As soon as I was ready to travel, my parents invited me back to my mother's house, but my daughter refused： I can't afford to fight for half a month on the floor.

　　Every winter and summer vacation, are you willing to take your children out for a trip, or are you willing to go back to your parents' home and spend time with them?

　　For most women, before marriage, the maiden's family is their spiritual sustenance. However, after marriage, her mother's family has become a home she can't go back to.

　　It's not that her family doesn't welcome her to go back, but that the way back to her family is paved with money. Although it seems that my parents are too snobbish and materialistic, the reality is often so cruel and true.

　　Zhong Qing gave up going back to her mother's house this year and prepared to take her children out for a trip. But who doesn't know, as soon as they packed their luggage, their parents called to invite them back to their parents' home for the summer, and said that they had arranged their rooms and bedding early, so that they could rest assured that they wouldn't hit the floor again this year.

　　For her parents' enthusiasm, Zhong Qing was indifferent. She refused without hesitation. It took 30,000 yuan to lay the floor for half a month, so she couldn't afford it. So what kind of story is there between parents and daughters, which leads to such complaints from daughters?

　　When I married my husband, although my husband's family was only separated from her family by more than 300 kilometers, it was still a long marriage. Therefore, my parents strongly opposed marriage, thinking that it would be difficult for me to subsidize my mother's family as soon as I married her husband's family.

　　If I hadn't stuck to my guns, maybe my parents would have succeeded in beating Yuanyang. In order to marry me back smoothly, my husband spent 100 thousand bride price. And this bride price money, in the end, did not come with my dowry, but was intercepted by my parents, euphemistically called as my daughter's filial piety to my parents.

　　Although I am a little angry with my parents for selling their daughters, I can't speak ill of my parents in front of my in-laws. I can only pay more attention to my in-laws in exchange for their understanding.

　　In the first few years of marriage, buying a car has been stranded because we have to save money to buy a house. Without my own car, it is not easy to go back to my mother's house, so although it is only over 300 kilometers, I only go back once a year after I have been married for 8 years.

　　At the beginning, the child was too young to take out, and the road back to her family became extremely difficult. Later, when the children grew up, they couldn't afford a car at home, so they had to take the bus with big bags and small bags at a time. Finally, when the children grow up and the family finally has the conditions to buy a car, it is finally an easy thing to go back to their parents' home.

　　In addition, parents have always looked down on her husband, thinking that his family is too general, and he doesn't give her a good look every time, and her husband is not willing to come back to see other people's faces.

　　My parents also hate iron for not turning into steel. They think that my wings are hard and I will fly high. I don't listen to my parents' advice and find a local suitable object to marry, so that I can help my family and my brother nearby.

　　I often turn a deaf ear to this series of complaints and dissatisfaction from my parents. Although I have been chilling, I finally accepted the reality helplessly. I am not married to the rich and powerful second generation. I am also unable to meet all my parents' demands.

　　In the summer vacation before my son went to primary school at the age of 6, it happened to be my father's 60th birthday. My husband and I drove our children back to our parents' home to celebrate his father's birthday.

　　Before we left, my husband and I had prepared a gift for everyone in our family in the shopping mall, including five kinds of parents, brothers, sisters-in-law and nephews, which also cost me almost 3000 yuan.

　　When I arrived at my mother's house, it was not big. The room before I got married was converted into a children's room by my sister-in-law in the spring of this year for my nephew to live in. Therefore, as soon as we come back, there is no place to stay.

　　My husband suggested going out to stay in a hotel or a hotel, but my parents said that it is summer vacation and staying in a hotel or a hotel is not cheap. Instead of wasting money on accommodation, it is better to lay the floor in the living room at home and spend time with your parents and family, and you can save a lot of money.

　　Seeing that my parents have spoken like this, it is not good for my husband to insist on staying in a hotel. It's just that after playing the floor for a few days, my husband became impatient and discussed with me to leave. But my father's 60th birthday hasn't arrived yet. We just came back to celebrate his birthday. How can we leave early?

　　As soon as I spoke, my husband forbeared again. It's just that after that, all the expenses of her family were paid by us. At first, my husband and I were embarrassed to eat and drink for free, so we rushed to buy food and sell fruit.

　　But after a long time, parents and younger brother's sister-in-law became accustomed to it, and they needed to change any electrical appliances at home and asked us for money. In this way, in just half a month, we also spent almost 9000 yuan.

　　On my father's 60th birthday, I gave him another 10,000, my mother 8,000 and my nephew 1,000. It's just that my parents looked a little ugly at that time, thinking that the money I gave my nephew was too small, only 1000, and my brother-in-law would have a problem.

　　At that time, my heart was very bad, but my parents always whispered in my ear. Before I left, I gave my nephew another 2000 yuan. My parents were satisfied, smiled and said goodbye to us, and told us to go back to our parents' house often.

　　After coming back from my parents' house, my husband and I scrimped and saved for a long time. After all, my husband and I don't have a high salary. We spent 30,000 yuan in half a month when we went back to our parents' home, which is basically the sum of our two months' salary. What makes my husband even more dissatisfied is that half a month after returning to her mother's house, we played the floor for half a month.

　　Although I feel bad about money, I also advise my husband that my father's 60th birthday is only once, and it will cost a little money to spend. As for the floor, it is only a stopgap measure, and it will pass in a few days. Having said that, it took us a long time to get over it.

　　It's this summer vacation again, and when I think of last year's expenses, I give up the idea of going back to my parents' house and prepare to take my children out to travel and see the world. It's just that when we went out, our parents called and invited us to go back to our parents' house for the summer.

　　I said grumpily, why go back? How embarrassing it is to have to make a floor in the living room where people come and go if there is no room.

　　My mother was afraid that I wouldn't go back, so she specially mentioned that it won't happen this time. Last year, there was no room for you to make a floor. This year, we specially prepared in advance to let the child live with his parents, and when you come back, you will still live in the room before you got married. We all miss our grandchildren.

　　I have a sneer inside. I'm afraid my parents miss my money, not my grandchildren. After all, for a whole year, if I didn't take the initiative to call my parents, my parents wouldn't remember to call me.

　　I can't help but feel cold when I think of the ticket I booked, and then I went back to my mother's house for my birthday last year, but it turned out that I spent 30 thousand yuan on the floor for half a month.

　　I refused my parents directly and told them that it would cost 30,000 yuan to lay the floor for half a month. We can't afford to lay this floor. Let's go back and visit you later when we are free. Say that finish, I decisively hung up the phone.

　　My husband is afraid that I will annoy my parents, and I can't even go back to my mother's house in the future. But I just smiled bitterly. After all, the road back to my mother's house is paved with money, and our current economic level is not enough to have deep pockets.

　　Besides, what's the point of going back to a family that only smells of money and no affection? What others think about is not you, but the money in your pocket.

　　Today's topic:

　　Do you think the maiden's road is paved with money?