A 40-year-old middle-aged woman, who comes to me many times, said frankly： because she will be addicted.

　　foreword

　　In fact, each of us should be very clear about what loyalty means to marriage. If marriage is a house, loyalty is the foundation of the house. Once loyalty is betrayed, it is equivalent to a foundation tower, and the foundation collapses, the house will crumble.

　　However, everyone understands this truth, but not everyone can do it.

　　Then why do some people betray their marriage and betray it again and again? Let's listen to what three women have to say.

　　Ms. Zhan, 40 years old

　　I am 40 years old. Originally, I was a woman full of beautiful imagination about marriage and love, but all this was ruined by my husband. Before I married my husband, many people around me told me that my husband had been in love with many women and stepped on many boats at the same time.

　　But I didn't believe it at that time, because my mind was full of my husband, and I couldn't listen to what others said at all. But when my husband and I got married, I gradually found that my husband was not as good as I expected, and even I found that he smelled of women's perfume several times, and even had lipstick marks on the collar of his clothes.

　　But I believed his fabricated lies again and again, until I saw him walking with a woman in an intimate manner, which broke my inner fantasy.

　　I was angry inside, but I didn't choose to divorce him, but chose to fight him back in the same way. After that, I also began to have an affair, which lasted for many periods.

　　Ms. Wang, 40 years old

　　I am 40 years old. To be honest, I am a woman who loves love very much. I can even say that I am full of idealism about love. In my opinion, I very much hope to marry a man who can fit in with my heart. It was because my husband and I reached a spiritual fit that I chose to marry him.

　　I thought this kind of marriage would be very happy, but what I never thought was that our marriage was eventually defeated by the daily necessities of life.

　　Then I began to give up on myself and seek happiness from extramarital affairs, but the result was out of control. I knew that I was falling into the abyss. If I didn't get out quickly, I would fall to pieces, but I was addicted to extramarital affairs and couldn't turn my head.

　　Ms. Yi, 40 years old

　　I am 40 years old. I used to be particularly stupid. In the face of love and bread, I resolutely chose love. At that time, I was proud of my decision, but what happened later made me understand that choosing love is not necessarily happy, and choosing bread is not necessarily bad.

　　After I married my husband, we lived a frugal life every day. In fact, if that's all, I wouldn't complain at all, but what I can't stand is that my husband doesn't make progress at all. I encourage him kindly, but he is particularly sensitive and thinks I'm satirizing him.

　　After a long time, I gradually became disappointed in him and vaguely regretted marrying him. Later, I met a man who was very kind to me. That man was not only more capable than her husband, but also more understanding than her husband. I didn't know how many times he was better than her husband, and then I came together with him.

　　I know it's wrong for me to do this, but it's not my fault at all. I can only blame my husband for pushing me out. Since being with that man, I can't wait to be with him every day, and I don't want to go back to my husband for a moment.

　　tag

　　I found that most people can always find a bunch of high-sounding reasons after betraying their marriage. It seems that they are helpless and forced to betray their marriage, but in fact? In the final analysis, it is because they have the heart to betray their marriage.