The second-married husband gave 120,000 yuan to his mother-in-law for safekeeping. After half a year, his sick mother-in-law said that she had no money.

　　01

　　Second-married couples have difficulty in heart-to-heart, mainly on the issue of children and property. If both parties have no children, and they have a common child after their second marriage, the second marriage will also be very happy.

　　Everyone's heart is to love their children. If a married couple only cares about their children and rejects each other's children, this family will naturally fail. Many people want to treat each other's children as their own when preparing for their second marriage, but when they get married, they find it difficult to treat them as their own.

　　The second married husband gave 120,000 yuan to his mother for safekeeping to prevent his wife. Six months later, he fell ill and asked his mother for the 120,000 yuan, but her mother said the money was gone. This happened in Ms. Xu's house. Let's listen to their story.

　　02

　　Self-report from Ms. Xu:

　　My previous marriage was divorced because my husband cheated on me, and my daughter followed me. I don't want to remarry after the divorce, so I want to live with my daughter! My parents, relatives and friends advised me to find another one! My daughter will grow up sooner or later and have her own life. I need a companion.

　　At that time, I was stubborn and insisted that I didn't want to remarry. Later, a cleaning aunt came to our unit. The aunt's situation was similar to mine, and she was divorced. After divorce, she also lived with her daughter. However, her daughter is now married and married, and all three of her family are abroad.

　　As far as economic conditions are concerned, my aunt's conditions are not bad, but she feels very lonely, and her home is deserted every day. Sometimes she doesn't feel well, and no one takes care of her. I don't even have anyone to talk to, so I came to our company as a cleaner.

　　I saw the situation of aunt cleaning, as if I saw my future, so I changed my mind and decided to find someone else! At that time, it happened that a colleague introduced me to an object, and the other party was divorced, and her daughter was awarded to her ex-wife.

　　Because of similar experiences, I have a lot in common with this object. After six months of contact, we got married. At that time, he repeatedly assured me that he would treat my daughter as his own.

　　03

　　I cherish this second marriage very much. I have been divorced once, so I can't divorce again! I just want to have a common child with my husband. Now that the country allows the birth of a second child and a third child, it is not a problem for us to have another child.

　　I think our marriage will be strong if we have a common child with our husband, otherwise it will be difficult to grow old together.

　　At first, my husband was willing, but later my mother-in-law was very opposed. She said that my husband and I each have a child. Although my husband's daughter was awarded to the woman, my husband had to pay alimony. If we have another child, we will have to raise three children, and the burden will be heavy.

　　Mother-in-law's reason, it sounds like she is thinking about us, but she is distressed that our burden is too heavy. But I think she wants to get money from my husband, because my husband gives her living expenses every month. If we have another child, the financial pressure is great, and the husband may not be able to give money to his mother-in-law.

　　In fact, my mother-in-law also has a retirement salary. She bought her old-age insurance when her father-in-law was alive, and now she can get 2000 yuan a month. It stands to reason that my mother-in-law can't spend much money alone, and 2000 yuan a month is enough for her to spend.

　　But she has been subsidizing her youngest son's family. The younger son doesn't work hard, and the couple always quarrel. Mother-in-law loves her little son, so she always posts money to her little son, and then asks my husband for living expenses.

　　04

　　Because my mother-in-law opposes us to have another child, my husband will not cooperate because of her influence. Mother-in-law also told her husband privately that she wanted her husband to keep her salary and could not give it to me, saying that if she gave me the money, it would be tantamount to giving it to my daughter.

　　My husband thinks her mother-in-law is right. He has to save money for his daughter, and he can't give it all to my daughter. So slowly, my husband and wife are not United, and the economy has gradually become an AA model.

　　The AA marriage is very sad, and both of them are self-care. For public expenses, he always doesn't want to pay, and I don't want to pay. Everyone knows it tacitly. If I had known that the second marriage would be like this, I really didn't want to get married. This life is not as good as being single!

　　In the fourth year of my remarriage, my husband went to do business with friends after work and earned 120 thousand at once. He didn't tell me that he had made the money. I heard about it from his friend, who chatted with people by chance.

　　I went home and asked my husband, and he immediately said that there was nothing. He earned only a few thousand dollars. He bought a computer for his daughter, and now it has been spent. I can't help it if he says so. He won't give me his monthly salary. How can he give me so much money?

　　05

　　Half a year later, my husband became ill and needed an operation, which was estimated to cost a lot. Husband's usual salary, to pay maintenance, to give her mother-in-law living expenses, but also their own expenses, so there is not much savings. He asked his mother-in-law for the 120 thousand, and now he is sick, so the 120 thousand will be put to use.

　　As a result, the mother-in-law said that the money was gone, because the younger son had to change cars, and the original car was too cheap to drive. Mother-in-law gave the 120,000 to her youngest son, subsidizing him to exchange it for a higher-grade car, so the 120,000 was gone.

　　When I arrived at the hospital, my husband and mother-in-law quarreled in the ward, and I knew the ins and outs of the matter. The husband was so angry that he said that his mother-in-law was still not his own mother. How can a mother cheat her son like this?

　　Mother-in-law pretends to be poor, saying that she can't help it. When the second child comes to ask her for money, she can't help it. Later, the husband was so angry that he drove his mother-in-law away and said that he would never listen to her again.

　　I looked at my poor husband, and it was a husband-and-wife affair anyway, so I took out my money to pay his medical expenses. I think we'll call it a day after he leaves the hospital! I pay tens of thousands of dollars, just as I pay for my feelings. If I leave him alone now, if anything happens to him, I will feel uneasy.

　　06

　　My husband's operation went smoothly. After staying in the hospital for more than a month, he was discharged from the hospital and later recovered well.

　　After my husband went to work, I wanted to ask him for a divorce, so we could get together and have a good break. But just as I was about to bring it up, my husband handed me his salary card, saying that I would be responsible for the economic power of the family in the future, and all I had to do was pay the alimony to his daughter on time, and everything else was up to me.

　　I'm surprised that he has always been so good at calculating, but now he doesn't care and gives me his salary card. I haven't mentioned the divorce for the time being, so I want to have a look again. If I can live, I still don't want to leave.

　　Later, my mother-in-law came to ask for living expenses, and I asked my husband if he wanted to give it to her. Husband said no, anyway, she has a pension! We give her money, and she gives it to her youngest son's family, which means our money is going to his family. Because we didn't give money to my mother-in-law, she was so angry that she had another big fight with my husband.

　　After my husband's salary is no longer posted to my mother-in-law, we naturally have more money in hand, so I still want to have a common child. Now we are pregnant, and my husband is very cooperative. He said that it is up to me to decide whether to have children or not.

　　Conclusion:

　　For married couples, it is better to have a common child if conditions permit. Couples have a common goal and common interests, and marriage can be stable.

　　After a person gets married, it is necessary to put the small family first. It is proper to be filial to his parents, but he should also pay attention to his discretion, and he can no longer listen to his parents. Remarried couples should pay special attention to coordinating various relationships, and they should be United in order to run this family well.

　　Author: A creator in the field of emotion, focusing on various problems in the field of emotion, welcome to pay attention. Life is warm because of affection and love. Let's grow up in love and spend every day in true feelings.