＂This is not my home, let alone your home.＂ The daughter stole, and her mother-in-law prevented her from winning the respect of her daughter-in-law.

　　A writer's uncle once said:

　　"No matter how far you get married, please keep a return ticket for yourself."

　　Once a woman is married, she will have at least four families. A small family composed of men and unmarried children is called your own home, which is the focus of your life and the place you need to pay most attention to; The network formed by man family of origin is called husband's family; A woman's family of origin is called her maiden's family. When her children get married, their small family with their spouses is their children's family, but not their parents'.

　　It is very important for women to handle the relationship with their parents. If your family of origin is not such a bad family and your parents are not bad to you, you should try your best to deal with your family. When you encounter problems, the support of your parents and brothers may be your backing and help you tide over the difficulties.

　　For women with brothers, it is the most important step to deal with the relationship with their parents.

　　Zhou Guoping said in Man and Eternity:

　　"All communication has an insurmountable final boundary. This boundary is unclear, but it is certain."

　　When you get along with your sister-in-law, you must grasp each other's boundaries and don't cause trouble to each other's lives. Otherwise, not only will your sister-in-law be unable to live in harmony, but it may also affect each other's marriage.

　　01. After marriage, I met a more reasonable in-laws; ?

　　When Gu Jing got married, she felt very lucky and felt that she had met a more reasonable in-laws.

　　When she came to the door for the first time, she got the courtesy she deserved. The man's parents not only gave a red envelope, but also made a table that met the family's taste and enthusiastically introduced her to other relatives.

　　When it comes to marriage, Gu Jing's marriage is also very smooth. The parents asked for a bride price of 88,000, and the in-laws promised very readily; Gu Jing was worried about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and proposed to buy another wedding room. The man's parents also expressed their understanding and took out a sum of money as a fund for buying a house.

　　"My father-in-law and mother-in-law are still at work and have a good temper. There is no contradiction in getting along with me. However, what I didn't expect was that my in-laws were very good, and my sister-in-law who was regarded as the apple of her eye by her family was not so good. "

　　02. My in-laws are very good, but my sister-in-law who is regarded as the apple of her eye by her family is not so good; ?

　　Gu Jing has a sister-in-law, three years younger than her husband, who is the apple of her family's eye.

　　Because parents are too busy to take care of their children, Gu Jing's husband and sister-in-law were brought up by grandparents. The old man is very strict with his grandson, urging him to study hard, but he dotes on his granddaughter. In addition, Gu Jing's husband is a crazy girl, and he has let his sister grow up, which has made his sister-in-law develop a domineering and selfish character.

　　"When I got married, my sister-in-law was still at home, living with her in-laws. Although she has a job, her income is not high, but her expenses are very high. As soon as the middle of the month, she asked my husband for money. My husband was soft-hearted, and after a few words of training, he couldn't resist his sister's tears, so he gave it. Once, in a chat with my mother-in-law, I let slip, and my husband and sister-in-law were scolded by her mother-in-law. My husband didn't say anything, but my sister-in-law hated me and didn't have a good face for me. "

　　When she comes home as a guest, her sister-in-law is always picky about Gu Jing's cooking. At one moment, she thinks there is too much salt, and at the other she says there is too much pepper, which makes Gu Jing feel very angry. Fortunately, my in-laws won't spoil her.

　　"Don't eat it if it's not delicious. Your sister-in-law is not your chef."

　　"Girls should be sensible and grateful. Look at you like this. After you get married, you will be picky about your husband and in-laws. How can you manage a good marriage?"

　　"I tell you, ask your brother for money again, and I'll tidy up you. And you, are you going to raise your sister for life? She spends so much money, can she not be rejected by men in the future? You are not loving her, but hurting her. Do you understand? "

　　After several reprimands from her in-laws, her sister-in-law restrained a lot. After she got married, Gu Jing also got peace.

　　03. My sister-in-law stole from me and was reprimanded by her mother-in-law, which made me respect her more. ?

　　Some time ago, my sister-in-law went back to her parents' home to visit her parents, and then came to my sister-in-law's house to be a guest, and once again she clashed with Gu Jing.

　　"She brought her daughter to come over and play with my daughter. Her daughter is one year younger than mine. She took a fancy to the doll I bought for her not long ago, and she clung to it and wanted to take it back. My daughter didn't like it and wanted to take it back. Both of them cried, and we were embarrassed for a while. "

　　After dinner, my sister-in-law sat for a moment, ready to go home. When she left, she did something shoplifting, picked up the doll and her daughter's other toys, packed them up and took them away. After the daughter saw it, she began to cry again.

　　"People, don't be so stingy! You're older than your sister, so don't you just have a few dolls? Your mother has money, let her buy you some more later. "

　　After listening to her sister-in-law's understatement, Gu could not sit still. It's not the first time that my sister-in-law has done this kind of thing. Every time she comes, she doesn't forget to take away some things, such as nutrition, food in the refrigerator and even cosmetics bought by Gu Jing. Although Gu Jing will be dissatisfied, because she is her husband's sister, they all choose to endure it.

　　"She took my things, maybe I can bear it, but I can't bear my daughter's. In cold blood, what do I care if her daughter cries or not? But she grabbed my daughter's things and bullied my daughter and cried. "

　　"Put it down and give it back to the crowd!" Before Gu Jing could speak, her mother-in-law had directly grabbed what was in her sister-in-law's hand, stuffed it back into her granddaughter's hand, and then taught the aggrieved sister-in-law: "This is not my home, not your home, we are all guests. As a guest, are you polite? Who taught you to pick up other people's things? Your sister-in-law bought all these. Did it cost you money? Why do you take it? In the future, be polite and respectful to your sister-in-law, just eat and drink, and don't cross the line in other things, otherwise, don't come back. If your sister-in-law has a problem with your brother because of you, do you have the face to see the old couple? "

　　Being scolded by her mother, her sister-in-law was speechless and dragged her daughter away with red eyes. The daughter stole, and her mother-in-law stopped her and won Gu Jing's respect.

　　"Although I have a sister-in-law who is not sensible, having a sensible mother-in-law saves a lot of things. I hope that my sister-in-law will remember her mother-in-law's words and stop making trouble, and I will not be bad to her."

　　04. Parents who love their daughter will ask their daughter to handle the relationship between aunt and sister-in-law. ?

　　Zeng Guofan once said:

　　"Satisfied with the breadth of the world, greedy for the universe."

　　Whether you get along with your loved ones or your spouse, you should know how to be content, and understand that there is no good end to being greedy and swallowing elephants. Whether it's your family or your spouse, once you ask too much, the other party will lose patience and tolerance sooner or later, and turn against you. Not only will you not get what you want, but you will also lose the person who is really good to you.

　　Parents who love their daughters will ask their daughters to handle the relationship between aunt and sister-in-law. As long as the elder brother and sister-in-law are not bad, pay attention to family ties, and the younger sister-in-law respects them a little, they can keep family ties. When a daughter really needs the help of her family, her brother and sister-in-law who have a good relationship with her daughter will often help her as far as they can. The affection of flesh and blood needs to be maintained with sincerity, not destroyed with desire.

　　In Do You Know, Mrs. Wang gave her daughter, Aunt Kang, everything she wanted, allowing her to touch the interests of her brother and sister-in-law again and again, thus harming her sister-in-law Aunt Wang. When Aunt Kang was in trouble, Aunt Wang had no affection for this sister-in-law, adding fuel to the fire and ruining her hope of leaving Shenjie Company. However, can you blame Aunt Wang for being a sister-in-law? Once a sister-in-law is a junior high school student, she can't blame her sister-in-law for being a fifteenth.

　　Today's topic: How do you think a daughter should deal with her sister-in-law at home? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.