The more women who do these three things, the more addicted men will be.

　　Author | Xiaobei

　　Source | Xiaobei (ID: kuwoxiaobei)

　　I don't know if there are any girls around you:

　　I met a boy I liked very much, but I always felt that the other person might not like me, so I forgot.

　　When you meet a good company, you always subconsciously think that your ability is not good, so you hesitate;

　　For the ideal life, I will always be afraid that I can't realize it, and even dare not plan it ...

　　I am cautious everywhere in my life, and I am bound by my hands and feet in my actions. I dare not pursue what I want, and I can't accept what others give me generously.

　　This is actually a "sense of belonging" at work, because these girls "sense of belonging" is too low, and then look down on themselves and feel that they don't deserve it.

　　As everyone knows, the key to getting better and better is to improve one's "sense of deserve".

　　And how to improve the sense of "deserve"? Try it from the following points.

　　Many times, we always feel that we are not beautiful enough, that we are not good enough, and that we always take others' comments to heart.

　　But in fact, the imperfection in this world is the normal state, and everyone has their own shortcomings.

　　Allowing imperfections is a person's truest self-confidence and cleverest choice.

　　Just like Betty in the American drama Ugly Betty, she doesn't have a good figure, exquisite facial features, can't wear them, and even wears braces. There are too many "imperfections" in her.

　　However, she never takes others' evaluation of herself to heart, but learns to accept herself, everything, and feels that she is beautiful, but those people don't know how to appreciate it.

　　"So when you start to realize your imperfections, you have already begun to become perfect."

　　Therefore, allow yourself to be imperfect and accept yourself from the heart, so as to interpret the wonderful life.

　　When I was watching Mao Xuewang, I was deeply impressed by one scene.

　　Li Xueqin said that she has no sense of security about everything and relationships, and she is in a state of being lost at any time.

　　Even in the face of others' trust, I will have a sense of deception, and I will feel that I can't achieve what others expect, and I think I have deceived everyone.

　　And Yang Naizhen pointed out sharply: This is because you don't feel worthy enough.

　　You see, people with low sense of deserve will never affirm themselves from the heart. Even if others believe in themselves, they will fall into self-doubt and entanglement.

　　On the contrary, Yang Tianzhen is a person who is very sure of himself.

　　She was born in an ordinary family, but she never felt inferior, nor did she feel sorry for herself, nor did she deny herself. She always believed in everything she deserved.

　　This also makes her live generously and calmly, confident and calm.

　　Indeed, the more certain you are, the easier it is for you to live well.

　　Therefore, never say "I don't deserve it", but believe from the heart that "I deserve it".

　　When you unconditionally believe that you are worthy, you will emit a magnetic field, and good luck and opportunities will come to you.

　　There is a good saying: "Only you stand in front of you."

　　Deeply convinced, the reason why we feel low is because we always think that we are here.

　　However, it is easiest to kill one's sense of belonging by setting limits and standing still.

　　Only when you have the courage to break the restrictions on yourself can you tap the hidden potential and meet a better yourself.

　　In Yang Lan's book "The world is very big, fortunately, there is you", there is a plot that is deeply felt after reading it.

　　A young woman asked, "Is it important to do well or to marry well?"

　　Yang Lan replied: I think this is a false proposition. Why do you need to make yourself do this multiple-choice question? Well done is security and independence, and well married is happiness. Taking both into account is not only the dream of women, but also the pursuit of men.

　　So, you see, a woman with a high sense of well-being never sets limits for herself or makes unnecessary choices.

　　If you don't set limits on your life, you will be more likely to be anything you want to be, and you will find that you can have everything you want in the end.

　　Therefore, grow towards the sun, be a person with a rich heart, be neither humble nor supercilious, and you deserve all the beauty in the world.

　　Author | Xiaobei, source: Xiaobei (ID: kuwoxiaobei)

　　Anchor | Yanan, radio anchor.

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