＂My son's room, why do you live？＂ My parents kicked out my mother-in-law. Son： She helped me with my baby.

　　When I read the original "Know No", the most warm friendship I felt was the affection between the grandparents and grandchildren of the old lady Sheng and Sheng Minglan.

　　Six-year-old Sheng Minglan lost her mother, and her father didn't pay much attention to her. Fortunately, her grandmother pitied her, raised her at her knees, sheltered her from growing up, taught her to read and understand, instilled in her an extremely important view of marriage, and worked hard for her marriage. Even for her sake, she offended her daughter-in-law Wang Ruofu and her snake-hearted aunt Kang, which led to an accident.

　　Without the protection of her grandmother, Sheng Minglan could hardly grow up safely. Having an old man in the family is like having a treasure, and the old man's next-generation relatives to his grandchildren will make people feel warm.

　　However, just as not all parents love their children, not all old people love their grandchildren.

　　In the TV series "Do you know", the well-lived mother Kong once said: "In a family with many children, parents need a bowl of water to be flat, so that their home can be quiet."

　　A bowl of water is uneven and unfair, which is the most unbearable pain that family of origin has brought to his children.

　　As the most unpromising child in the family, Uncle Li not only suffered from his parents' eyes, but also the injustice of his parents spread to his grandchildren. When he mentioned the injustice suffered by his daughter, Uncle Li and his wife were full of anger.

　　01. My wife and I want to go out to work, but our daughter is left unattended.

　　Uncle Li is my hometown and my father's good friend. Like me, he was born in a small village with backward economy.

　　Uncle Li has an elder sister and a younger brother, both of whom have left their hometown. The elder sister is married away from home, and the life is not bad. The younger brother is the most promising. Through hard work, he has settled down in the county. Before her daughter was 6 years old, Uncle Li stayed in her hometown in the countryside and worked hard, but she lived a tight life.

　　"In order to support my family, I accepted the advice of the villagers and wanted to go out to work. My wife also wanted to go out. For one thing, she was worried that I would be dazzled by things outside when I went out, and she didn't want her. Secondly, she had the strength to be not afraid of hardship, and she could make money. Together, she could save more money for her daughter to study. But what about the daughter? She is only 6 years old and must stay in her hometown to study. "

　　At first, Uncle Li pinned his hopes on his parents, hoping that their parents would take their daughters with them when they took care of their younger brothers and sons. However, their parents refused rudely: "I can take care of my grandchildren. What's so rare about granddaughters?" You have to find a way to solve it yourself. I have raised you and have no obligation to continue to let you grow old. "

　　Just when Uncle Li and his wife were at their wits' end, they decided to give up going out to work. Uncle Li's mother-in-law came and told them that she had persuaded her son and daughter-in-law to raise her granddaughter together, so that they could go out to work at ease.

　　With gratitude to his parents-in-law and brother-in-law, Uncle Li and his wife went out to work.

　　02. I went out to work for decades, and my daughter rarely saw her grandparents;

　　Uncle Li was only 30 years old when he went out to work. He stayed outside for 25 years and didn't return to his hometown until last year. During this period, he and his wife traveled a lot, looking for several jobs, both being delayed by the boss and having no food. In the end, with the joint efforts of him and his wife, they not only provided their daughter with education, but also saved a sum of money for the elderly.

　　"You know what? I went out to work for decades, and my daughter grew up in my grandmother's house. She was very close to her grandmother, uncle and others, but she was very strange to my parents and uncle. At first, she was still young. When she saw her grandparents in the New Year, she hid behind my mother-in-law and refused to come out. She didn't call anyone. My mother scolded her in front of me and angered my mother-in-law and almost didn't fight. "

　　My daughter told Uncle Li that she saw her grandparents two or three times at most all the year round. They didn't go to see her or buy anything for her, and all her life was taken care of by her grandmother.

　　As for what Uncle Li's parents are doing, they have been living in the county town, working as cattle and horses for the younger son's family of three, and stayed for more than 20 years, until three months ago, when they were rejected by the younger son and useless, they tried to move into the eldest son's house to support the elderly.

　　03. Who is good to me? Is it wrong for me to be more filial?

　　At the end of last year, at the suggestion of his daughter, Uncle Li sold his house in the country and bought a house in the county town with his savings and his daughter's filial money to support the elderly. In order to reduce the burden on his daughter, Uncle Li, who felt that he still had strength, found a job in the county.

　　"I bought a two-bedroom apartment. My wife and I live in one room, and the other one is for my mother-in-law. She has helped us too much, and my husband and wife are also very kind to us. It's time for us to give our mother-in-law a pension and help them reduce their burden. You say, who is good to me, I am more filial, is it wrong? "

　　It is not others who think Uncle Li is at fault, but Uncle Li's parents.

　　Three months ago, Uncle Li's parents first called him to cry that his youngest son was unfilial, and then asked to go to his home to support the elderly. Uncle Li declined on the grounds that there was no room available. Unexpectedly, the parents inquired about the address of the eldest son's house and went to the door directly. After seeing their mother, they immediately understood the reason for not having a position.

　　"My son's room, why do you live?" Uncle Li's parents were noisy and noisy at home, and rushed to her mother-in-law's room to throw things out, trying to get rid of her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law has always been mild-tempered, and her daughter and son-in-law were not at home, so she was no match for them at all. When the neighbors heard the noise, they called Uncle Li and his wife and called them back.

　　In the face of parents' questions, Uncle Li replied rudely: "She helped me with my baby. My daughter has lived with her for 12 years, so my mother-in-law should at least come back."

　　Uncle Li's parents didn't listen to his son's eccentric accusation at all, and threw a splash on the ground. Uncle Li was angry and didn't want to let his mother-in-law be wronged, so he called his brother-in-law and others and drove his parents out.

　　"I told my parents that I would give them 1,000 yuan in alimony every month. If they ask my brother for a part, it will be enough. There is nothing else I can do. If it really doesn't work, let's see you in court! Anyway, it is impossible for my mother-in-law to move out and move in. If I really do this, why don't my wife and daughter turn against me? At that time, I have to accompany them to wander the streets and the evening scenery is bleak. "

　　As the eldest son, Uncle Li usually paid alimony, and when his parents were sick, he also paid medical expenses. He didn't think there was anything wrong with doing so.

　　04. As an elder, the stupidest behavior is to treat grandchildren with favoritism.

　　Wang Fu said: "Life needs a grateful heart to create, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish."

　　People who have no gratitude can't keep others from being kind to you. People's hearts are full of flesh, so you need to compare them. If you always only know how to consider your own interests, and never consider the feelings of others, who will treat you well and make friends with you?

　　People who are kind to you deserve your gratitude, regardless of blood relationship. On the contrary, people who never treat you as their relatives should know how to refuse, and don't let them have the opportunity to stand on the moral high ground to intimidate you and infringe your interests.

　　As an elder, the stupidest behavior is to treat one's grandchildren in favor of another. If nothing else, say the child's fucking attitude. As an in-law, you are not good to your daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law may give your son face and not care about you. However, the child is the mother's lamella. If you let the child be wronged, no matter how generous the mother is, she can't forgive. Therefore, the elderly who can't be kind to their grandchildren have a great chance of a bleak evening scene.

　　Today's topic: Do you think it's right for Uncle Li to treat his mother-in-law better? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.