Brother Dong's story： My husband owes a huge debt, which is far beyond my ability and I am very confused.

　　My husband owes a huge debt, which is far beyond my ability. I am confused? Since last year, it has been difficult to ask my husband for the living expenses of the children. Occasionally, I turned to my husband's notebook, which recorded more than 200,000 debts. What I saw was just the tip of the iceberg. My husband's family runs a factory. Before marriage, there were many bank loans and mortgages. It is estimated that there are many problems in operation. I don't know the details, just by observation, I found that there must be business problems. Mask for three years, completely exposed the shortcomings. The original bad capital chain was broken. By chance, I saw my husband's mobile phone and asked many friends to borrow money. Some loans still have high interest rates (usurious nature). When I found out that there were private usury loans, my mind went haywire. So many personal loans, I don't think I can accept them? The factory has a scale of more than twenty people. However, economically, factory and home are indistinguishable. The money in the factory is the money at home. Take it if you want. If the factory needs money, it will directly mortgage the house. We have been married for two years and have a baby. However, since last year, my husband can't even get the baby's living expenses. Milk powder money, or I opened my mouth to my mother's family. There is something wrong with the operation of the factory. But as a new daughter-in-law, I can't meddle or intervene. Originally, there were bank loans and mortgages. I can still accept it. When I know that my husband has so many personal loans, my heart can't be quiet. This shows that the company's financial situation has been very difficult and is on the verge of collapse. I feel very sad now. He has never considered our own small family. Suddenly,I think it's really ridiculous for me to take on the household responsibility and ask my mother's family for milk powder money. I don't know the specific debt, as far as I'm concerned, it's over 2 million. I'm afraid to think about it now. I don't know what to do next. Very confused now?

　　@ 京京京京京京京京京京京: First, have a good communication with your husband and parents-in-law. Make the home chassis clear. Second, the small family is independent and cuts with everyone. This is very important. Tell your father-in-law to split up. Don't mix together again. Separate your small family and become the spark of your family. Third, the separation of manufacturers. Don't mix with other factories, otherwise the factory will be gone, and the home will be gone. Fourth, make a debt crisis resolution plan as soon as possible and launch self-help actions. Do you have any good ideas? Welcome to communicate!