When dating, the man asked for AA system, and the woman's counterattack stunned the netizen： Is it reasonable to escape the order？

　　In ancient times, "parents' orders and matchmakers' words" were the most important forms of marriage. Later, due to the introduction of western thoughts, people's pursuit of "free love" also rose.

　　However, in today's society, with the increasing pressure of young people's lives, many young people have no time or energy to fall in love, so blind date has become a very popular way of love.

　　Recently, the blind date of a young man in Xi 'an has aroused widespread concern. What happened?

　　Young people are very calm about their feelings and marriage, and they have never thought about going on blind dates. But at the urging of his family, he gave in.

　　Before going on a blind date, the young man added WeChat to the girl and told her that it would cost AA, but the girl didn't say much, only that she wanted to bring a good friend over for dinner. So, on the day of the date, the young man went happily.

　　After a meal, it's time to pay. At this point, the girls and their good friends told the boys that they were going to the bathroom. Young people don't care, just sit there and wait.

　　As a result, after waiting for a long time, there was no sign of them. Call the past, there is no answer.

　　At this point, the little brother discovered that the girl had left. Later, the boss asked him for money, and he also said that he would pay half of the money at most.

　　In other words, a meal costs 203 yuan, while this young man can only pay 101.5 yuan. Under the deadlock, there was no way, so the boss had to call the police.

　　When the police came, they asked the young man to give him the money first, and then they went to find the girl, but the young man refused.

　　The police had no choice but to tell him to pay half the money first, and when he got home, let him contact the girl and give him the other half tomorrow.

　　Seeing that the other party is so stubborn, the shopkeeper can only agree. So when the young people paid 103 yuan, they began to laugh at the young people, saying that as long as they paid 101.5 yuan, you gave 1.5 yuan more, so you couldn't sleep without fear of going home.

　　As soon as this news came out, the Internet immediately exploded. There are also many people who think that this young man is really a freak. He can't even get 203 yuan, and he will definitely be more stingy in the future. Some people also accused the girl, saying that if the girl didn't want to have no intention of him, she would just refuse.

　　In fact, both of them have problems. If girls can't accept AA system, they can refuse it directly.

　　However, she doesn't know if she doesn't like what the young man has done, so she will tease the young man with her friends. Thus, the girl's mind is still too narrow.

　　As for the problem of young people, it is even more complicated, and that is the AA system.

　　Most people believe that when men and women are together, men should bear most of the dating expenses. Psychosocially, this is a custom formed by the long-standing gender inequality.

　　In ancient times, women's social status was very low, and they could not obtain economic independence. They had to depend on men to live.

　　But it's different now. Women can finally get rid of men's control and gain economic independence. They can afford to date, and some women even earn more than men.

　　To a certain extent, AA system is also an equality between men and women. However, the AA system is not as simple as people think.

　　Between strangers, AA system is a matter of course. However, between lovers, if it is too clear, it will make people feel uncomfortable.

　　In this case of men's blind date in Xi 'an, before the two sides met, the man proposed AA system, which obviously made the woman feel a little uncomfortable.

　　After all, in today's society, it is a default practice that men pay for the first meeting. If this young man says the word "AA", then this young man will definitely leave a bad impression on others.

　　This will have a great negative impact on girls. If girls are reluctant to spend 200 yuan for dinner on blind date, wouldn't they be more stingy?

　　The next scene proves this point. Young people would rather call the police than pay. Even the boss felt a little puzzled by such strange behavior.

　　According to ordinary people's thinking, whether men or women encounter such a thing, they must pay for it themselves, so as not to bring unnecessary trouble to others. After all, the most innocent person is their own boss.

　　Some people say that if we want to advocate equality between men and women, we should implement AA system like western countries.

　　In fact, this is a wrong concept, the western love culture. In fact, not all westerners need AA system for dating.

　　A blogger living in the United States said that he had dated American women, British women and French women. In the love culture of these countries, the first date between men and women is usually paid by the other party.

　　A formal date naturally includes dinner. If it's not formal, it's usually in a coffee shop or something.

　　Therefore, the implementation of AA system is not as easy as people think. It does not apply to all situations, nor does it apply to all people.

　　Others are willing to talk about AA and gender equality together. Earlier, we said that AA system represents gender equality in a certain sense.

　　However, in fact, we still have a long way to go to achieve gender equality. In today's society, women's rights are still not fully guaranteed.

　　The love and marriage of AA system can only be clearly drawn on the line of money. But in fact, there are more things to do than money.

　　If the fee is AA, can the contribution of both parties to their families also be AA? Can men do as much housework as women? Can men ensure that they put as much energy into their children?

　　All this is impossible. Therefore, for most women, if they get married or fall in love, then they will be considered to have paid more.

　　The AA system seems reasonable, but for them, it is for their families and children.

　　However, this does not mean that AA has no effect on the feelings of men and women, but depends on the method used.

　　For example, if a person has dated another person many times, he won't bear all the expenses alone. People who are willing to spend money not only show that you have money, but also show that you like each other very much and know each other very well.

　　In addition, when choosing AA system, we should also consider people's acceptance of AA system and the cultural situation of today's society. If you insist on AA system blindly, it will make people feel out of place.