My cousin's husband saw my cousin as if he saw the air.

　　My cousin's husband saw my cousin as if he saw the air, and he didn't respond and didn't come home at night. This is obviously no love, and I guess it may be because there is someone outside. But my cousin doesn't want to leave him. She says what if she leaves his child? Although I have a job and income, it is still difficult to raise it alone. Don't love rat give alimony?

　　My advice to her is: If you still want to live with your child. Why don't you first reflect on what caused this situation today? Is it because you are too strong at home? This is not allowed for him, and that is not allowed. Everything is at your command? Let him not feel the warmth of home? Run out and ask someone else for warmth?

　　Or is it because you are too weak? Do whatever he says? Let him feel that you will only be attached to him, and you can't do it without him? Make him feel that he has the capital to be air to you?

　　The best marriage is: evenly matched. I'm not strong to you, and I'm not weak. After love disappears, all that remains is cooperation. The fundamental reason for long-term cooperation is that both sides can benefit from each other and create a win-win situation. If one party doesn't get benefits or has a bad character, he may give up the existing cooperative relationship and switch to others' arms when he sees that the benefits given by others are greater.

　　Since it has caused a stranger situation, it can only be for my cousin to have a good talk with her husband and see what his attitude is. Do you want to go on or abandon your wife and children? When there is something wrong with marriage, we should communicate well, not cold war or escape, otherwise we will push each other away. If he doesn't want to live, then you can only try to get the greatest benefit before leaving. There's no need to pester yourself. Anyone can live without it.

　　Therefore, when choosing to enter the marriage, you must consider your own endurance. Marriage is a gamble.