the past. Some love is doomed to be incomplete. What they have has already become the past, and what they haven't got will never start. What they can't let go of in their hearts is only themselves. If you can't let go of a person, you will hurt yourself, just like grabbing a handful of sand with your hand. The tighter you hold it, the more you can't stay, leaving you holding the air in your palm. Let yourself indulge in the memories of the past and face everything with a refusal attitude. How can you start a better life again?

　　Love is a matter for two people, but separation is for one person. Many times, when a person chooses to give up on you, he has actually made sufficient preparations. Everyone has his own choices and judgments. Since a person decides to leave, there is nothing to miss. When you can't let go of someone, think about how others let go of you, so you can let go slowly.

　　Feelings are unclear, and you can't predict and stop many things. It is your blessing and luck for a person to love you, and it is natural for a person not to love. Everyone has the right to choose whether to love or not. The beginning of each story is beautiful, and the result is the fate of each other. Many times, don't be too persistent. Some relationships are just good when you meet them, and some people love them.

　　In the emotional world, your feelings and the feelings of the other party are two completely different and independent emotions, and they are never bound. It is precisely because of different and independent emotions that love is beautiful and great, but love is a kind of luck. Even if you know each other's feelings very well, this feeling occurs in the secular world, which means that it will inevitably be affected by the environment. Therefore, love is also the perfection of the environment, and it is normal to love but not.

　　Cherish it when you have it, and let it go when you leave, which is the best way. Can't let go of a person, maybe it's not really that we can't let go, but that we are unwilling. We always cling to the original beauty, but forget that feelings always need to go in two directions. So if a person wants to abandon you, there is nothing he can't let go. Leaving with dignity is what you should do.

　　Along the way, we will meet many people and have a lot of fate. Some people come into your life as a gift, while others come into your life as a lesson to teach you to grow. A relationship, if you don't agree with each other, it is meaningless to stay. In the end, it will not stand the test of time and will eventually go their separate ways. Some people have some relationships, so it's the best ending. Don't torture yourself and consume your life for someone who doesn't love you.

　　The real letting go is to let go, accept the fact, then find yourself in obsession, and then treat that emotion correctly. Accept your persistence, not let yourself go crazy, you need to find a reasonable way to vent, tell your friends, or find a place where no one is there to cry, but don't hurt yourself. When you really can't let go, you really have to calm down and think about it.

　　It is normal that people will have regrets in this life. No one can guarantee that they will meet the right person at the beginning. For those who don't care about you and leave you, there is no need to turn back. Some people are not worth turning back. Only moving forward is the best way to heal themselves. Believe that the end of the road will be good. If you don't feel good now, it's because you haven't reached the end.

　　Some feelings, you are no longer willing to interrupt. If you have reached the point where a person does not love you, it will only bring you consumption and pain. If you still choose to persist, you still want to persist. Then you are the one who makes yourself miserable. If you can know how to get out of the relationship that has ended, know how to say goodbye to those who can't continue together, endure the fantasies and expectations in your heart, and let go of those wrong understandings and cognitions, this pain will bring you new insights and won't make you so miserable.

　　At any time, don't feel sorry for the person who doesn't love you, and don't pester yourself for the person who doesn't love you. You can't let go of anyone. The ultimate suffering is yourself, and happiness lies in your heart, not in others. There is no perfect thing in the world, life can be regretted and perfect, but it is not worth paying for the person who is not worth it. You should still have reservations about loving someone, and learn to love yourself first. Don't look back for the rest of your life, don't feel sorry for people who are not worth it, so far just look forward and live what you like.