In sexual life, the more ＂hard＂ women are at these times, the more men love you.

　　Text | Miss White Anchor | Xiao Qi

　　Source: Michelia (ID: NVrendds) of White Orchid.

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　　Some people say that love teaches people to grow. When I was young, I always thought that love was a very simple thing. Holding hands and holding a hug seemed to last a lifetime. It was not until I got older and experienced many hardships that I discovered that the original feelings were far more complicated than I thought. It is always easy to fall in love, but it is really too difficult to get along. There are many stories about love at first sight, but not every couple can go to the end.

　　Long-term love must be a constant running-in process. Only when two people are careful and tolerant, can their feelings develop steadily. In sexual life, women should pay more attention to these three aspects. The more "hard" you are, the more men love you!

　　It is necessary to pay enough attention to love. Although paying is not necessarily rewarding, if you are unwilling to pay from beginning to end, it will be impossible to make a positive result. Love is a very serious matter. If you don't make enough psychological preparation, don't start easily, but once you start, please be sure to love seriously. There are always people who like to treat a relationship with a playful attitude. You think that if you don't give your heart, you will take advantage, but in fact, you may lose more than anyone else, because that is your youth, time and even your personal reputation.

　　People who love each other seriously will always find their true partner, and they will form a new family and live happily for the rest of their lives. And those who love casually can never have a stable family. They are like a duckweed, always wandering between different lovers. When you love, please push harder. As long as you find the right person, all your efforts will surely be felt by him. And he, with greater sincerity and more love, will repay your efforts.

　　When you love yourself, you should try your best to be a woman, have the determination to love someone, and have the ability to love yourself. Many women will become especially forgetful after falling into a relationship. They will become men-centered in everything. No matter what happens, they will consider men first, but never care about themselves. For the beloved man, some women can give up their jobs, their friends, their hobbies, concentrate on men, and even become an old lady. Can you really get a man's 100% love if you completely ignore your own selfless dedication? Not necessarily, even some men will get bored day after day.

　　He will think that you can't make money, are not independent enough, have no thoughts, have no temperament, and after a long time, maybe he really regards you as a free nanny. If women want men to love themselves more, they must learn to respect and love themselves in their feelings. You have never been her accessory. You should have independent thoughts, personal preferences, your own circle of friends, and most importantly, the ability to support yourself. The more you pay attention to yourself, the more you can have outstanding personal ability and temperament, and the less he dares to despise you. On the contrary, he will only be full of more affection for you.

　　We should vigorously reject unreasonable things. Recently, there is a popular word called "refusing to do business", which, as its name implies, is to reject the ability of others. People who refuse to do business are very clear about how much they have, and they will resolutely refuse to do things they can't or don't want to do. The people who refuse to do business are the typical good guys in life. They are embarrassed to refuse, for fear that others will be unhappy, and they reluctantly agree, but basically they can't get a good ending. If you don't do things well, he will blame you; If you get things done, he will find you more things. In the relationship between men and women, there are many women who have been playing such a nice guy.

　　They never know how to refuse, as long as men speak, even if they know it is unreasonable, they will still bear it silently. And the result of this resignation will only be that men are more and more ignorant and cherished. Love is trying to be tolerant, not mindless obedience. The more you obey everything, the less he will take you seriously. A woman must have her own personality and temper. When she meets something unreasonable, she must refuse decisively. Only when you are tough enough, will she really take you to heart. The more you love a person, the more you must grasp the sense of proportion, relax when you should relax, and exert yourself when you should exert yourself. Only by grasping the scale can you really be comfortable in the emotional world.

　　Author: Miss Bai, a working woman, writes warm and powerful words, sharing an interesting and meaningful life with you, growing up with you and being strong with you. The new book "Live What You Want" is in the exclusive pre-sale of Dangdang. Source: Michelia (ID: NVrendds). Authorized to publish this article, please contact the author for reprinting.

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