When a woman is completely emotional, there will be a signal: open the restricted area.

  Dale Carnegie is known as the "father of adult education" in the United States. His book "The Weakness of Human Nature" brings together the essence of his thoughts and the most touching contents, which is the author's most successful life classic.

  Since its publication in 1936, this book has sold 90 million copies and been translated into 58 languages, making it one of the most enduring bestsellers in the world, ranking first among successful books. Known as "the world's first book on success" and "the world's best-selling, classic and practical reference book for dealing with people".

  The reason why this book is never out of date lies in Mr Carnegie's profound understanding of human nature and its effective prescription for eradicating the weakness of human nature. As Carnegie said: "Only 15% of a person's success is attributed to his professional knowledge. Another 85% is attributed to his ability to express ideas, lead others and arouse their enthusiasm. " As long as you study it repeatedly, it will help you acquire the 85% ability necessary for success.

  The weakness of human nature

  When a woman is completely emotional, there will be a signal: open the restricted area.

  Because feelings are not a person's business, one's efforts are useless. Without a woman's consent, your efforts to provoke you will be nothing after all.

  Emotional things can't be forced, knowing that women don't want to, why bother you?

  What love needs is your love and my wish. When you give your true feelings, women also express their willingness to be provoked by you, so that you can work together to create a romantic love.

  If you insist on it all the time, even if you give your all, it's just too much for women.

  Although women are eager for love, not everyone can provoke it. Only a man who makes her willing to be teased can really walk into her heart and get her heart.

  Compared with "I love you", the word "I do" can best reflect a woman's affection. Therefore, men should flirt with a woman who is willing to be teased by you.

  Maybe you will ask: a woman won't say what she thinks clearly, how can I know if she wants to be teased?

  Although a woman will not express her wishes clearly, as long as she is willing to be provoked by you, she will release some signals to remind you and hint at you.

  It is observed that the signal that women are willing to be teased by you is to open the forbidden area.

  Every woman has her own restricted area, and she won't easily open her own restricted area until she is emotionally exhausted. But after the emotion, she couldn't control herself anymore.

  So you should know that when a woman opens these forbidden areas for you, it means that she is willing to be teased by you. Only by grasping the opportunity well can you get the beauty back as soon as possible.

  First, open the forbidden zone of distance.

  The so-called distance entry does not simply refer to the distance in space, but to the distance between two people's hearts. Only when she is willing to be teased by you will a woman open the forbidden zone of distance and allow you to approach him step by step.

  Nowadays, many women have a strong sense of prevention. In order to keep the harm out, she will be indifferent and alienated. The only thing that can let him down his guard is love.

  If a woman doesn't want to be seduced by you, she will keep a safe distance from you. The more you move forward, the more she will retreat.

  There seems to be a gap between you that can never be bridged. No matter how hard you try, you can only wait and see from a distance.

  Only a woman who is willing to be teased by you will open the forbidden zone of distance and allow you to approach her. The continuous shortening of the distance just confirms a woman's sincerity.

  Because I'm already passionate about you, although I can't stand the distance. Although she didn't take the initiative to approach you, she has been giving you opportunities and waiting for your approach.

  If you receive this signal from a woman, you might as well be bold and move forward bravely, and love will come.

  Second, open the forbidden area of privacy.

  Everyone has their own privacy, and everyone will protect their privacy. Protecting privacy is the same as protecting yourself. If driven by ruthlessness, no one will easily open the forbidden area of privacy.

  For their own protection, women will not easily open their privacy restricted areas. Only the true feelings will make her desperate.

  Although a woman is still afraid of getting hurt, she has no choice because she has fallen in love. In order to let you know her better, and let you really enter her heart, she will not hesitate to open the forbidden area of privacy.

  You can know a woman's privacy, which proves that you are very important in her heart. Even if she hasn't said love to you, you should seize the opportunity.

  You have to understand that when a woman opens the forbidden area of privacy, she is actually telling you that she is willing to be teased by you. The opportunity is right in front of you, so don't miss it in vain.

  But you should pay attention to one thing, no matter whether you finally get together or not, you should protect a woman's privacy and don't betray her trust in you.

  Third, open the forbidden area at home.

  The so-called forbidden area of home mainly refers to two aspects, on the one hand, it refers to the place where women live for a long time, on the other hand, it refers to the family background and family members of women. No matter what, women will not easily open this restricted area.

  For women, home is their biggest harbor and the place they should protect the most. She doesn't allow anyone to hurt, so she will guard it as a forbidden area.

  But after the arrival of love, a woman's heart slowly wavered. She really wants you to accompany him and her to protect her home, so she will open this restricted area of her home, allowing you to get close and understand.

  She will introduce you to her family, she will let you know her family background, and she will open her door to you and let you in and out at will.

  Even if you only receive one of the signals, you should understand her mind and seize the opportunity.

  It was trust and love that made her daughter put down her guard and opened the forbidden area. If you can't understand a woman's heart, you will eventually miss a true love.

  So the forbidden area refers to the place that others can't touch, including one's inner world, privacy and home.

  Before falling in love with a man, women will firmly hold these restricted areas and will not allow anyone to touch or set foot on them.

  This is a way for a woman to protect herself. Although it will make her look cold and distant, at least it won't hurt her, so she enjoys it.

  But once she is in love, she is very different from before. Although she is also afraid of getting hurt, she will involuntarily open her own restricted area.

  When a woman opens the forbidden area, she is only expressing her mind, but also creating opportunities for you.

  Now that the opportunity is in front of you, please take it. Cherish the woman who is willing to open the forbidden area for you, and happiness will come to you.

  Many people will regard "The Weakness of Human Nature" as a "chicken soup for the soul" book, but it is actually wrong. In fact, the content of this book is very profound, and the author tells us in the preface that unless we practice the ideas in the book, it will have no effect.

  Therefore, this book is a book that really teaches you how to improve emotional intelligence, accumulate interpersonal experience and explore human nature!

  "The Weakness of Human Nature" is Carnegie's most successful life classic. This book brings together the essence of his thoughts and the most exciting content. It is a sincere work, and all the theories in the book come from the real experiences of thousands of colleges.

  As the author said in the preface, he spent a lot of time and energy accumulating interpersonal experience and exploring human nature in daily communication and interaction between course professors and students. I think it is for this reason that this book can stand out from the vast number of interpersonal books full of theories.

  Therefore, I recommend this book "The Weakness of Human Nature" to you. Many readers who have read it and put it into action have walked out of the predicament through this book, and some have become outstanding people admired by the world.

  Of course, in addition to the weakness of human nature, several books that have benefited people all their lives, such as parchment, Murphy's Law, Guiguzi and Wolf Road, also make people fully understand themselves and solve various problems except life.

  For these five books, everyone's evaluation is like this:

  "These are all very good books, which are worth reading carefully. Each book contains a very profound truth and is a spiritual aid tool in life, work and entrepreneurship."

  After reading Guiguzi, you know that if you meet a pig, you don't have to talk to him about ideas, because he cares about feed.

  Reading Wolf Road, you know, don't tell the secret to your good friends, because good friends also have good friends.

  Reading the "scrolls" shows that people who love to laugh are not bad luck, because people with bad luck can't laugh at all.

  Reading "The Weakness of Human Nature" shows that the mood should be reserved for those who understand you, and the feelings should be reserved for those who love you.

  Reading Murphy's Law shows that the person who teaches you not to trust anyone will always be the person you trust most.

  These five books are a collection of speech skills, human weakness and the essence of psychology, which are required reading for bosses, businessmen, professionals and parents. The book covers many classic cases, each with analysis and guidance, teaching everyone the survival rules and wisdom strategies for dealing with people, and taking advantage of the experience of the ancients to avoid many detours.

  Understand these five books, why worry about not living a good life?

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