It's best to refuse these kinds of ＂dinner parties＂ in time. If you go, trouble will come.

　　Whether it is a dinner party or a dinner party, it is a common way in social activities. In these occasions, being prepared can make people more confident and appropriate to deal with all kinds of situations, and enhance mutual communication and feelings. This article will discuss three kinds of preparations that need to be made when inviting guests to dinner or attending dinner, and how to make yourself more comfortable to deal with these occasions through these preparations.

　　The first kind of preparation: knowing the occasion and participants.

　　It is very necessary to know the background and characteristics of the occasion and participants before inviting guests to dinner or attending a dinner party. You need to know the nature, theme and purpose of this dinner, as well as the identity, occupation and interests of the participants. This will help you better choose the right restaurants, dishes and topics, and more accurately judge how to dress and behave. If you are not sure what kind of restaurant or dish to choose, you can consult the inviter or organizer in advance to ensure that you will not make an inappropriate decision.

　　The second kind of preparation: pay attention to etiquette and words and deeds.

　　Etiquette and words and deeds are very important when inviting guests to dinner or attending a dinner party. You need to show decency, courtesy and respect to show your quality and self-cultivation. At the dinner table, you need to observe some basic dining etiquette, such as using tableware correctly, not making noise, not talking casually, not wolfing down, etc. In addition, you need to pay attention to your words and deeds, don't make inappropriate comments or criticize others, and try to avoid quarrels and conflicts. In communication, you need to actively listen, express clearly, pay attention to tone and wording to maintain a good communication atmosphere.

　　The third kind of preparation: adjusting mentality and state.

　　You need to adjust your mentality and state before inviting guests to dinner or attending a dinner party. You need to keep a positive, open and friendly attitude to show your confidence and affinity. Before attending the dinner, you need to have a good rest, keep healthy and maintain a good mental state. In addition, you need to pay attention to your image, including dress, hairstyle, makeup, etc., to ensure that you can appear in the best state at the dinner party.

　　In addition to the above three preparations, there are some other small details to pay attention to. For example, when you invite guests to dinner, you need to book a restaurant in advance, take into account other people's tastes and eating habits when ordering food, and pay attention to controlling the quantity and quality of dishes. When attending a dinner party, you need to arrive on time, pay attention to the seating arrangement, respect other people's speeches and opinions, and pay attention to the time and manner of leaving and leaving.

　　In a word, when you invite a guest to dinner or attend a dinner party, making full preparations can make you more confident and appropriate to deal with all kinds of situations and enhance mutual communication and feelings.

　　Knowing the occasion and participants, paying attention to etiquette and words and deeds, and adjusting the mentality and state are three necessary preparations, and at the same time, you need to pay attention to some small details to show your quality and cultivation. Through these preparations, you can enjoy the dinner better and improve your contacts and social skills.

　　There are always all kinds of unwritten rules in the dinner. Those carefree masters can always win the favor of others with a very simple behavior.

　　Experienced people will find that most of the so-called contacts, opportunities, circles, resources, feelings and business are discussed at dinner.

　　Therefore, the dinner is a river's lake and a river's lake of interests.

　　Friends who know the importance of dinner know that there are many hidden rules in dinner, and those who don't know will be kicked out immediately!

　　Every move you make while eating can determine your future fortune. For those who don't understand, this is the hidden rule of eating, and for those who understand, this is common sense.

　　There are too many details and wisdom hidden in the dining table, but our teachers, parents and elders can't teach us everything. This has made many people suffer a lot and made many people make a fool of themselves.

　　Here, I recommend a book "Chinese Entertainment" to everyone. This social encyclopedia can help people in need. There are no useless chicken soup words in the book. It's all practical scenes and case studies, whether it's promotion and salary increase, business banquets, communication between superiors and subordinates, seeing off, dating and making friends ... so that you can learn some social vocabulary after reading it and then use it.

　　If you also suffer from not being sociable, you will miss many opportunities for promotion and salary increase. Let's take a look at this set of books "Chinese Entertainment". After you have learned it, you can also do it perfectly, harmoniously and flashily, sincerely and without affectation. If you want to learn to socialize, this set of books is enough.