The mother who prefers boys to girls finally regretted it after the cold penetrated her daughter's heart.

　　In 2016, a TV series "Ode to Joy" starring Rulu became popular all over the network, and the heroine Fan Shengmei became synonymous with a woman who helped her parents without a bottom line.

　　Don't marry Fan Shengmei, this is the voice of many men. For a girl who grew up in a patriarchal family, it is also very important to be a Fan Shengmei and dare to say no to unreasonable demands from her relatives.

　　The preference for sons over daughters is the dregs left over from feudal thought. Although the concept of equality between men and women is deeply rooted in people's hearts, there are still many parents who prefer sons over daughters.

　　In their eyes, the son is their own, and the daughter is a money-losing commodity when she was a child, and a cash cow when she grows up. It is only natural that a daughter should pay more for her family. If the daughter is dissatisfied with their demands, the charges of "unfilial" and "useless" will overwhelm the girl.

　　Many parents believe that sons can pass on incense, provide for their own retirement, and daughters are raised by others. However, in real life, many parents who desperately hollowed out their daughters' property and subsidized their sons finally regretted not being taken care of by their sons when they were old.

　　01

　　Yunzhaodi is a netizen I met while playing games. We have a good relationship and often meet offline.

　　When I learned Yun Zhaodi's real name, I subconsciously asked, "Are you a sister?" Sure enough, Yunzhaodi is the eldest sister of the family. She originally had a younger sister and a younger brother, but her sister was given away by her parents just after she was born, and there were only two brothers and sisters at home.

　　Yun Zhaodi's mother doesn't like this daughter very much. She always thinks that giving birth to this daughter is her greatest shame. Because of Yunzhaodi's birth, she was looked down upon by her husband and almost swept out of the house.

　　In Yunzhaodi's impression, her mother never hugged herself, and weaned her early, which led to malnutrition and very thin body.

　　When Yun Zhaodi was seven years old, her third pregnant mother gave birth to her younger brother. Her father bought firecrackers and held a banquet to announce to the whole village that he had a son.

　　Yun Zhaodi became a nanny at home, taking care of her younger brother, cooking for the whole family and tutoring her younger brother every day. My brother didn't study hard and was taught by the teacher. My parents put all the responsibility on Yun Zhaodi.

　　02

　　After Yun Zhaodi worked, her parents called her regularly every month and asked her for her salary.

　　Yun Zhaodi's monthly salary is only over 3,000 yuan, and her parents ask her to give at least 2,000 yuan. Yunzhaodi needs to pay back the rent and have a basic living allowance, and it is very difficult to live every month.

　　Yun Zhaodi resisted. She didn't want to give money to her parents. Parents then found the place where Yunzhaodi worked, stuck in front of the factory, crying and making noise, accusing Yunzhaodi of growing up and leaving her parents with insufficient food and warm clothes at home, regardless of her parents' upbringing.

　　Yun Zhaodi was afraid that her parents would come to make trouble again, so she had to promise her parents' unreasonable demands again and again.

　　Yunzhaodi is 27 years old this year, and she already has her own boyfriend. At the suggestion of her boyfriend, Yun Zhaodi never told her parents her real salary, but also changed her job and residence so that her parents could not find herself.

　　Last September, my mother called and told Yunzhaodi that her father was ill and asked her to go back and take care of him.

　　Yun Zhaodi believed it, took a leave of absence and returned home. Her father was sitting at home, looking very healthy.

　　Yun Zhaodi asked her mother what was going on, and her mother told her that her brother had a relationship with his girlfriend, and the girl's parents asked her brother to take responsibility and get married immediately.

　　The girl's parents asked her brother to give a bride price of 200 thousand, even if she was short of a penny.

　　Yunzhaodi's parents couldn't come up with so much money, so they asked Yunzhaodi to come back and asked her to pay the bride price.

　　Yun Zhaodi scolded her parents: "I am his elder sister, not his mother. Why should I pay the bride price?"? Moreover, I give you so much money every month. Where can I have so much savings? "

　　Yun Zhaodi's parents locked her up at home and wanted to marry her to a man in his fifties in the village and use her bride price money to pay her younger brother's bride price money.

　　Yun Zhaodi had no choice but to give all her savings to her parents and leave home.

　　Yun Zhaodi returned to his hometown with her boyfriend and married him. She never paid a penny to her parents again.

　　Some time ago, Yun Zhaodi told me that her mother didn't know where she got her mobile phone number, and called her to cry and said that she regretted it.

　　It turned out that when my brother got married, my brother-in-law asked their family to buy a wedding room in the county. Yun Zhaodi's parents sold all the houses in their hometown, and with all the money at home, they paid a down payment.

　　Sister-in-law disliked that the wedding room was not bought in full, and she didn't want to live with her in-laws, so she sent Yunzhaodi's parents to a nursing home.

　　My parents have been living in a nursing home for a month, and my younger brother hasn't come to see them. The phone number shows that it is empty.

　　Yun Zhaodi's parents were helpless. Thinking of their daughter, they called her and wanted to live with her.

　　I asked Yunzhaodi, how did you reply? Yun Zhaodi told me, "I hung up on my parents and got a new mobile phone number. Fortunately, my new home address is not known to familiar people. "

　　"I can't give my parents a pension. I have already repaid their kindness. If I take them over, my marriage will be in crisis. If they continue to take my money to subsidize my brother, my life will be desperate again. I can't afford to gamble, my heart is already cold. "

　　Later, at the suggestion of Yunzhaodi's husband, she gave some money to her relatives in her hometown every month, and asked them to send some necessities to her parents in the nursing home, which was her obligation.

　　Parents prefer sons to daughters, and after they get old, they are rewarded. Spoiling is the best sword to destroy a child. Under the endless doting of parents, there are few cases in which children become useful. There are also many cases in which children who are doted on by their parents refuse to provide for their parents' old age.

　　The palms and backs of the hands are all meat. Both boys and girls were conceived by their parents in October and deserve their parents' love and careful care.

　　Daughters are also the hope of a family, and daughters can also bring revival to the family. Parents treat their children equally, which makes it easier to cultivate affection between children and to get a happy and peaceful old age.