My husband insists on getting a divorce for his mistress. As a wife, what should I do？

　　Ms. Luo's way of dealing with her husband's derailment is more radical. She first found someone to beat the mistress and went to someone's school to pull banners. Then he called two families to hold an internal meeting and let the matter out.

　　According to Ms. Luo's idea, men should be afraid of her, and mistresses should be afraid of her, too. But what I didn't expect was that men's wings have long been hard now. He directly let Xiaosan suspend from school, then bought a house for Xiaosan, and threatened to divorce Ms. Luo.

　　It was less than a month before and after Ms. Luo found out that the man was cheating and the man bought a house for Xiaosan. Ms. Luo was shocked by the development of this matter. She never dreamed that it would become like this.

　　It was in this crisis that Ms. Luo thought of looking for me.

　　In fact, now men and mistresses want to fly together, which is largely contributed by Ms. Luo. Why do I say that?

　　Because both men and mistresses have died socially.

　　Xiaosan has no place in school, and videos of pulling banners are uploaded everywhere in Tik Tok. She has nothing but this man now. In this case, mistress must want to take a chance.

　　As for men, they also experienced social death. Now men have no way to face two families, so he also wants to break the larger foe.

　　But the only difference between Xiao San and men is that Xiao San has no way out, and men are temporarily emotional.

　　If Ms. Luo can't grasp this point, she thinks that men really love mistresses to make things like this. Ms. Luo may really be losing her marriage.

　　In this case, how should we deal with this matter?

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　　retreat in order to advance

　　If a man is tough on you and threatens to get a divorce, you will immediately go soft. That man probably thinks that he can solve the problem as long as he is tough with you.

　　Therefore, a smart woman must not show weakness, but she can take a step back. You can say to a man:

　　"The two of us are the two of us, and children are children. I made such a big deal out of it before, because your cheating made me lose my reason. This incident has hurt me beyond your imagination, and I don't rule out what I will do in the future.

　　But now I don't want to continue to expand the situation, and I don't want my children to be affected. Recently, the child has noticed that there are problems between us, so please put all your thoughts on the child and spend a good time with him.

　　Don't let him lack the love of his parents, and don't let his childhood be overshadowed. "

　　At this time, you can make specific requirements, such as letting men come back to accompany their children or when to take them out to play.

　　When a man sees your words, agrees with your words and goes home, you can pretend that nothing happened, neither mentioning the mistress nor the things that make you both miserable, just get along normally.

　　In short, you try to contrast your supercilious words with your gentle manner.

　　This kind of retreat can help a man calm down quickly and let him know what kind of state he is in now. When the man's mood calms down, you can talk to him about interests in other ways.

　　For example, you ask a lawyer to tell a man objectively what he will lose after divorce.

　　For another example, you can ask friends and relatives to persuade a man and tell him that a mistress won't help him at all after the divorce. And a woman like that can't take care of her children like her own mother.

　　In fact, to tell the truth, outsiders can see these words clearly, and men know them in their hearts, but they just know that it is completely different from being discovered.

　　One more thing, you'd better not say these words yourself, because when you say them, you can't grasp the tone, which will make a man feel that you are threatening him.

　　When a man goes home for longer and longer, and his mind becomes more and more shaken, mistress will become more and more anxious. When a mistress is in a hurry, there will be cracks in the relationship between a man and a mistress. At this time, it is much easier for you to negotiate with a man.

　　Ms. Luo did it according to this process, but the specific details are not convenient for us to say. But the effect of this is affirmative, and the husband finally gave up the mistress and returned to the family. Ms. Luo finally breathed a sigh of relief.