In fact, men's youth is more expensive than women's.

　　Magical and puzzling logical thinking: women's youth is extremely precious, and men's youth seems to have never existed.

　　This logic has existed for as long as I can remember, and it is strange that no one has ever questioned it at all.

　　Colleague Xiao Wang Gang broke up with his girlfriend. They have been together for three years. Now they are parting ways because of things like bride price and house. Xiao Wang's economic conditions are average, so he can only choose to give up because he can't bear the pressure.

　　Girlfriend is not angry or annoyed, just asking Xiao Wang to give her a breakup fee, saying it is a compensation for her youth.

　　A female colleague said: "People have been with you for three years and lost the most precious youth. You really should give corresponding compensation."

　　Xiao Wang was annoyed. He said angrily, "Why do women have to ask men for youth fees as soon as they break up? Women's youth is youth, but men's youth is not youth?" What's more, in the world of ordinary people, men's youth is far shorter and more precious than women! "

　　Xiao Wang explained that his girlfriend is three years younger than him, and he is now 30 years old. If they go on blind dates together, his girlfriend's success rate is much higher than his.

　　He felt that he was the victim and wasted three years in vain. Now he has joined the group of 30 years old, and his age and extremely mediocre conditions make it particularly difficult for him to get rid of the bill.

　　Yes, why do women have to ask men for breakup fees when men and women break up? From a practical point of view, men are obviously more difficult than women.

　　For ordinary people, men's youth is shorter and more precious than women's.

　　First, about shorter youth

　　In rural areas and small cities, women's youth may be relatively short, because most people there marry early, but for big cities, women before the age of 30 are in the youngest period.

　　That is to say, a woman's youth is before the age of 30. Of course, it refers to an ordinary woman with a high level. There are excellent women who are not affected by age, and men are the same.

　　For men, their youth only exists before the age of 25, even on campus.

　　At school, a man can be liked by girls because he is handsome and plays basketball well. Once he enters the society, as long as he has ordinary economic conditions and family background, it is difficult for girls to like him.

　　Those men who have ordinary economic conditions but entered the marriage hall early are almost always looking for good girlfriends on campus and getting married soon after graduation. If they drag on to the end, they will also become a difficult army on the road to divorce.

　　Second, about youth is more precious.

　　1. In the marriage market, men are in a passive position.

　　A reality that everyone must admit, in the marriage and love market, women are usually in the active position and men are in the passive position. Of course, we are still targeting ordinary people.

　　Because there are more men than women, women put forward many conditions for marriage, such as bride price, such as house and car, and men can only agree to get married.

　　As for marriage, it has always been the person who has the initiative who has the upper hand. In ancient times, men came first, and now women come first. This is a reality.

　　2. For ordinary men, youth is the only advantage.

　　For ordinary men, wealth is a distant dream, because only 5% of the people can really own wealth, and most of them will live an ordinary life and spend the rest of their lives in an ordinary way.

　　Because everyone is an ordinary man, youth becomes the only advantage. Youth can be regarded as a potential stock, and youth and poverty can be forgiven. But once you reach the age of 30, the ordinary men will be stereotyped by everyone, and no one will place hope on them.

　　At this time, it is very difficult for them to want to take off the bill.

　　3. It is more difficult for older men to take off their bills than older women.

　　Although there are many slanderous remarks about older single women on the internet, it is just an emotional vent. The internet is illusory after all, but the reality is the most real.

　　In real life, it is far more difficult for older men to take off their bills than older women.

　　This difference in difficulty mainly comes from the different requirements of society for men and women. Women can marry if they have nothing, while men can hardly marry if they have nothing.

　　There has never been real equality between men and women in this world, which is the final result given by nature, and there is no way to change it in a short time.

　　A woman is old, even if she is married and has children, she can always get married as long as her requirements are low.

　　But if a man is old, even if he has never been married, has never had children, and even has no requirements for the other half, it is difficult to get married.

　　It's hard to be a man, it's even harder to be a man, and it's even harder to be an ordinary man.

　　The real division of human regions is not gender, but hierarchy.

　　I often see disputes between men and women on the Internet. They always want to gain a sense of gender superiority. In fact, everyone has fallen into a big misunderstanding.

　　The division of human regions has never been gender, but hierarchy.

　　People of the same sex do not have real empathy, and only people of the same level have similar feelings.

　　This is like, in the face of the same thing, everyone has different views and different consumption views. The difference is not determined by gender, but the main factor is level.

　　No matter how excellent a high-level man is, it has nothing to do with you, because his Excellence is his, you can't touch any light, no matter how brilliant it is, you can only live at your level. At this point, women are the same.

　　Therefore, don't talk about men and women. This comparison is meaningless and even childish.

　　As long as people at the same level are similar, regardless of gender, the male rich and the female rich are the same kind of people, the male stars and the female stars are the same kind of people, the rich second generation is the same kind of people, and ordinary men and women are the same kind of people.

　　Efforts to upgrade the level can break the "curse of youth"

　　As far as ordinary people are concerned, youth is always a curse, because the greatest capital of ordinary people is youth. If you miss youth, your value will begin to depreciate.

　　It is only because of the different requirements of society for men and women that men's youth will appear more precious and shorter, but youth is equally precious to ordinary women.

　　The only way for a person to break the curse of youth is to strive to upgrade his level and get rid of the class of ordinary people and become better.

　　When you stand at or near the top of the pyramid, you will find that age is just a number to you.

　　Whether for marriage or career, you have unlimited possibilities.

　　Before this day comes, the only thing we can do is to strive to improve ourselves!

　　Levels are not static, as long as you work hard, everything is possible!