After the age of forty, women will toss and turn, but their lives will be better.

  Are you a woman who loves to toss? Maybe before entering love and marriage, you are a woman who loves to toss. You can dress up, be short-tempered, be spoiled and so on.

  However, when you fall in love and marriage, you may become a sensible woman, right? There is no denying that most women in real life are like this.

  After falling in love and marriage, most women will become sensible for various reasons, perhaps because they are afraid of each other leaving themselves, or because of trivial matters in life.

  Such women originally thought that being sensible could bring them a comfortable life, but in fact, they are not. They often face men's dislike and their own complaints.

  Ke Zhang is a 45-year-old woman. She and her husband, Wang Ming, have been married for 20 years. They have a pair of children and are now in college.

  Since she got married and gave birth to a child, Ke Zhang quit her job and concentrated on being a housewife at home, taking care of her children, husband and family.

  I don't know when it started. She changed from a woman who loves tossing to a sensible woman.

  Since she didn't go to work, she has stopped dressing herself up. Every day, she looks plain and rarely does maintenance. On the one hand, because she is busy with family and children, she has no time; On the other hand, there is not much money to maintain such an expense.

  She is busy every day, picking up the children, doing housework and cooking ... Although she has no job, she is also very tired and stressed, but she never talks about him.

  She takes good care of everything inside and outside the house, never asking him for help, and never bothering him too much. She believes that being a sensible woman will make Wang Ming less stressed and make Wang Ming love himself more.

  However, the reality is not like this. For twenty years, she has been working day after day repeatedly. Although there is no complaint in her mouth, there are still many complaints in her heart, so she is getting more and more unhappy.

  And Wang Ming looks at her "bitter gourd face" every day, and naturally wants to alienate her. Later, Wang Ming fell in love with another woman, who was a beautiful and exquisite woman, the same age as her. At that moment, she finally collapsed. She used to be a woman who loved beauty and dressing up, but now ...

  In the end, the two divorced. For Ke Zhang, she was afraid that Wang Ming would leave her and turned herself into a sensible woman, but it was her understanding that made Wang Ming leave her.

  In fact, in the emotional world, sometimes being sensible is not necessarily a good thing. You know, after forty years old, women will toss and turn, but their lives will be better!

  Toss your appearance and dress up more.

  At any time, men love beautiful women, which is undeniable. After all, people are visual animals.

  Therefore, you should learn to toss about your appearance more, especially after forty. You know, a woman will look old if she doesn't dress up at forty, but july rhapsody is still in her prime at forty.

  At this time, you need to put on more makeup, change your style and take care of yourself. In this way, it will not only make men feel fresh and love you more, but also make you feel beautiful.

  So, don't think that everything will be settled as long as you get married. You know, there are still many beautiful women outside.

  Toss each other, coquetry and tantrums.

  After forty years old, if you can toss each other, then you will have a better life.

  No matter what age you are, you should learn to play coquetry and get angry with each other more often. You know, there is a saying that "coquetry is the best life".

  Therefore, if you can toss each other, be more coquettish and lose your temper, the other party will think that you have always needed him, and he will feel needed and naturally pay attention to you.

  On the contrary, if you are always sensible and don't bother him with anything, then he will alienate you because he feels unwanted.

  In this way, not only will you feel very tired, but he will also transfer this desire for protection to other women. Therefore, the more you toss at this time, the more the other person will love you.

  Toss your inner self and learn new things.

  There is no denying that a woman with inner self will have a very attractive personal charm. Therefore, after forty, you should never think that you don't need personal charm when you are older.

  In fact, the older you get, the more you need personal charm, because it can help you catch a man's heart and make him inseparable from you.

  Therefore, you need to toss your inner self more. You can try to learn something new, such as reading regularly, learning yoga, learning illustration and so on.

  You know, once you learn something, your whole temperament will naturally go up and your personal charm will be more attractive.

  Women should never be afraid of tossing, because the more women toss, the better their lives.

  After forty years old, you must not think that everything is stable or even content with the status quo when you get married. You know, this is often your man, who will be attracted by another woman who loves to toss.

  Besides, don't always think about being a sensible woman, because the more sensible a woman is, the less she can get the love of others, and what she gets is often the neglect and indifference of others.

  Therefore, for whatever reason, you should never be a sensible woman. You can be sensible, but don't overdo it. You know, from the moment you are too sensible, you have already lost.