＂After remarriage for 2 years, I became a free nanny again＂： People who jump in knowing it is a fire pit are stupid.

　　Zhang Xiaoxian once said:

　　"Two people are together to be happy, and breaking up is to alleviate the pain. You can't make me happy anymore, and I have to leave. When I leave, it is also very painful. However, you are definitely more painful than me, because I say goodbye first, and I am the first to pursue happiness."

　　When we find that love or marriage can not bring us happiness, but only pain, we may choose to cut off this relationship and leave each other to get rid of it. If the fate of two people is over, it is not a bad idea to separate.

　　After two people are separated, there are often three kinds of endings. One is that the road goes to different sides of the sky, and there is no contact. The other is that there are still contacts and entanglements with each other, but the relationship is not clear. The other is to get back together and continue the front.

　　If the couple still have feelings, it is a beautiful thing to separate because of some minor issues that have nothing to do with principle. However, before you get back together, you must think carefully, whether it is worthwhile to do so, and whether this person deserves another chance.

　　People can't fall down in the same river twice, and it's stupid to jump in knowing it's a fire pit.

　　"What I have a daughter? What a sin! That man has hurt her once, and finally got divorced and lived a quiet life. The man came to sell it badly, apologized, and she eagerly went back with others. I'm fine now. I'm dying and living in my husband's family. How can I live this life? “

　　Hearing Aunt Wei's crying, we insiders felt speechless about her daughter Li Juan's brain circuit.

　　01. After being married for 5 years, she was wronged in her husband's family;

　　Ten years ago, Aunt Wei's daughter Li Juan married Liu Hai, who was two years older than her. The first marriage lasted for five years.

　　When Liu Hai got married, her monthly salary had just exceeded 10,000 yuan. She especially disliked Li Juan's salary of less than 4,000 yuan, so she asked Li Juan to quit her job and become a housewife on the grounds that her parents were in poor health and needed someone to look after her at home. At first, Li Juan didn't agree, and she didn't quit her job until she got pregnant.

　　After Li Juan resigned, he didn't take charge of the family's financial power.

　　"At that time, my father-in-law and mother-in-law lived with us, and my husband's salary was stuck in her mother-in-law's hand. If I needed to spend money, I would ask her."

　　It is very difficult to ask my mother-in-law for money. Every time Li Juan asked for money, she had to give her mother-in-law a very good reason and was scolded by her mother-in-law: "You don't make money but just want to spend money? My son is working so hard, can't you understand? Are these things necessary? Who are you going to see if you don't go to work or go out to make up? "

　　Ten times, at least six or seven times failed, or failed to reach the amount. Li Juan complained to her husband. The most common sentence of her husband is "My mother must do it for my own good and listen to my mother."

　　The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became sharp, and the couple also quarreled constantly, and their feelings dropped rapidly.

　　02. At the time of divorce, she almost left home clean and lost the custody of her children;

　　The reason for Li Juan's divorce is very simple. Her husband has a confidante outside.

　　Li Juan accidentally discovered that her husband was ambiguous and angry when chatting with others on the Internet, and had a big fight with her husband. Instead of blaming her son, her parents-in-law ridiculed Li Juan. The husband conveniently asked for a divorce and drove Li Juan back to her family.

　　When it comes to her daughter's divorce, Aunt Wei is full of anger: "At the time of divorce, the man said that my daughter had never earned a penny, and every brick and tile in the family belonged to him. My daughter was not qualified to divide the property. Also, my daughter has no job, can't afford to raise children, and is not eligible for child custody. Therefore, my daughter was forced to leave the house clean, and her grandson stayed at their home. "

　　After the divorce, Li Juan was heartbroken, and Lacrimosa didn't come out until six months later. With the help of her cousin, Li Juan came to work in the city. Although she has been derailed from society for five years, she still has the talent to learn, and finally she has a firm foothold in the company, and her monthly salary has reached 6000. Although it is not too big, it is not a problem to support herself.

　　03. The man came to ask for remarriage, but she ignored her parents' opposition and went back to her husband's family.

　　During the two years of divorce, the connection between Li Juan and Liu Hai was to give her son support regularly and visit her children. To Aunt Wei's fury, two years after the divorce, Liu Hai went to their house and asked Li Juan to remarry.

　　"Wife, I know I was wrong. I shouldn't have been blinded by lard and didn't cherish you. Please, for the sake of your son, remarry with me. I will treat you well and grow old with you. "

　　At that time, Aunt Wei walked back unceremoniously: "It's ok to remarry, and you can hold back 200,000 bride price. If you are sorry for my daughter again, you can't get this 200,000 back."

　　To Aunt Wei's great disappointment, Li Juan, who insisted at first that she would not remarry, was softened by her son's crying several times, packed her things, took the household registration book, and got the certificate with the man.

　　"Mom, to err is human? It is normal for men to make mistakes. Now that he has made a mistake and we have children, what about giving him a chance? "

　　So, Li Juan didn't want anything, and went back to the home where she had broken her heart once.

　　04. After remarriage, she is still a free nanny;

　　After remarriage, Li Juan's life was still very bad. In the past, she was a free nanny for her husband's family. It was her job to take care of the elderly, do housework and take care of the children. Now, she is still a free nanny for her husband's family, but she needs to make money and be a big momma.

　　Li Juan came home and cried to Aunt Wei: "Now I finally know the purpose of his remarriage. My father-in-law was paralyzed, and my mother-in-law didn't want to wait on him. Liu Hai was reluctant to ask for a nanny, so she wanted to find a wife to be a free nanny. He had been dating for two years, and no woman would marry him, so he asked me to remarry under the banner of being good for the children. "

　　As soon as Li Juan remarried, her mother-in-law resumed her leisurely life of dancing in the square dance to provide for the elderly, and pushed the words of taking care of her father-in-law to Li Juan. As always, Liu Hai did nothing but play games at work. What's more, because Li Juan has income, Liu Hai doesn't give her money, so she can use her salary to pay for the family's living expenses.

　　"Before remarriage, what he said was all empty talk, and his attitude was completely two extremes. What should I do? After two years of remarriage, I became a free nanny again. If I divorce again, I'll be married three times. Now there is a cooling-off period for divorce. What should I do if he doesn't let go? "

　　Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, Li Juan cheated herself and let her parents shed tears for her.

　　05. Woman, have a little backbone, can't you live on your own?

　　Zhao Geyu said:

　　"What kind of women are attractive women? Independence! Spiritual independence, economic independence. Spiritual independence, thoughts and opinions, will not lose themselves because of men. "

　　There is a kind of woman who is hard to get happiness, called she can't live without a man. In their view, men are their own days and their only support. Once men are gone, they will panic and lose their minds, and they will not know how to live. This kind of woman who loses her independence will be very sad.

　　In fact, whether a man or a woman, there is only one person who can rely on you for a lifetime and live bravely, and that is yourself. If you are economically independent enough and have the ability to support yourself, you will not starve to death; If you live independently enough and have the ability to take care of yourself, your life will not be a mess; If you are independent enough, you won't be sold and counted.

　　Yi Shu once said:

　　Life is only a few decades, and the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not please others.

　　Woman, have a little backbone, is it not good to live for yourself? If you rely too much on a man, it will only make him look down on you and give him more confidence to disappoint you. If you really want to be good, don't be too weak.

　　END.

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