The break-up of adults： not deleted, but no longer contacted.

　　one

　　The day before yesterday, my wife complained to me that her best friend in high school was getting married, but she didn't tell her.

　　When my wife was brushing her circle of friends, she brushed the wedding news of her best friend in high school. Seeing the happy smile on her best friend's face, she was happy from the bottom of her heart.

　　But it also gives birth to some regrets. She said that they had never quarreled, but how did they become strangers from friends who talked about everything? Nowadays, even the good news of each other's marriage can only be known through friends circle.

　　I can only comfort her that you still think you are a child!

　　Children can't wait to tell the world when they break up.

　　The break-up between adults is always quiet.

　　Two

　　In our address book, there are some people who used to be very good friends and even lovers, but they haven't contacted each other for a long time, leaving only a series of contact information.

　　Not deleted, and no longer contacted.

　　Just diving tacitly, silent in their contact lists, no evil, but there will be no intersection.

　　Not deleting is a beautiful memory and reservation of the past;

　　No contact, because we really can't go back.

　　The real parting is silent, without prelude or follow-up, leaving everything in the memory.

　　As the book "Tomorrow in Maxwell" says:

　　"There is no ancient pavilion road for real parting, and you are not advised to have another glass of wine. It is in the same morning as usual that some people stayed yesterday."

　　three

　　In the adult world, the end of a relationship is not all caused by mistakes and quarrels.

　　Sometimes, just because of their different growth paths, they gradually fade away with the passage of time.

　　Dear Andre wrote:

　　"Life is actually like a road from a broad plain into a forest. On the plain, companions can walk in groups, pushing forward and squeezing back happily, caring for each other;

　　Once in the forest, grass and thorns get in the way, the situation will change, and everyone will concentrate on their own way and find their own direction. "

　　Some people, walking away, even if they get back, they can't go back to the beginning. It's better to forget about each other than to care about each other.

　　Lu Xun and Runtu were childhood playmates. At that time, Runtu was lively and clever, and kept describing interesting things in the country to Xunge, who was a kaleidoscope-like teenager.

　　But when Lu Xun returned to his hometown after a long absence of 20 years and saw the leap soil again, the other party respectfully said "Sir", which made him speechless.

　　The scene of Lu Xun's reunion with Runtu reminds me of a sentence that Goethe said:

　　"It is always ridiculous for people who are familiar with each other to show their respect for go to the lavatory."

　　four

　　I like this sentence very much: "There are so many missing people in this world who are no longer in contact."

　　In this world, the most elusive and uncertain thing is fate.

　　The origin is doomed, the feelings are deep and shallow, and ten thousand points are not from people.

　　San Mao said:

　　"It is the normal state of life to know each other."

　　When we first met, we started with a "hello" and ended without any farewell.

　　The dissipation of a relationship, even if I don't know when it started, is unconsciously drifting away from each other.

　　But life goes on. You must accept the sudden loss in this world. Spilled milk, lost wallet, lost lover, broken friendship ...

　　When nothing you do can help, the only thing you can do is to make yourself try to be better.

　　Finally, I wish you far away, everything goes well, everything wants to be safe!

　　(Author: Jing Yan)