When couples get along, these four things can easily lead to divorce directly. Don't mind!

　　Marriage is an important event in life and the most important part of life for everyone. Therefore, marriage is the happiness of a person's life, and this happiness is hard-won. Therefore, in marriage, husband and wife should know how to cherish, tolerate and understand each other. However, in real life, many couples divorce because of some small things, which finally leads to the relationship between the two people getting weaker and weaker. Therefore, in marriage, husband and wife should know how to grasp some scales and discretion. Especially the following four things can easily lead to divorce between husband and wife.

　　Quarrel in front of outsiders

　　Marriage is actually a very sacred place. When two people live together, there will be many contradictions. Contradictions in marriage are very normal things, and they are inevitable in life.

　　But when quarreling between husband and wife, we must remember that two people must not quarrel in front of outsiders. Because two people quarrel in front of outsiders, it is easy to hurt each other's self-esteem. Moreover, quarreling in front of outsiders will also affect others' impression of you two, so it is a very bad behavior.

　　When husband and wife quarrel, don't apologize because of face problems, and don't tell outsiders about it. After all, it is very impolite to speak ill of others. And if you and the other party really quarrel because of some trivial matters, then I suggest you calm down before solving the problem.

　　Don't respect each other's parents

　　Parents are the first teachers in our lives. They gave us everything they had and the best things. Therefore, parents are very important to us.

　　When two people are together, the most important thing is to respect each other's parents, no matter how old you are or how high your achievements are.

　　Only when you respect each other's parents will you have more common language and deeper feelings between you. Therefore, husband and wife should know how to respect each other's parents, so that you can get along better.

　　Always compare other people's husbands or wives.

　　In marriage, both husband and wife should know how to understand and tolerate each other, understand each other and respect each other at the same time. But there are many couples in real life. They always like to compare other people's husbands or wives, saying how bad this person is and how good that person is. In fact, this comparison is the most likely to make the other party feel uncomfortable.

　　Because everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages, no matter how bad this person is, he should not be compared with other people's husbands or wives.

　　Husband and wife should know how to tolerate and understand each other, instead of always comparing other people's husbands or wives. Because this comparison will only make the other person feel that you are against him, and he will naturally feel that there is something wrong with your relationship.

　　Husband and wife don't know how to share, but only think about themselves.

　　Husband and wife should know how to share, especially when they meet some happy things, they must tell each other more. This will not only enhance the feelings between each other, but also make the other person feel your concern for him, and thus love you more. If husband and wife don't know how to share and only think about themselves, then the feelings between two people will become weaker and weaker after a long time.

　　summary

　　In marriage, the most important thing for two people is to cherish each other and understand and tolerate each other. Because only in this way can you be happier. However, there will inevitably be some contradictions in life, but husband and wife must know how to handle these contradictions well. Otherwise, you will easily get divorced because of these trivial things.