Parents are gone. If brothers and sisters have already made enemies, you will win if you do two things well.

　　Blood relationship is the most precious wealth in a person's life.

　　Besides parents and children, brotherhood is one of the most important gifts given to us by God.

　　However, there are still fights between teeth and tongue, not to mention brothers and sisters.

　　Between brothers and sisters, there are always some people who will have interest disputes and even enmities because of some things.

　　Some people will even die of old age.

　　In fact, after your parents leave, when you reach middle age, you will find that brotherhood will be one of the important emotional dependencies for the rest of your life.

　　Half-life parents are kind, and a lifetime of brotherhood. Between brothers and sisters, there is this life and no afterlife.

　　It is better to do two things well and let it go than to have a lifelong hatred.

　　If you can pass, find a way to let it pass.

　　If you can't pass, forget it.

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　　Interest disputes, take the initiative to take a step back

　　Between brothers, break bones and connect tendons. We are brothers in this life, but we may not meet in the next life. Forget it.

　　After the old father left, Mr. Wang found his second brother and signed away the inheritance right of the homestead under his father's name.

　　Because of this homestead, brothers and sisters-in-law have been in discord for decades.

　　Of course, this is also mixed with parents' eccentricity and a bowl of water that is not flat.

　　But when the old father left, Mr. Wang suddenly felt that his life was more than half, and his blood relatives were getting less and less every year. There are not many family ties that can be grasped.

　　In that case, those petty disputes, can not care about, do not care about.

　　Between brothers and sisters, it was originally a potential competitive relationship, vying for all the resources of parents, including their parents' love.

　　Especially after adults get married, there are more partners, and the contradictions between small families and between small families and large families will become more complicated.

　　It is normal for brothers and sisters to have interest disputes.

　　Because of this, some brothers and sisters, for petty profits, past grievances, are red-faced and bloody. The feelings between brothers and sisters are therefore fragmented and increasingly alienated.

　　However, family and talent flourish, so do small families and large families.

　　Besides, the brotherhood of brothers and sisters who grew up together is not easy to leave behind easily.

　　Take a step back. Why care too much about old grievances?

　　If you take the initiative to take a step back, you will give your family room to change.

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　　Bad feelings in my heart, take the initiative to communicate and untie.

　　If you don't say what you think, others may never know.

　　Those who take the first step to seek reconciliation are all people with energy and ability.

　　This is the case between people, especially between brothers and sisters.

　　Aunt Zhou and eldest brother and sister-in-law finally reconciled, which was the result of her initiative.

　　The contradiction and bad feelings between brother and sister, in the old saying, is that children have no mother, which is a long story.

　　There are contradictions arising from different treatment in the process of growing up, and there are also disputes between brothers and sisters who used to be peers after they got married. At the height of the uproar, the two brothers and sisters were doing business in the same street, but they were in the same boat.

　　Later, Aunt Zhou and her husband changed careers, and eldest brother and sister-in-law returned to their hometown, becoming the helper of nephew's business, and the contradiction between brother and sister gradually faded down.

　　But the bad feelings in my heart have always existed.

　　The grandson of eldest brother and sister-in-law got married, and the nephew didn't send an invitation to Aunt Zhou in advance.

　　Aunt Zhou learned the news from other places, took the initiative to find her eldest brother and sister-in-law, and told her how uncomfortable she was.

　　Finally, between brother and sister, between aunts and nephews, the knot was slowly opened, and the long-lost affection came back.

　　Blood relationship is a natural emotional chain.

　　Even with contradictions and knots, as long as someone takes the initiative to take the first step, the following things will become clear.

　　As the saying goes, it's not easy to settle an enemy, but it's not easy for everyone to live a lifetime. If you can forget it, don't worry about it.

　　This is the great wisdom between brothers and sisters in the face of contradictions and entanglements.