Psychology： People who are narrow-minded, like to care and control are often psychologically fixed in the symbiotic period.

　　Human nature is complex and contradictory. It stands to reason that if a person wants to complete socialization, he must adapt to and enjoy normal interpersonal relationships.

　　However, the ability of human beings to adapt to society is different, because the environment and experience of growing up make them focus on different dimensions of human nature.

　　If human nature is displayed in a coordinate system, the vertical axis is the strength dimension and the horizontal axis is emotional dimension.

　　The strength dimension is divided into narcissism dimension, power dimension and ability strength dimension.

　　Emotional dimension can be understood as relational dimension, moral dimension and good and evil dimension.

　　Human psychology is developed in relationships, and love and hate are the emotions we often talk about.

　　However, the emotional ability of love and hate is lagging behind in psychological development, and the narcissism dimension is natural.

　　Narcissism is a fundamental attribute of human beings.

　　Newborn babies are naturally narcissistic, but they also involve death anxiety, so they are very sensitive to the strength and power.

　　British psychologist Klein said: "Being equals being perceived".

　　In other words, you felt my feelings, and I found out that I existed like this.

　　In short, it is a person's sense of existence, and his feelings are seen by another person.

　　A person's initial sense of existence comes from his feelings being seen by his mother or other important caregivers.

　　In other words, the development level of individual energy is shaped by the initial relationship of life.

　　At the beginning of life, babies are relatively weak, and there is almost no resource or ability. At this time, all their life dynamics need the cooperation of their mothers.