After retirement, no matter how boring, don't enter these three ＂doors＂

　　Many people end their busy lives after retirement, and for a while, they don't even know what to do.

　　In the anxiety and melancholy that life is coming to an end, some people are full of powerlessness and loneliness. They will choose to integrate into some circles, broaden their contacts and show their charm as their hope to continue living.

　　In this life, the most important thing is peace. After retirement, no matter how boring, don't enter these three "doors", otherwise you may fall into danger, and your family wealth will be exhausted.

　　Don't enter the "door" of fame and fortune.

　　After retirement, many people don't understand the truth of "everything goes back to zero" and are unwilling to let go of everything and return to their original lives.

　　Especially before retirement, people in high positions are used to enjoying the splendor, the pursuit and envy of the world. Once they retire, they immediately turn from a crowded place to a crowded place, which makes them feel a great gap.

　　Some people can survive this transition period peacefully, while others can't. In the end, those who are restless for fame and fortune choose to expand their contacts in various ways, trying to become the same as before, controlling power and enjoying popularity.

　　But after a person retires, there is no real power in his hands. How many doors of fame and fortune will be opened for a middle-aged and elderly person?

　　So if you don't pay attention, you may fall into a trap. Even if you don't fall into the trap, you have been living with a shelf, going to dinner parties, consuming the old mutual affection and overdrawing your prestige. This kind of life will only make you physically and mentally exhausted and self-bound.

　　Therefore, after retirement, you can be an ordinary middle-aged and elderly person, living a carefree life, enjoying peace and well-being with your children; You can practice one more skill, live a full and vigorous life, and make your life full and powerful.

　　However, don't enter the "door" of fame and fortune at will, and make the second half of your life a mess.

　　Don't enter the "door" of extramarital affairs.

　　After retirement, I was freed from the busy time and had plenty of time and energy. Most people will be willing to spend their old age peacefully, but some people will have some opportunistic thoughts and want to enrich their lives.

　　When I was young, people worked hard for their careers outside, and they didn't spend much time at home. Generally, they didn't go home for dinner until evening, and then they watched TV, took care of their children and went to bed.

　　After retirement, the old people don't need to work hard outside. They live under the same roof with their families and spouses every day.

　　In the long run, it is inevitable to encounter some frictions and contradictions. Especially when you meet a woman who loves long-winded and nags, you will be bored and give birth to the idea of running away.

　　There are various ways to escape. If you don't want to stay at home for too long, you can go outside to practice an interesting hobby, practice playing waist drums, rehearsing old chorus and practicing square dance. These are all interesting and beneficial things.

　　But there are still some middle-aged and elderly people who will fall in love with another person and want to live with each other for the rest of their lives when they are full of beards and vicissitudes of life.

　　Husband and wife are originally a community of destiny. They experienced too much when they were young, and then they came together. However, in the middle-aged and elderly people, the past sufferings and sharing were forgotten.

　　After all, the eternal oath is invincible; After all, the sincerity of spending the rest of your life is better than liking the new and hating the old.

　　However, if you leave all the good memories behind and choose to meet new people and maintain a new relationship, it is more likely that you will be empty of money and money, and you will be restless when you get old.

　　Don't enter the "door" of right and wrong.

　　Before retirement, many people regard work as their main business, which consumes a lot of energy in life, and they don't have much time to do daily chores and pay attention to human fireworks.

　　However, after the real retirement, some people lost the focus of life and felt that life was boring and ethereal, and some of them began to pursue the fresh world outside.

　　These people like to gossip with people about trivial matters, chicken bits and pieces, what they have seen in the market and what they have learned from their parents. Chatting and chatting, my mood improved and my thinking became transparent.

　　However, some people lose their way when chatting, and it is easy for them to "curse from their mouths". An unintentional statement or a parrot's words will bring great trouble to others. They may just hear a gossip when chatting with people, and then take this gossip as true and spread it out.

　　These gossip may crush a person mentally, and when a person gossips and becomes a gossip, his own fortune and longevity will also be lost.

　　A gentleman doesn't stand under a dangerous wall. These are the "doors" of right and wrong, so it's better not to enter.

　　After retirement, we can take a brave step, pursue what we want and live the life we want, but only if we build on the correct three views.

　　Letting go of worries does not mean letting go of all the constraints, but letting go of the glory and the fruits of harvest, so that we can successfully lead a stable and calm middle-aged and elderly life.

　　When we are confused about the life of middle-aged and old people, we can read more books, think more and reflect more, instead of walking into these three "doors" in a daze, which may lead to the destruction of our beautiful life and lead us to a safe and healthy old age.

　　When we were young, we didn't know what we should do, perhaps because we were not fully mature. But when we reach middle-aged and old age, we should know responsibility and dedication, be tolerant and open-minded, and should not waste our lives any more.