People who are unhappy are often caused by these three reasons.

　　Writer San Mao once said: "Maturity is not for complexity, but for innocence."

　　Adults envy children's innocence and how easy it is for them to be happy.

　　Children's happiness comes from their inner purity, from the smallness of their desires, and from the fact that they always live in the present.

　　Growing up with age, not only the body, but also the complex heart, expanding desire and endless worries.

　　Those who really live a transparent life decide to return to innocence, simplicity and nature.

　　Keep your heart simple and don't play too much.

　　Adults are often full of care and intrigue.

　　Everyone wants to benefit from a relationship with others.

　　Therefore, some people say that the world of adults has only interests and no affection.

　　People who believe in this statement think they are smart, think they have seen through human nature, and think they know some truth about settling down.

　　In the end, it's just asking for trouble.

　　If you go out to eat with friends, someone must pretend to pay, but after waiting for a long time, he has not paid.

　　This kind of hypocritical behavior stems from the inner care, for fear of paying more money.

　　In fact, it is good for friends to get along simply. Today you treat me to a meal, and tomorrow I treat you to a meal.

　　Or simply say that eating together is all AA, as simple as that.

　　But adults, often have a lot of drama in their hearts, and their hearts are responsible for acting day and night. How can they be tired?

　　Get rid of the drama that consumes a lot of effort in your heart, and at least live more easily!

　　Less desire, more happiness.

　　With the growth of people's age, desire is like a snowball, and it is getting bigger and bigger.

　　When I was a child, a nice pen, a delicious candy and a small toy could make people happy all day.

　　When you grow up, you have to have a luxurious car, a spacious house and a seven-figure deposit to be happy. Even I won't be happy for long.

　　There are also benefits of great desire, which can inspire people to forge ahead. But this endeavor is inevitably mixed with all kinds of uncivilized and inhuman turbidity, which is the harm of great desire.

　　In reality, it can be seen that some people sell poisonous people's food, some people are greedy for people's property, and some people cheat good people's kindness ... all of which are to satisfy the growing desire.

　　For an individual, the greater the desire, the harder it is to be happy.

　　Anyone who thinks that he should get something scarce can be happy, and he will never be happy all his life.

　　The ancients looked at the bright moon in the mountains and listened to the breeze in their ears, so they could feel very happy. Modern people are preoccupied with comparison with others, how can they have the leisure to experience this pleasure?

　　A heart with fate can solve many worries.

　　The material life of modern people is much better than that of ancient people, but human anxiety seems to be even worse than that of ancient people.

　　"Good comparison" is probably the eternal human nature.

　　As a result, if you have a car, I have to have it; You have a house, and I have to have it; Your child goes to an aristocratic school, but my child can't go, so I'll let him learn this and that, no matter which one he wants to learn.

　　Eternal comparison will bring eternal anxiety, because if you want to compare, you will win or lose, and the loser will naturally be nervous and hope to become the winner as soon as possible.

　　In fact, human beings compare with each other, which not only brings anxiety to human beings themselves, but also makes the world very anxious.

　　The resources of the world are limited, and everyone wants to have more and better resources. Isn't it hollowing out the whole world?

　　Obama has said that China people can't live like Americans. They always understand the problem of resources.

　　Therefore, it can be said that the result of comparing human beings with each other is nothing more than letting human beings perish together in advance.

　　Secondly, with "wisdom", human beings should also challenge the natural laws of the universe.

　　People who hold supreme power often begin to pursue immortality. Ordinary people, on the other hand, have to worry about birth, illness and death.

　　This is also one of the main reasons why people are always anxious.

　　And people often ignore the fact that the more anxious people are, the more likely they are to have problems with their health.

　　Lovely, it's always hard to stop worrying, always thinking about making more money so that you can cure diseases in the future. It's inevitable that you may have put the cart before the horse-you might not have got sick so much, or you might not have gotten sick so early, right?

　　It is not unreasonable for the ancients to stress that people should conform to the weather and work and rest reasonably, right?

　　People roll up people, and people will die quickly after all.