If you want to live like a human being, don't go to these five kinds of meals.

　　Dinner is a very common social occasion. Different dinners have different meanings and purposes. Some people talk about business through dinners, some people meet each other through dinners, and some people celebrate their birthdays through dinners. However, not all dinner parties are worth attending. If you want to live a human life, don't go to the following five kinds of meals.

　　First, a meal that is purely eating and drinking.

　　This kind of dinner has no theme at all, that is, a group of people eat and drink together, which not only wastes food, but also wastes time and money. So, don't go to this kind of dinner.

　　Second, it's all a stranger's dinner

　　This kind of dinner is usually organized by friends of friends, the people are unfamiliar, and the chat and communication are also very embarrassing. If you don't have enough social skills, attending this kind of dinner may make you feel uncomfortable, and you may even be drunk and bullied. So, don't go to this kind of dinner.

　　Third, the topic is too boring dinner.

　　This kind of dinner may make you feel very bored, because the topic may not be of interest to you, or it may be too professional and obscure. If you are not a very good listener, attending this kind of dinner may make you feel very uncomfortable. So, don't go to this kind of dinner.

　　Fourth, you need to ask for a meal.

　　This kind of dinner is usually organized by people who ask for help, so you need to put down your posture and ask others for help. If you don't need this person's help very much, attending this kind of dinner may make you feel very uncomfortable and may even be used by others. So, don't go to this kind of dinner.

　　Five, the atmosphere is too stiff dinner.

　　This kind of dinner is usually organized by people who are not familiar with it. The atmosphere is very embarrassing, and everyone is very reluctant to chat and communicate. If you are not a person who is very good at breaking the deadlock, attending this kind of dinner may make you feel very uncomfortable. So, don't go to this kind of dinner.

　　Generally speaking, the choice of which kind of dinner to attend depends on the significance and value of the dinner, rather than blindly following the crowd. When choosing to attend a dinner party, you need to consider your own time and energy, as well as your own interests and needs. If a dinner party doesn't mean anything, or it will make you feel uncomfortable, then don't go. Only in this way can you live like a human being and maintain your own taste and self-worth.

　　There are always all kinds of unwritten rules in the dinner. Those carefree masters can always win the favor of others with a very simple behavior.

　　Experienced people will find that most of the so-called contacts, opportunities, circles, resources, feelings and business are discussed at dinner.

　　Therefore, the dinner is a river's lake and a river's lake of interests.

　　Friends who know the importance of dinner know that there are many hidden rules in dinner, and those who don't know will be kicked out immediately!

　　Every move you make while eating can determine your future fortune. For those who don't understand, this is the hidden rule of eating, and for those who understand, this is common sense.

　　There are too many details and wisdom hidden in the dining table, but our teachers, parents and elders can't teach us everything. This has made many people suffer a lot and made many people make a fool of themselves.

　　Here, I recommend a book "Chinese Entertainment" to everyone. This social encyclopedia can help people in need. There are no useless chicken soup words in the book. It's all practical scenes and case studies, whether it's promotion and salary increase, business banquets, communication between superiors and subordinates, seeing off, dating and making friends ... so that you can learn some social vocabulary after reading it and then use it.

　　If you also suffer from not being sociable, you will miss many opportunities for promotion and salary increase. Let's take a look at this set of books "Chinese Entertainment". After you have learned it, you can also do it perfectly, harmoniously and flashily, sincerely and without affectation. If you want to learn to socialize, this set of books is enough.