Woman oral： I cheated on you more than a dozen times, and I'm addicted. See the essence of women's infidelity from extramarital affairs!

　　People who long for marriage describe marriage as a happy destination; People who are tired of marriage call marriage the grave of love! However, it is undeniable that the current marriage is far less stable than before. Is it because of the lack of chastity brought about by the open mind, or do people begin to pursue their own happiness and satisfaction? This is a thought-provoking question!

　　I am a woman who has cheated repeatedly in my marriage. Although I know it is immoral, I enjoy this life. Because extramarital affairs are like drugs, once you are addicted, it is difficult to get rid of them. Even if you break up with this one, there will be another one soon!

　　My first affair was in the fifth year after my marriage. At that time, my husband was very busy at work, and he came back late every night, and most of the time he came back drunk and fell asleep. Although I understand his difficulties, I can't stand his snubbing me like this, especially when I take the initiative to make love to him, and when he refuses, it will make me feel betrayed!

　　There is nothing wrong with a man neglecting his wife at home for his career. After all, he is also for this family. But what's wrong with finding another man when a woman can't be satisfied physically and psychologically? After all, her heart is still in this family!

　　Some people may think that since there is no love and asexuality, just divorce, but how many women will take this step in reality? At least I don't think so. After all, our children are still young, and they can't afford the pain of parents' separation. Moreover, I don't want to lose my property because of the divorce between husband and wife. Moreover, even if I get divorced and find a new one, I may not be able to find a better one, so I can make do with it. Not many women are willing to take the initiative to divorce!

　　My first cheating partner is very ordinary, with average personality, average appearance and average technology. I didn't get what I wanted from him, but I felt deeply guilty and betrayed about my husband, so there will be no more between us soon!

　　I thought I would feel more guilty and sorry for my husband for cheating for the second time. I didn't expect that after being satisfied, I didn't feel a trace of guilt in my heart, but I also felt happy! Because he is not only handsome, but also gentle to me, especially in that respect.

　　Since I was with him, I have become more and more gentle! When I got home, not only did I have no previous quarrel and cold war with my husband, but even when he lost his temper, I tried to be tolerant, and even my husband began to praise me for being gentle and considerate! Only I know the reason, because when I was in insatiability, I had nowhere to vent my anxiety, so how could I care about other people's feelings? But now that I have been nourished psychologically and physically, I can naturally understand others better! What I didn't expect was that my marriage and family became harmonious because of cheating!

　　No matter men or women, there are only two attitudes towards the other half after cheating: one is to make up for each other as much as possible, and as long as things don't get out, their feelings will get better and better. The other is to feel confident, which will not only push things around in husband and wife's life, but also frequently criticize them in daily life. The former, even if the other half finds the clue of things, some are unwilling to reveal it in order to enjoy the harmony and gentleness in front of them. And even if the latter is not divorced after being discovered, it will definitely turn upside down!

　　Perhaps at the beginning, I felt that everyone wanted what they wanted and would not fall in love with each other. But after a long time, you will prove your idea wrong!

　　Originally, I thought cheating was to get what I couldn't get in marriage, but as the time of communication grew longer and longer, I gradually became dependent on each other and fell in love with each other! At first, I just thought I liked that feeling, but I didn't really fall in love with him, but later I found that I couldn't live without him more and more, and I realized the seriousness of the matter!

　　An extramarital affair that takes part in accidental amusement is not terrible. Apart from physical betrayal, it has no substantial influence on marriage. But when you really fall in love with an extramarital lover, it is bound to shake the marriage in your heart, which is the most terrible! When he realized this problem, he began to choose to alienate me slowly. Even though I was so disappointed, I still had to accept the result!

　　Many people think that women's infidelity is all about insatiability, but in fact it is mainly related to opportunities. Even a happily married woman can't help herself when facing her favorite man, but she still has to pretend to be reserved on the surface. If the other side is willing to take the initiative to attack, I believe it will fall before long, which is the fate that no woman can escape! It's just that a woman who has never been out of line will have a struggle in her heart, with both the urge to try and the anxiety. The key depends on whether the east wind overrides the west wind or the west wind overwhelms the east wind! For women who have already had an affair, there is naturally no need to be so reserved. After all, one more person has no substantial impact on himself!

　　Not only men will like the new and hate the old, but also women! When a man is just with you, perhaps because he is fresh, he will certainly please you in every way and give you whatever you want. You can get along with each other for a long time, and when the novelty disappears, you will recover your original appearance and no longer cherish you so much! Since there is no long-term plan, why should we get used to their bad habits? Breaking up is the only option!

　　Women cheat only zero times and countless times, because as long as you uncover the fig leaf of desire, it will be difficult to turn back. Even if you don't find someone else, others will always come to you! When men talk about women with rich love history, they always look contemptuous, but secretly they like the horn to attack these women best! On the road of extramarital affairs, experienced women are always more popular than those who have no experience!

　　I'm not preaching extramarital affairs, but warning everyone that it's hard to turn back once you take this step, so you should think twice. As for my ending, you don't have to worry, even if my husband knows, it will only be a divorce at most. But without these experiences, maybe we would have divorced long ago, so I can afford this ending! Now our husband and wife are very harmonious, and I separate love from that aspect, that is, try not to affect the families of both sides!

　　Perhaps most people think I am a bad woman, but I just don't want to suppress my needs, I just want to be a happy woman! I know this is wrong, but when you set foot on this step, it is doomed to be a point of no return! Sometimes you have to choose between morality and desire. Even if you really want to choose morality, you can't stop the temptation of desire. This is the situation I am facing now!