To the post-70 s： In old age, people would rather have a poor reputation than spend money in four aspects.

　　Charles Lamb said such a sentence:

　　"Money is a passport that allows us to get rid of any area other than heaven; At the same time, it can also provide us with anything except happiness. "

　　As the saying goes, money makes the mare go, but without money, we can't move. Money plays an extremely important role in our life. No matter where you are or what you want to do, money is indispensable. If a person leaves money, it is like a fish leaving water, which is doomed to be unhappy.

　　Money is also an essential thing for people to provide for their old age. Without money, we can't treat diseases in time to prolong our lives; If there is no money, when our children are unfilial, we have no way out to live; If there is no money, our relatives will dislike us.

　　Getting more money is everyone's goal in life. If a person wants to get more money, he needs to know how to save money besides working hard to make money. Money needs to be taken properly and made the best use of.

　　To the post-70 s: In old age, people would rather have a poor reputation than spend money in four aspects. When people reach their old age, the first thing we need to consider is how to live a good life in their old age, instead of continuing to pay attention to ostentation and extravagance and face.

　　1. Stay away from poor relatives and don't waste money on them;

　　Writer Lu Yao wrote such a passage with profound philosophy in "Ordinary World":

　　"Relatives are often vulgar, trying to get rid of each other and rolling their eyes if they don't. Even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives."

　　Relatives are the kind of people we have to deal with. Good relatives can bring us affection, bring us warm feelings, and give us timely help at critical moments; Bad relatives will bring us troubles and disputes, and they will even step on you at the critical moment, making you worse. Therefore, we must stay away from poor and selfish relatives in our later years and don't waste money on them.

　　When interacting with relatives, the old people should remember two principles, one is to settle accounts clearly with their brothers, and the other is to save the poor without saving the poor. When relatives ask you to borrow money, you need to follow your heart and make a decision, and ask your children for advice in advance. When you promise to borrow money, you must leave evidence in case the other party refuses to repay it. If relatives turn against you and accuse you under the banner of relatives, you don't need to be affectionate. People who really have the idea of paying back money will not care about the requirement of writing IOUs, nor will they give you a cold-blooded hat for this. In old age, selfishness is the king of life.

　　2. Refuse to attend unnecessary banquets and dinners, so as not to get both money and health;

　　In our daily life, we inevitably need to attend all kinds of parties, such as wedding banquets and school banquets. In fact, many people hate attending the banquet. They don't want to pay, and they don't want to make promises with these unimportant people.

　　Old people should pay attention to the fact that they should not attend some banquets if they can't go, and don't give money if they can't. When attending a banquet, the elderly should pay attention to their diet, eat food that is harmless to their health according to the doctor's advice, and never do anything that has adverse effects on their health, such as drinking with others.

　　In order to give others face and attend parties, it is the most loss-making business for the elderly to let themselves live in the hospital because of health problems in their diet. In old age, you can be without children, but you can't be without healthy body. Once you get sick, even if you have a golden hill in your hand, it won't be enough to spend. When people get old, their recovery ability will drop rapidly. Even a common cold may cause other sequelae and cause more trouble. What's more, there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed for a long time. Once you have a serious illness, you will become a burden to your children and be complained by your children. Not only will you suffer physically, but your mood will also become depressed, which will affect your life.

　　3. Reject unreliable investments and don't dream of getting rich overnight;

　　Some time ago, grandpa was seriously ill because of his depressed mood. With the comfort of his mother and elder sister-in-law, he came out.

　　Grandpa was depressed because he met a liar and was cheated out of his savings of 100 thousand yuan. According to grandpa, the swindler told him that there was an investment that was very hot and could get high returns. Grandpa felt very excited, and stepped into the trap step by step under the calculation of the liar, and took in 100 thousand yuan.

　　When I asked my grandfather why he still wanted to get rich when he was very old, he said something like this: "I want to earn some money, save some savings for you young people and reduce your living burden."

　　Like grandpa, many old people still dream of getting rich overnight in their later years, just for the sake of their children. They have worked hard for most of their lives and are making contributions to their children. After old age, the old man is still reluctant to spend money and wants to save some money for the younger generation as much as possible. Liars take advantage of the psychology of the elderly and cheat their pensions under the banner of making money by investing. Other swindlers use the psychology of the elderly to prolong their life, and cheat the elderly's pension under the banner of selling health care products.

　　There is no such thing as a pie. This sentence is not only advice for young people, but also advice for the elderly. Young people have grown up, they should be responsible for their own lives, making money is their business, and they should not continue to do old-fashioned things. When people reach their old age, they should hold on to their savings and live a simple and stable life. When you encounter something you don't understand, you should ask your children in time and don't believe what strangers say. Generally speaking, strangers take the initiative to care about you and befriend you, often with ulterior motives.

　　4. Refuse to empty savings for children and leave necessary life-saving money for later life.

　　Buying a house is the biggest headache for young people. In order to let their children get married and have children, many parents will empty their life savings and buy houses for their children. In fact, it is extremely risky for parents to spend all their property for their children's marriage. Once your children are not filial, or your children's spouses can't get along well with you, you will be in a dilemma without savings.

　　Some time ago, Aunt Geng in our community fell out with her son, which attracted the attention of people around her. Aunt Geng told us that her son was about to get married and needed to buy a wedding room. Daughter-in-law took a fancy to a wedding room worth more than 3 million yuan and put forward the requirement of not marrying without this suite. Originally, Aunt Geng planned to pay hundreds of thousands of down payment for her son, write the names of her son and daughter-in-law on the real estate license, and let them repay the loan by themselves after marriage. However, Aunt Geng's son didn't want to bear the mortgage and said something like this: "Don't fool me, I know you have money in your hand. Three years ago, my hometown was demolished, and I compensated 3 million yuan for the demolition, which was just used to buy a house for me. Don't you know how stressful our lives are? Also let me bear the mortgage, are you my own mother, and I don't know how I feel about my son. "

　　Although Aunt Geng has all the money to buy a house, she doesn't want to take it out: "My wife and I don't have a pension. If we spend all the money and our son refuses to give us a pension, we will have no way out in our later years."

　　For this matter, Aunt Geng's son flew into a rage at home and preached his mother's selfishness everywhere. Fortunately, everyone who knew what had happened supported Aunt Geng and scolded her son.

　　Being a man needs to be selfish. As a person, you should first consider the problem of survival. If you can't even solve the basic survival problem, you can't think about other things. As long as your selfishness does not interfere with the normal interests of others and has no bad influence, there is nothing wrong with thinking more about yourself. Moreover, it is something that the elderly should have done to save life-saving money for the elderly, which is not selfish.

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