Husband is very kind to you, but he betrayed you.

　　Some people say that her husband was very kind to him, but she cheated on him. When she knew it, she couldn't believe that her husband, who was always obedient to her and spoke softly, had betrayed herself.

　　She always thought she had a happy family and paid a lot, but she found her husband betrayed.

　　Intellectually, she certainly can't accept it, and even if she forgives it, she may not trust it in the future. This matter will always be in the middle of two people, and even keep quarreling, and may eventually be separated.

　　Even if we don't separate, it's hard for feelings to be the same as before.

　　But if I really want to leave, I still can't bear to part with it. After all, years of feelings and my painstaking home are gone.

　　As I told you before, what I fear most is not that he is completely bad to you, because when you really can't find anything good about him, you leave easily.

　　You are obsessed with pain precisely because he is good or bad for you, and you are also greedy for some good.

　　Therefore, it is very difficult to face such a situation. Don't make a decision in a hurry, because it is painful to choose you now.

　　Note that the moment is painful, because it is not pleasant to leave or continue, so don't force yourself if you can't make a decision for a while.

　　The more you want to make a decision, the more you can't do it. Don't force yourself. Unless, of course, you are the kind of person who is particularly decisive and knows what you want.

　　Then give yourself some space, because you will be very painful in the face of him, and you can't understand why.

　　You let him explain and apologize to you, but you will still be hysterical and unforgivable. Do your own thing, even if you can't do it, force yourself to do a little every day.

　　In the separate time, think about what you really want and what you can't let go.

　　If you want unique love, then he may not be able to give it to you, because if he could, he wouldn't make such a mistake, and even if you forgive it, you won't believe it in the future.

　　Your perfect love has been broken.

　　If you are reluctant to give up your own efforts, then think about it, because these years of efforts are not to build your own future.

　　Stop loss in time, repair yourself again, or let your future be in this kind of pain and anxiety from time to time.

　　Therefore, one should be clear about what one wants, and only after being clear can one have a choice.

　　Otherwise, you will fall into endless entanglements.

　　Don't waste yourself on those who abandon you, and don't look for traces of love in those who hurt you.

　　Learn from men to live with rational thinking, and your life will be much fresher.