Facts have proved that all women who prefer boys to girls have one thing in common.

　　A friend once asked me, "it is understandable that a man prefers boys to girls because he is a man;" But why do women prefer boys to girls? Have they forgotten that they are women? "

　　Of course, they know that they are women. The reason why they do this is not out of their love for their children, but based on human nature.

　　They don't love their son much. They love themselves from beginning to end.

　　Writer Ai Qing once said: "The combination of selfishness and greed will hatch many poisonous snakes that harm others."

　　Mothers who prefer sons to daughters are selfish and greedy. They have been hurting their daughters to satisfy their own interests.

　　This kind of women is very hateful. They never feel anything wrong with their actions, because they are exquisite egoists, which is common to all mothers who prefer sons to daughters.

　　Egoism-everything is aimed at "self-interest"

　　The definition of "egoism": the thought that only cares about one's own interests and ignores the interests of others and the collective.

　　If we want to understand this word in a deeper level, it is probably the thought and attitude towards life that puts personal interests first, and it also refers to an ethical theory that considers personal interests above everything else and takes personal happiness as the norm of all actions.

　　Such people have no bottom line, and even their children can be their chips.

　　For an egoistic mother, no child loves more, only one is more useful.

　　Women prefer boys to girls, and what matters is "profit"

　　During the Northern Wei Dynasty, there was a Queen Mother Ling, who was called Hu by later generations. She was an ambitious and unscrupulous woman.

　　She was born in a noble family, and her father was the prime minister of the dynasty. When she reached the age of marriage, she naturally entered the palace and became an imperial concubine.

　　Later, when she was pregnant, she kept praying to the Buddha that she could give birth to a prince.

　　There is an unwritten rule in ancient times: the first son is more expensive than the mother, and the concubine's mother is more expensive.

　　At that time, the queen had not given birth to a son. If Hu gave birth to a son, she would probably be made a prince, so she would no longer be an ordinary concubine.

　　Later, as expected, she gave birth to her son and treated him as a treasure. After Xuan Wudi died, her son succeeded to the throne and was called Emperor Xiaoming.

　　Because the emperor was young, she began to listen to politics, but as her son grew up day by day, all the officials began to advise her to return to politics in Emperor Xiaoming.

　　In order not to be robbed of power by her son, she poisoned her son to death.

　　The ancients often said: "Tiger poison does not eat children."

　　But she was so vicious that she didn't even let her son go.

　　Sima Qian once said: "The world is bustling, all for profit; The world is bustling, all for profit. "

　　People all over the world flock for the benefit and go their separate ways for the benefit.

　　Interests can drive human nature, but also destroy people's hearts.

　　Hu prayed for the birth of a son when she was pregnant, because only her son could improve her status and status in the age when men were superior to women. After her son was born, she treated her son like a treasure because her future was tied to him.

　　Later, she poisoned her son because he became a stumbling block to her power.

　　There are many such cases in history. The only difference is that many mothers only suppress their sons, but not kill them.

　　From ancient times to the present, it is nothing new for women to prefer sons to daughters, but everyone has always entered a misunderstanding. You think that women prefer sons because they love their sons, but this is not the case.

　　It is true that boys are preferred to girls, but women never love their sons, but the benefits they can get from them.

　　In powerful families, women can get power and status from their sons; In an ordinary family, a woman can get the respect of her husband's family and the guarantee of her life from her son.

　　Because the husband-in-law is patriarchal, a woman can stand firm in the husband-in-law only after giving birth to a son; Because the daughter will marry when she grows up, only the son can stay with her, so raising a child can prevent her from getting old.

　　What women do is not because they naturally love their sons, but because their daughters can't bring benefits, and sons can bring them congenital benefits.

　　Based on this, they never love their son, but themselves.

　　Women who prefer sons to daughters have no maternal love, only interests.

　　Many girls are sad and even hurt because their mothers prefer sons to daughters, and even their psychology has left a shadow.

　　They have never understood why she only loves her son and not herself, because they are all mothers' children.

　　When a girl sees the truth clearly, she may not be so sad, because in the whole process, her brother is just a pawn of interest.

　　Mother favored him since childhood, and gave him all her property, not because she loved him, but because she wanted to live with him when she was old, and she needed to count on him to provide for the elderly. In fact, this is a kind of interest relationship.

　　I really like a sentence said by a scholar: "The greatness of maternal love lies in its willingness to sacrifice everything for children and never asking for anything in return."

　　Only a mother's love, which is voluntary and unrequited, is true love, and such a mother's love will never be partial and partial, and it will be evenly sprinkled on every child like sunshine.

　　Any mother who prefers boys to girls, no matter how good she seems to her son, is actually profitable.

　　She loved her son from beginning to end, but herself. It was more a relationship of interest than a mother-child relationship between her and her son.