My mother called me five times in a row to urge me to go back to dinner, and my husband broke my mobile phone in anger and told a big lie.

　　Narrator, Ms. Sun:

　　Hello, everyone, my name is Sun, and I am 45 years old this year. To tell the truth, my own life is actually quite stable now. After all, I have been married for so many years, and my temper and temperament with my husband are all clearly understood. We rarely have any particularly big quarrels in our daily life. The more we mix a few words, the less serious it is. My son is already a big boy, and he will get married in another two or three years. What a lot to say.

　　If we must say one of the most difficult things to deal with, it is my mother's family and me. Some time ago, we had a little fight. Although there has been no major conflict so far, I know in my heart that it may be soon, but it is only a matter of time.

　　Last month, when I was at work, I received a message from my nephew. He said that he had received the notice. He was an undergraduate university in a provincial capital and took photos of me. I was also very happy when I saw it, although I said that the score had already come out, and I was already happy when it came out. At that time, I went home with my husband specially, just thinking that my nephew would definitely be able to go to a good university, but now it is quite exciting when the score comes out. I immediately transferred 500 yuan to my nephew to let him take the summer vacation and relax well, but my nephew confiscated it. I thought it must be my brother and my brother's daughter-in-law who were around, so don't let him accept it, and then forget about it.

　　Then my nephew sent me a message saying:

　　"My dad said that you should come back with your uncle on the 1st of next month, and all the family members have discussed it. Let's get together on the 1st of August to celebrate my admission to the university."

　　Because my nephew said this, I couldn't refuse, so I agreed and said I would buy him a gift when I went back. My nephew was also very happy.

　　After I hung up the phone, I didn't think much, but told my husband the good news. As a result, I didn't expect her husband to ignore it and didn't reply to my message at all. When I got home at night, I said it again in front of him, and he said unhurriedly:

　　"If you want to go back, go back. I don't want to go back. It takes four or five hours to go back and forth. It's too tiring. Go back yourself."

　　Listening to my husband's disappointing answer, I didn't continue to argue, thinking that he would definitely have to go when the time came. He was like this. After so many years of marriage, he always looked indifferent every time he brought it back to my home. In the first few years, he always called me a "brother-helper". Later, it took too long to find out that he was wrong and no longer quarreled with me about her family.

　　But at the end of July, we quarreled several times because of this matter. Every time he said no, let me make up an excuse to say that he was busy on a business trip, busy with work, and didn't have time to go. I was particularly angry at that time, because I thought there was no way to refuse it. After all, the child should go back to celebrate, but her husband always said:

　　"I'm not going, go back by yourself."

　　I can't help it. We argued for a long time, but in the end he still didn't go.

　　On the morning before I left, my mother kept calling to urge me to go back. From 7: 00 in the morning, she began to call to ask me if I was up, and asked me when I would start to walk back. At 9: 00, she called to urge me to hurry up. I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to catch dinner at noon. I called twice after 10: 00, and I was still calling to urge me at 11: 00, and I had no idea about my situation.

　　My husband's words have been angry with me all the time, so I packed my things and planned to take a taxi home myself, but my husband was still unwilling to put on an attitude that I wouldn't go back and you wouldn't go back. It really made me helpless. Just when I left, he let go and said that he would go back together. His change of attitude made me feel that I was hearing voices, but as a result, he said:

　　"I don't want to go. It's this thing again. It's no trouble, but I don't want you to go back. Your nephew has been admitted to college. It's estimated that you will get money when you go back. This tuition is not low."

　　I said:

　　"With what money, he and his wife both made money. Why do they want my money? Besides, they didn't give it to my son when he was in college. Now, are you embarrassed to ask me for money?"

　　The husband said:

　　"Both husband and wife have made money, but you don't know what your parents are like. In the past, when you had your brother, you often asked us for money. Later, when you have a grandson, you can't wait to hold it to the sky. Do you think we can go back without a penny?"

　　He then asked me:

　　"I remember that your mobile phone has been used for six or seven years. I have long said that I have not seen the right one?"

　　I nodded at a loss, and then my husband took my mobile phone and fell to the ground. I was so angry that I was anxious at that time and scolded him for not touching my things, but he said unhurriedly:

　　"Don't worry about it, come back and repair it. Now you can't turn on the machine. Besides, you always want to change your mobile phone. When you come back, you will change it. Your mobile phone is now three or five hundred."

　　I listened to my husband's words and actually guessed some of his meaning more or less, so I said:

　　"Aren't you afraid that I will go home and transfer money to my family? Do you think you need it? "

　　He shook his head and refused.

　　Later, we drove for two hours to get home at a little after one o'clock, and it was dusty all the way. As soon as we got home, we saw the whole family waiting at the table, and they had already started. As soon as I entered the door, I also gave him the Bluetooth headset I bought for my nephew before, so that he could study well in the future. After my husband entered the door, he sat down at the table and began to eat. My mother kept asking me how my phone couldn't get through, and I took out my mobile phone and said that it was broken.

　　"I have long said that I will change my mobile phone. This mobile phone has fallen like this. Usually it will be turned on for a while and turned off for a while. I can't pick up any important calls."

　　My brother and daughter-in-law are also around. Don't say:

　　"Then you don't hurry to buy a new one for my sister-in-law, and your husband will be incompetent at first sight."

　　As a result, the husband said unhurriedly:

　　"Stop it, where is the money? Now I can't earn a penny. Every month has bottomed out. Xiao Tao (my son) will consider getting married in a few years. We just took out all the money at home and bought him a house. Now we still pay for it every month."

　　Sister-in-law said:

　　"Xiao Tao is only a junior. Why do you buy a house so early? People may not develop here in the future."

　　The husband went on to say:

　　"If you don't develop here, you have to buy a house. Now you pay attention to investment. Even if the place here is small, at least the house price will not fall. Maybe it will rise a little in a few years, and even if it is sold, it will have an income."

　　I watched my husband's boastful manner without interrupting him, so I let him continue to blow.

　　Sure enough, at the dinner table, my mother took the initiative to talk about my nephew going to college. She took my hand and said:

　　"Daughter, the child has also been admitted to college. The couple don't have that much money for him to go to college. Do you think you have any money to help your brother and relieve the pressure? Your father and I are old now and have no money to help."

　　After listening to my mother's words, I was silent for a moment, so I changed the subject and asked my nephew how much the tuition fee was for a semester. My brother-in-law said that it was six or seven thousand yuan, but then she said that it was mainly the living expenses, and the round-trip travel expenses would be one thousand yuan less, not to mention the consumption level there. It is estimated that it would be bad to live without three thousand yuan a month, so she wanted to ask me to borrow one or twenty thousand yuan to relieve the pressure.

　　But my husband dropped my mobile phone on the table as soon as he heard it.

　　"hey."

　　Then unhurried said:

　　"Look, didn't we just say that we don't even have the money to change our mobile phones? The family is so poor now that there is really no money."

　　I couldn't bear to see my mother helpless, so I said I'd look back and do something, but my husband said bluntly:

　　"Mom, we really have no money. Besides, they are both middle-aged now. How can we have no savings at all?"

　　My brother opened his mouth and said:

　　"This is not because we have to give our parents a pension, plus we just bought a house at home, and some loans have not been repaid."

　　The husband said:

　　"Ah, don't say that you want to give your parents a pension. We also gave them a living allowance every three months and two thousand at a time. It's six or seven hundred a month, which is enough to buy food and cook. Besides, they have a pension of several hundred dollars. Plus, you gave them at least one thousand five hundred a month. Life is difficult. When my son went to college, he didn't see you wrap a red envelope to celebrate. Help.

　　But my mother began to scold her husband, saying that her husband was too stingy as a brother-in-law, and her husband said disapprovingly:

　　"Mom, it's such a bad mobile phone. It has been used for so many years, but there is no money to change it. Do you think the mobile phone is expensive now? It's not expensive. A few hundred dollars can be used. The last one was good, but there was no money, and all the money was saved. Otherwise, her broken mobile phone could not be answered every day, and sometimes people couldn't find it. It was really money. Originally, Xiaohua (my nephew) was paid to change her mobile phone, but she was not admitted to college, so we thought about buying a gift for her child. Now she had no money, and she still had it.

　　My mother wanted to continue to say something, but Zhang opened her mouth and didn't speak. My brother and my brother-in-law expressed their disbelief, and my husband didn't care about them, but went on to say how difficult our life was.

　　The family talked at home for a few hours and didn't give the money, so they gave up. On the way home, I asked him disgruntled:

　　"You are going to lie, so why did you break my phone?"

　　The husband proudly said:

　　"What do you think they believe? At least today, they saw it. Even if they didn't believe me, they showed them the mobile phone, which proved that they didn't have money. Besides, it was mainly your parents who were here. It was not easy for them. I was also afraid that your parents wouldn't believe it if they said they didn't have money, but when they saw it, even if your brother and his wife didn't believe me, at least your mother wouldn't say anything more. After all, I was not rich. I took out one or two thousand to help them. What should we do then? This family account is the most difficult.

　　I scolded my husband, saying that he shouldn't say such things about my family, but I also understood that he was telling the truth. My brother and sister-in-law are really used to gnawing at the old, and my parents basically used their money. In the first few years, they always asked me for money, and I gave it several times. Now that my husband told this lie, let it go on, at least it won't be particularly ugly because of money.

　　However, in my heart, I really don't really want to get the money. There are many places to help my family for so many years. Many times, I didn't volunteer, but I just felt sorry for my parents. What's more, I also prepared a gift for my nephew to go to college this time, and I didn't care about anything. Plus, they didn't give money when my son went to college, so I naturally didn't want to take the money.

　　What do you think?