What does marriage bring to women？ What does marriage bring to men？

　　Why do so many young men and women not want to get married? In fact, people nowadays are thinking about the value of marriage to themselves, for example, what marriage has brought to them, not only women, but also men are thinking about this problem.

　　What can marriage bring to you? Many people are thinking about this problem. Why should we think about it? That is, many people think that the current marriage is not worth losing their life.

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　　From a woman's point of view, marriage should give birth to children for men, take care of children for men, and children should not take their own surnames, and be cows and horses for men, etc ...

　　From a man's point of view, marriage has too many additional conditions. For example, if you want to have a marriage, you have to pay a bride price, buy a house and a car, hold a dignified banquet, and give women all kinds of decorations, etc ...

　　As far as marriage is concerned, there are many opposites between men and women. Women will say what marriage has brought to women, and men will also say what marriage has brought to men.

　　In fact, if men and women are considerate and understand each other, marriage can go on without saying how happy it is.

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　　Let's just say that if men and women can understand and understand each other, then marriage must bring happiness and happiness to men and women; And if men and women can't understand each other, but still attack and complain to each other, then marriage must bring pain and sorrow to men and women.

　　Whether a marriage is happy or not lies not in the marriage itself, but in how men and women view it, whether it is life or business.

　　Only when marriage is regarded as life can there be happiness in marriage; Considering marriage as a business, that marriage has only transactions and needs.

　　Imagine, can a marriage without feelings be happy?

　　Commercial marriage has always been a transaction. Either you ask for me or I ask for you. If you can't meet the requirements, you will enter a contradiction. Such a marriage has neither feelings nor happiness.

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　　If marriage is regarded as two industries jointly managed, and both husband and wife are shareholders, it must be a joint effort to run the marriage well, not that you count on me, and I count on you.

　　If you have to say what men and women get when they enter marriage, I can only say that they get a marriage, and the husband and wife get the right to jointly run the marriage. Isn't that enough?

　　We must always know that it is the marriage we choose, not the marriage that chooses us, but we need the marriage, not the marriage that needs us.

　　When two people enter the marriage, it is the beginning of taking responsibility. Only when the husband and wife jointly manage the marriage well can they get more returns from the marriage.

　　It's like running a company, and you want it at first without paying, which is not so good.

　　Marriage itself does not have the attribute of happiness. Happiness is the joint efforts and dedication of husband and wife, mutual understanding, understanding and love between husband and wife.

　　Marriage not only requires joint efforts and dedication, but also requires both husband and wife to put their feelings into it, so that marriage can be affectionate, human, less cold and feel at home.

　　Two people share joys and sorrows and love each other, which is happiness.