When their husbands died, these three women who chose to remarry spoke their true feelings, which was very realistic.

　　We often hear a saying that there are three tragedies in the world, namely, the death of a father in childhood, the death of a spouse in middle age and the death of a child in old age.

　　It is very tragic for a child to lose his father at an early age. Without the ability to take care of himself, he lost his father who could protect himself and his precious fatherly love.

　　Losing a child in old age can be said to be a heart-wrenching pain for parents who are already elderly. They have worked hard for most of their lives to bring up their children. It is the time when they can support themselves, but they have lost their pride and dependence in their later years.

　　Widowhood in middle age is also a torture for people. In this case, whether to die alone or find another partner makes many people feel entangled.

　　If you find another partner, you may meet someone who doesn't understand the world. It is considered ungrateful to your deceased lover, and will be opposed or even hostile by your children.

　　Some women will choose to remarry after their husbands die. I asked three women, and they spoke their minds. The reasons for their remarriage are also very realistic.

　　I am still very young, and I don't want to spend a long life alone.

　　Ms. Qin is 32 years old and is a remarried lady.

　　She married her first husband at the age of 26.

　　She and her first husband are in free love, and their feelings are very harmonious, and their married days are relatively happy.

　　However, a year after their marriage, Ms. Qin's husband had a car accident and passed away, leaving only her newly married wife and her white-haired parents.

　　After her husband died, Ms. Qin felt very entangled. She is only 27 years old, in a very beautiful woman's life and has a long life. She doesn't want to be a widow all her life, and she has no children and no one to rely on.

　　She is also worried about how her in-laws will think of herself and how the two old people will live if she remarries.

　　Fortunately, Ms. Qin's in-laws are very open-minded, they support her daughter-in-law to remarry, and they also entrust someone to introduce a good marriage to Ms. Qin.

　　Ms. Qin's life is very happy now: "I have a loving husband and my own children and started a new life." I also often visit my late husband's parents, who always treat me as a daughter. "

　　Many women choose to remarry after losing their husbands, considering their happiness in the second half of their lives.

　　We are not angels, and we are not here for salvation. When we walk in this world, we also want to show our life to the extreme, live the most comfortable self, and don't want our wings to be too heavy.

　　In the face of middle-aged widowed women, we can sympathize with them, but don't be harsh on them, let alone kidnap them from the moral high ground.

　　Loneliness is the most terrible disease in life, and few people can really endure the suffering of loneliness.

　　2. My child is too young. If I don't marry again, it will be difficult for me to bring him up.

　　When her first husband died, Ms. She was only 29 years old and had a daughter under two years old.

　　Ms. She felt extremely confused and afraid. In fact, she and her husband have deep feelings, and they vowed to be together for life.

　　However, the husband suffered from cancer and was found to be ineffective.

　　When Ms. She's first husband died, she told her wife, "After I leave, you must not be widowed for me. Our daughter is still young, and it is difficult for a helpless woman to raise her child. I hope you can find a man who can take care of you and raise our daughter, so that I can die with a smile. "

　　Ms. She understands her husband's painstaking efforts, and she also knows that her ability is insufficient, and she has no courage to raise her daughter alone.

　　Ms. She remarried. She married a divorced man who also had children. They all have the same goal, hoping to find a partner to take care of their children.

　　Ms. She is very kind to her stepson, and her husband is also very kind to her stepdaughter. The two children are like brothers and sisters.

　　Ms. She's daughter is growing up healthily. Now she has been admitted to the university, found her own boyfriend and is about to have her own family.

　　"In my opinion, I don't think it's a bad thing for women to remarry, and women shouldn't be bothered about it. We came to this world to make our lives better and make people around us happy. I have brought up my daughter, which is worthy of my late husband. "

　　Single mothers are admirable. They have suffered a lot that ordinary people can't imagine and paid a price that ordinary people can't imagine.

　　We can praise the maternal love of single mothers, but we can't ask others to choose the same. Not all women can bear the pressure of raising children alone, and they have no obligation.

　　As long as they are good to themselves and their children, women have the right to decide how to live their lives.

　　3. My husband has been very bad to me. When he died, I was relieved.

　　Less than half a year after her first husband died, Ms. Yun chose to remarry, which was strongly opposed by her in-laws.

　　Her first husband's parents cried to others everywhere, saying that her daughter-in-law was immoral and that her husband would remarry after her death. Many people look at Ms. Yun with strange eyes and even talk about her behind her back.

　　Ms. Yun said: "They only know that I am ungrateful. My husband remarried just after his death, but they don't know how my husband treated me before his death."

　　Ms. Yun's first husband was very hot-tempered and liked drinking. Once drunk, I lost my temper at home, smashed things, and even abused my wife.

　　Ms. Yun tried to dissuade her and upset her, but failed to get rid of her husband's bad habits.

　　Ms. Yun was disappointed with her first husband and thought about getting a divorce. As soon as her in-laws heard that her daughter-in-law was going to divorce, they cried in the family group and kidnapped Ms. Yun with their relatives.

　　Ms. Yun's parents are very old-fashioned. They think it is disgraceful for a woman to divorce, and they also stop Ms. Yun together.

　　Ms. Yun can't leave the marriage, and she can only suffer.

　　The death of Ms. Yun's first husband was also due to alcoholism. He was drunk and had an accident.

　　After her husband's death, Ms. Yun felt completely relieved. She couldn't be a widow for a man who no longer loved, so she chose to remarry.

　　In fact, after the death of her husband, it is their own right for women not to remarry, and they are qualified to make their own decisions.

　　Everyone has the right to seek happiness, and no one else is qualified to kidnap others.