＂Marry a rich girl, otherwise, how can you raise a family of four？＂ Phoenix man： How can this be such a good thing？

　　As the saying goes, getting married is a woman's second reincarnation. When I saw this sentence, I thought it was an exaggeration. However, after watching a lot of news and TV dramas, I slowly recognized this sentence. If a woman marries the wrong person, she will not only waste her youth, but also bring trouble to her children, and may be fatal.

　　For example, in "the legendary swordsman", Younger Yue Lingshan, an eccentric, fell in love with her younger brother Lin Pingzhi and married him. In the end, she died in the hands of her lover.

　　Also, in Double-Sided Adhesive, Hu Lijuan married Li Yaping, paid 130,000 yuan down payment to buy a house, ran errands and paid for it when Li Yaping's father was ill, and also got 100,000 yuan from her mother's family to lend to Li Yaping's sister Li Guanhua to raise money. As a result! She also died at the hands of her husband Li Yaping.

　　Zhang Xiaoxian said: "What best reflects a woman's taste is not her clothes and hobbies, nor the car she drives, the books she reads or the decorations at home, but what kind of man she falls in love with. Even if she has elegant taste in other aspects, if she falls in love with a bad man, she will fall short. "

　　When choosing a spouse, a woman should not be a woman who is in love with her brain. You must understand that it is difficult for a clever woman to cook without rice and that it is a long way to know the horsepower. Humanity needs time to test. Marriage needs not only love as the foundation, but also material foundation. Make fun of marriage, and you will pay a heavy price for it.

　　"Marry a rich girl, otherwise, how can you raise a family of four?" After listening to her mother's "lesson", Su Feng felt speechless: "How can there be such a good thing? Also, I am not my brother's ATM. "

　　01. Take my girlfriend home to see her parents, who are very dissatisfied with her;

　　A year ago, Su Feng met his girlfriend Xiaoman, and their emotional development was relatively stable. On the Mid-Autumn Festival, Xiaoman took Su Feng to see his parents. After getting the approval of his parents, Xiaoman followed Su Feng to his hometown to see his parents, intending to enter the stage of talking about marriage.

　　"After my parents met my girlfriend, they exchanged pleasantries for a while and began to ask her basic information, including her family, family situation, income and requirements for marriage such as bride price and wedding room. Xiaoman told the truth. Afterwards, my mother took me away and told me that she was dissatisfied with this daughter-in-law because she was not worthy of me. "

　　In fact, Su Feng and Xiaoman can be said to be suitable for each other in the real sense.

　　Su Feng's family was poor, his parents lived by farming, he had two sons, and he had to honor his elderly grandmother. The economic pressure was enormous, and the family lived in poverty for decades until Su Feng was admitted to the university. As a member of the Phoenix Men's Army, Su Feng's annual salary is around 250,000. After paying his salary every month, he will give a large sum of money to his parents to improve the life of his family and subsidize his younger brother who works outside the home and makes ends meet.

　　"I am a phoenix man, little man is Fung Wong-Nui, similar to my family. Xiaoman's parents are migrant workers, raising a pair of children. Fortunately, Xiaoman's younger brother is more promising than my younger brother. Although he doesn't earn much as his sister, he can earn his own living. Their family does not value boys, and treats sons and daughters equally. "

　　02. My brother is abrasive, and my parents have pinned their hopes for a better life on me.

　　Why aren't Su Feng's parents satisfied with this marriage, since they are suitable for each other? Why do you think Xiaoman is not worthy of Su Feng?

　　"We spent so much money for you to go to college, just to make you earn more money, find a good marriage, and let the whole family enjoy it together. Why do you have a crush on another countryman? "

　　Su Feng's parents treat their eldest daughter-in-law in three ways.

　　First of all, the woman must be an only child, and a sister can be considered. A brother is absolutely not allowed. "Don't tell me that parents treat each other equally. Whenever there are boys at home, parents will be biased and will ask their daughters to help."

　　Secondly, don't give a bride price, it's better to solve the wedding room thing together. "You graduated from a university with an annual salary of 250,000, so excellent, girls who want to marry you can row a street. Besides, our family really has no money. As you know, your brother earns more than 4,000 yuan a month, and he spends a lot of money, so the old couple can't make any money. What will he do if you don't help? Playing bachelor? "

　　Finally, be filial, be reasonable, and have the consciousness of being a mother. "Anyway, I will live with you in the future. You have to take care of your brother for a lifetime."

　　03. Phoenix Man wants to marry Hu Lijuan, but how can it be such a good thing?

　　After listening to the parents' standards for their eldest daughter-in-law, Su Feng also thought of the drama Double-sided Adhesive. Indeed, as a Phoenix man, he also wants to marry a woman like Hu Lijuan who doesn't want a bride price, offers money to buy a house, lets her in-laws move in and asks for money from her family to help her husband's family. However, how can it be so easy?

　　"When I was in college, I had a good friend who, like me, was also a Phoenix man. He took a fancy to a rich girl, wanted to pursue her, gave her a gift, and stuck in front of the dormitory to express his love. As a result, the girl's parents knew about it, came to the school, and beat my classmate to death. "

　　"Marry a city girl, get the money from her family, and use it to make her family live a better life. You play abacus very well, but dream on! I would rather raise my daughter for life than let her marry Phoenix Man. "

　　After graduation, Su Feng also met a girl with a well-off family in the company and tried to pursue her. She was bluntly rejected by the other party: "I have a standard for choosing a spouse. I don't want to climb high, marry into any rich family, and don't want to be low. I take the money my parents have worked hard to make wedding clothes for others."

　　"Which have such a good thing? Do you think all girls are love brains? Do you earn a lot of 250 thousand a year? Also, what eldest brother is like a father and a sister-in-law like a mother? You're still here! My brother is also an adult, and I have no obligation to take care of him for a lifetime. "

　　Su Feng had a big fight with her parents and was kicked out of the house by her parents. Although Xiaoman didn't know what had happened, he also realized that the man's parents didn't like him and returned to the city, ignoring Su Feng.

　　"What should I do? If this continues, my parents and younger brother will drag me down. "

　　04. Don't think too highly of your children, and don't treat other girls as silly.

　　Writer Su Qin said: "The world hates those who want to take advantage of marriage. I always feel that the combination of "not greedy for money" is noble enough, but those women who don't want cars or houses can't afford to be married by men. Their spiritual needs are beyond the reach of ordinary men. "

　　Don't think too highly of your children, and don't be silly when they are girls. If you want to calculate others, others will not be easily taken in. If you treat this marriage with a profit-making mind from the beginning, you can't let it last for a long time.

　　I remember Lu Li said in "Clay": "If you always regard yourself as a pearl, you will always have the pain of being afraid of being buried; Think of yourself as dirt and let everyone trample you into a rainbow. "

　　To be a man, you must be self-aware and have a bottom line. If you have a bad personality, you will always calculate others, and people who love you again will not want to be with you.

　　Today's topic: Do you think Su Feng can still get a wife according to Su Feng's mother's request? Welcome to share your opinions in the comments section.