My daughter took her in-laws home for the holidays and only gave her parents 2000 holiday fees： whoever treats me well, I will treat them well.

　　On the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Tu Lei once said: "Although mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have experienced different living environments, they all love the same person. Just having love is not difficult. "

　　As a daughter-in-law, she deeply loves her husband and hopes that he will be happy and happy. Naturally, she does not want him to bear the blame of unfilial. Therefore, for the sake of their husbands, as long as the mother-in-law doesn't go too far, many women can tolerate some minor contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

　　Just like my mother, as a daughter-in-law, she occasionally quarrels with my grandmother and sulks in the house when she is short of breath. However, after my father came back, my mother always pretended that nothing happened and never mentioned the unhappiness with my grandmother to him. When I asked why, my mother told me, "Your father has worked hard enough to earn money to support his family. Why should I say these little things to keep him from having a headache?" Besides, your grandmother is not a bad person, not too much, there is no need to make a big deal out of it. "

　　As a mother-in-law, she loves her son and hopes that his life will be comfortable and happy. Therefore, whenever a mother-in-law has a heart that truly loves her son, she will not be too difficult for her daughter-in-law, so that her son will suffer the pain of separation and broken family.

　　Meeting a good mother-in-law is a woman's blessing. If you want this blessing to last forever, you should cherish it, be a good daughter-in-law and be kind to your mother-in-law.

　　Xu Xia's husband sent a circle of friends, originally intended to show off that he had a virtuous and filial daughter-in-law. Unexpectedly, he stirred up a hornet's nest and angered his mother-in-law.

　　01. My husband sent a circle of friends, which detonated my mother's anger;

　　On the afternoon of 5th, Xu Xia's husband sent a circle of friends, the content of which was nine pictures with a paragraph of text. He took pictures of his wife's lunch, gifts for his parents, shopping with his parents, clothes for his parents, and photos of his daughter with her grandparents, and edited a paragraph: "I married a good wife, and the meals I cooked were all my parents' favorite, and the clothes I bought especially met my parents' aesthetic needs. My mother has said more than once that a daughter-in-law is much more considerate than a son. Hey! How do I feel that my wife is like my parents' own daughter, but I am rejected everywhere? "

　　After sending a circle of friends, Xu Xia's husband received a lot of praise messages, and some friends commented that they envied the happiness and harmony of their family. Just as Xu Xia's husband was triumphant, his wife Xu Xia received a phone call from her mother.

　　"Didn't you say you have to work overtime and don't have time to go back to your family? Then where did you get the time to go shopping with your in-laws to buy clothes? OK! When you pick up your in-laws for the holidays, you give your parents 2000 yuan for the holidays. Who were you born to? You are a baiwenhang. "

　　It turned out that on the eve of the National Day, her parents urged Xu Xia to go back to her parents' home for the holidays. Xu Xia refused on the grounds that she needed to work overtime, and only transferred 2,000 yuan to her parents for the holidays.

　　The daughter took her in-laws home for the holidays and only gave her parents 2000 holiday fees, which made Xu Xia's mother feel very angry. Treating her mother's accusation, Xu Xia calmly replied: "Whoever treats me well, I will treat him well."

　　02. As a mother, her eccentricity really makes me feel very chilling;

　　Psychologist Adler said: "Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, while unfortunate people are cured by childhood all their lives."

　　Born in a patriarchal family, Xu Xia lived a life of being squeezed by family of origin before she got married, which made her more and more disappointed with her parents and could not leave much affection.

　　"When I was in college, my brother had a living allowance of 2,000 yuan. I had nothing, so I had to earn money by working part-time. Once, I took a scholarship of 3,000 yuan, and I was happy to send a space. After my brother saw it, he asked me for money to buy a mobile phone. I didn't agree. He complained to my mother. My mother bombarded me by phone for a week, calling me a bad sister and forcing me to give all my money to my brother. "

　　"She ruined my first job, forcing me to move and never telling her the rental house and company address again, just because I couldn't afford to subsidize my brother."

　　"In order to help my brother marry his wife, she asked my husband for a bride price of 200,000 yuan, which caused us to pay off our debts for a long time after marriage. Why didn't she say anything?"

　　After marriage, my mother still often calls Xu Xia and her son-in-law for money. Xu Xia refuses to be a brother-helper. She refuses to give her parents extra money except 1,000 yuan in alimony every month and some gifts on holidays.

　　Xu Xia is in her husband's family, and her parents can't do anything about it. Therefore, whenever Xu Xia goes back to her family, it becomes a good opportunity for her parents to exploit her daughter. When she cries, she makes trouble and hangs herself. These dramas are staged by her parents every time, which makes Xu Xia feel worse and worse about her family. Therefore, she will try to reduce the number of times she goes back to her family.

　　03. As a mother-in-law, she really treats me as a daughter;

　　Speaking of her mother-in-law, Xu Xia added some smiles to her face: "To be honest, my mother-in-law treats me better than my own mother."

　　After Xu Xia got married, she quarreled with her husband. After the quarrel, her anger still lingered, and she would complain to her mother-in-law. Although sometimes it is her fault, her mother-in-law has always helped Xu Xia, scolded her son, made him apologize to his daughter-in-law and bought gifts to make amends.

　　During Xu Xia's pregnancy, her parents only called several times, and they all asked for money. Her mother-in-law took care of Xu Xia personally and tried her best to improve the recipe so that Xu Xia, who had a serious morning sickness reaction, could eat more.

　　After the birth of her daughter, Xu Xia, who was persecuted by the idea of son preference, was very worried about the reaction of her in-laws. Fortunately, her mother-in-law liked her granddaughter very much and happily took care of her daughter-in-law for a month. When the daughter-in-law went out to work after maternity leave, she took the initiative to take care of her granddaughter.

　　"My daughter likes her grandparents very much and is closer to her mother-in-law than I am. Recently, my husband and I plan to have a second child. I have already told my in-laws that they have promised me that they will continue to help me take care of my children. "

　　Who treats me well, I treat whom well, this is the principle that Xu Xia insists on.

　　"My parents raised me, which is an indisputable fact. Therefore, as a daughter, I will give the alimony every month, and the gifts will be sent at festivals. I will do my best when I am sick. As for the rest, I'm sorry, I will never use my life to make a wedding dress for my brother. I don't have this obligation. As for my in-laws, I will honor them and let them have a happy old age. "

　　04. People who have never been kind to you don't deserve to be too kind to them.

　　The playwright's late love once said: "No matter whether it is related to you or not, there is only one kind of relatives in this world, that is, people who care about you and love you, and vice versa."

　　People who have never been kind to you don't deserve to be too kind to them, just because no matter how kind you are to them, they always beat the dog with meat buns, which not only wastes their hard work and money in vain, but will lead to greater disappointment because of higher expectations, which will make them suffer a mental blow.

　　Others' kindness to you needs your treasure, and you need to know how to reciprocate. Ungrateful people don't deserve others' kindness.

　　As Lin Huiyin said: "The biggest regret in life is not that you missed the best person, but that you missed the person who wanted to be nice to you the most."

　　Grasp the happiness you have already got, cherish your happiness, and remember that fate needs to be cherished, otherwise it will end.

　　Today's topic: Do you think Xu Xia treats her mother-in-law better than her own mother? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.