＂You delete me!＂ Is the person who said this sentence more sad or the person who listened to this sentence more sad？

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　　Author | Remembering the past events

　　"Please delete me!" This sentence, for those who say it, may be an emotional catharsis, but for those who hear it, it is undoubtedly a kind of harm.

　　So is the person who said this sentence more sad, or the person who listened to this sentence more sad?

　　This is not only a question about emotion, but also a question about trust and disappointment.

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　　For those who say this, they may have fallen into an emotional dilemma.

　　Perhaps because they have been hurt or disappointed, they feel that the other person doesn't really care about themselves, or because they are troubled by other emotional problems.

　　They didn't delete it directly. They cherish this relationship very much, and they don't want to delete the person they care about by themselves.

　　In this case, saying this sentence may be a way to express inner pain, a cry for help that hopes the other party can pay attention to their emotional needs, and it is also a temptation to the other party.

　　However, for those who hear this sentence, they may feel deeply hurt and confused.

　　Being asked to be deleted means being rejected and abandoned, which will produce a sense of frustration and disappointment for those who really care about each other.

　　They may feel that their efforts and concerns have not been truly responded, or that they have been left out because of each other's emotional problems, or that they are still working hard to maintain this faltering relationship and never want to let go, but the other party wants to let go.

　　No matter what the reason, people who hear this sentence will often be hurt and have doubts and uneasiness about the contribution of this relationship.

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　　In a relationship, trust is very important. When this sentence is said, it may be because trust has been destroyed or hurt.

　　When I delete it! At the time, however, it has been proved that this relationship has really reached a precarious point.

　　For those who say this sentence, they hope to attract the attention and reaction of the other party in this way.

　　However, for those who hear this sentence, they may question whether the other party is really trustworthy and whether they can continue to maintain this relationship in the future.

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　　Therefore, both the person who said this sentence and the person who was hurt by this sentence will fall into a sad state.

　　Both sides need to understand and care more about each other's inner world, and consider how to improve and repair this relationship, or give up.

　　In feelings, communication and mutual understanding are the solid foundation. If you don't reach the point of separation, you must not let go easily. If you can't change each other, you must learn to change yourself.

　　If neither of us is willing to give in to each other or make changes for each other, then get up under the south wall and turn as soon as possible.

　　Otherwise, let's try again.

　　Otherwise, you can delete me.

　　Otherwise, let's call it a day.

　　Author: Remembering the past, I have written many stories of heartbroken, but I still want to have a good end with regret.

　　Nostalgic people always live like scavengers. It is better to raise the sand than to hold it.

　　If one day you find that I have stopped updating, don't look for me, which proves that I am living a good life.

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