Henan： My mother-in-law found out that her daughter-in-law bought a courier and swore in front of her husband. Is this like living？

　　There seems to be no direct relationship between marital happiness and whether or not to get married, but in fact, second marriage is only a possibility for marital happiness. In a marriage relationship, if there are insoluble contradictions and problems between husband and wife, then second marriage becomes a way to solve the problem.

　　Through a failed marriage, couples have the opportunity to find their own happiness again, and at the same time know the shortcomings and shortcomings of their own personality. All this will change in the second marriage. Therefore, it is very reasonable to say that the second marriage is happier than the first marriage!

　　The true story of this issue comes from a woman in Henan who broke the news herself.

　　A woman in Henan received a courier, and it was her mother-in-law who opened the door to meet the courier. Knowing that it was a daughter-in-law's express delivery, it was unpleasant to take it directly and throw it in front of her daughter-in-law. She blurted out and asked if she would not live.

　　"It's your courier again. Do you think this day can still pass? You spend money on these things every day. This is all my son's hard-earned money!" Mother-in-law swore and tried to vent her anger.

　　It happened in Henan. It is understood that the woman had a failed marriage before. Because of the disharmony between husband and wife, the couple were forced to choose a divorce. Originally, I was disappointed in love. However, a strange man appeared in my life, and the two sides had a good impression on each other for a long time. The man did not dislike the woman as a second marriage person, which made the woman very moved.

　　Simply married, but life after marriage is not calm, especially the man's mother has a lot of opinions about herself. From the beginning of marriage to the present, the woman has been scolded by her mother-in-law, either because she spends money blindly and won't live, or because she is married for the second time and doesn't cherish her present life.

　　As the old saying goes, there is nothing to cherish. Second marriage is a woman's shortcoming and a thorn in her heart. As long as someone says that they can't live, or have other problems, women think that they dislike their second marriage.

　　On the same day, my mother-in-law once again scolded herself that she would not live, which made the woman suddenly angry and said that she would be happy if she bought the express delivery, and it would not cost a few dollars, and it was used at home. Even buying these things is a good thing that women have been looking for on the Internet for a long time and finally found, saying that they will never admit that they will not live.

　　In this way, the husband also walked out of the house, watching the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law arguing about their livelihood, and it was hard to say anything. After all, on the one hand, it is a person who gives birth to himself, and on the other hand, it is a person who wants to live with himself for a lifetime.

　　That's the question: What's the difference between "being able to live" in the eyes of the older generation and "being able to live" in the eyes of young people today?

　　For the older generation, the past life was relatively poor and the living resources were limited. Therefore, they pay attention to economy and thrift, and take saving money as their primary goal in life. They will reduce waste as much as possible, reuse old items, or repair damaged items themselves. In their values, saving money is a virtue of returning to life, and it is also a performance of being responsible for themselves and their families.

　　However, great changes have taken place in the current living environment, giving young people more choices. They pay more attention to the quality and convenience of life, and no longer just pursue economy and thrift. Nowadays, young people are more inclined to improve their quality of life and save time and energy by buying products with easy functions. In their values, saving money and using functions are not contradictory, but can have both.

　　Although the older generation and the current young people have different understandings of "living", it does not mean that one of them is more correct or superior than the other. Every era has different values and lifestyles, and has its unique advantages and limitations. What is important is that we should respect each other's choices and understanding in order to build a harmonious and inclusive society.