It's true that your attitude towards your parents determines your luck in life.

　　"Parents are there, and life is still there. When parents go, there is only a way home in life. "

　　Parents are the origin of our life and the fulcrum of our life. We are doomed to be entangled with our parents for life.

　　Therefore, a person's attitude towards his parents can best reflect his true character.

　　Parents raise us young, and our adoptive parents are old. This is not only a responsibility and obligation, but also an emotion and morality.

　　The so-called filial piety comes first in all the virtues. In many cases, your attitude towards your parents determines your luck in life.

　　Wen | cares about

　　(updated at 12:30 or 17:30)

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　　Respect your parents, starting with a pleasant face.

　　Zi Xia, a disciple of Confucius, once asked about what filial piety is.

　　Confucius said: "color is difficult."

　　In filial piety, it is the most difficult to give parents a good face.

　　This includes the instinctive bullying in human nature.

　　We bully outsiders and give them a look, and we need to pay the cost and price. For the closest family members, the price behind us is often very low.

　　Therefore, it is difficult to be kind and emotionally stable to your family.

　　There are too many such things in life.

　　As parents get older, their children often become impatient and smelly because they can't keep up with the times.

　　After his father died, my cousin blamed himself for his impatience countless times.

　　"At that time, he couldn't use a smart phone, and he couldn't teach it a few times. He got angry when he taught me, and now he feels guilty when he thinks about it. Parents teach their children to learn to walk and talk, and they don't know how long it took and how much patience. "

　　More often, we also like to use "no time" to perfunctory our parents and send them away.

　　We can buy them food, clothing and use, but it is rare to sit down and listen to them.

　　As the writer Zhou Guoping said, it is instinct to be critical of those closest to you. We are always used to giving smiling faces to outsiders and leaving bad temper to our family around us.

　　It is a kind of education to overcome the picky instinct and not be picky about people close to you.

　　For parents, this is not only a kind of respect from their children, but also the beginning of filial piety.

　　Even as long as their children have a smiling face for them, they will be satisfied.

　　Two

　　Understand parents and accept their imperfections.

　　There was once a Douban group called "Parents are evil", which discussed the primary harm that parents brought to themselves.

　　Parents do have children, but blood relationship is not the reason for kidnapping children.

　　After all, not all parents deserve to be parents, and some parents actually don't love their children.

　　And every pair of ordinary parents also has their own shortcomings.

　　However, parents are something we can't choose. All we can do is to understand them, accept them, make peace with them and make peace with ourselves.

　　Just like the sentence that Deshan's father said to Deshan in the Korean drama "Please Answer 1988": "Dad is also a father for the first time. Please forgive me for what I did badly."

　　My friend Xiao Jiang was once a member of the group "Both parents are evil". In his own words, being born in such a family is really a great misfortune in life.

　　His father is lazy and fond of gambling, and his mother is hard-working but bitter. He has lived in the quarrel between his parents since he was a child. The most terrible thing is that every time mother and father quarrel, they will take it out on Xiaojiang and beat and scold him. But after the scolding, I will hold him and cry ...

　　Xiao Jiang said that his childhood was only gray. On the day he left home for college, he felt that the air became free.

　　For these reasons, before the age of 35, Xiao Jiang's feelings for his parents were very complicated, with natural blood love and more resentment caused by childhood injuries.

　　After the age of 35, Xiao Jiang reconciled with his parents.

　　"Let go of your obsession and life will become easier."

　　No matter what kind of parents, they have their own inner helplessness. Understand them, tolerate them and accept their shortcomings, and your mentality will be completely different and your life will be much broader.

　　three

　　Be kind to your parents, and you will get a clear conscience.

　　The writer Mo Yan has a saying, which can make people feel sad when read.

　　"Parents are a wall between us and death."

　　When our parents are around, we can always be someone's children, but once our parents leave, we become real adults, and no one can give us an umbrella anymore.

　　What is the greatest blessing in life?

　　However, when you are middle-aged, every time you go home, there are parents to shout, and there is a lamp from parents that always lights up for you.

　　When we were young, our parents raised us and sheltered us from the wind and rain.

　　When we are adults, our parents have become the biggest spiritual pillar and comfort in our hearts. Whenever it rains in our hearts, they are the umbrellas that keep out the rain.

　　Therefore, only by being kind to your parents can you be blessed and be blessed.